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Last Post: 9 Aug 2013
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sa11y   
9 Aug 2013
Love / Adultery- Is it ok for Polish women [41]

its so common seen a polish men on adultery

I worked for a big multinational company which used to bring a lot of expats to Poland.
Mainly from UK and Japan. Most of them married. I don't think even single one of them over the period of 3 years I worked there was ever faithful to his wife.

All had their little Polish girlfirends. They would go back home, switch the SIM cards in their phone and live happily with his wife and kids, and then go back to Poland and carry on as usual.

Do you think those English and Japanese wifes of thos men knew and accepted their adultry?
Or rather they didn't know?
Is this any different to behaviour of Polish men you met?
I don't know about Columbian men, but I used to have Brazillian friends. They were far from faithful... Both men and women...
sa11y   
27 Jan 2013
Love / Are all beautiful Polish girls as crazy as this? [262]

Knight rider - you sound like a song...
'If you wanna be happy for thr rest of your life
Never make pretty woman your wife
From the personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you...'
sa11y   
9 Jan 2013
Love / What to answer to the Most annoying phrase that EVERY and EACH polish girl always says? [58]

Yes, Polish people are not the most confident. This is actually a big problem - most of my cousins have decent education, some speak quite good English and they don't seem to get anywhere with it. Sometimes I think that the only reason why I'm not like that is that I left Poland for few years very early and basically had to fend for myself. So I had to learn how to be confident.

A lot of Polish young adults still live with their parents - that's not good for confidence either as Polish parents (especially mothers) are very patronising.
sa11y   
7 Dec 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

and mother's have to do as they're told

Back to the dark ages? NEVER

A capitalist, liberal country where there is total freedom to do what you like with the unborn child

What about a compromise? What about a country where church does not dictate what to do, right of a child is still protected IF is does not create danger to women's life?

In fact, I think the current law works just fine, it just has to be followed correctly and provisions within the law need to be made for mothers that don't want to keep the baby for "economic" reasons.

By provision I mean shelters where they can in dorms stay until they give birth, are fed well enough and after birth they can decide if they keep the baby or give it up. Let's say they can leave baby in the shelter up to 3 months and if they don't come back after that, their maternal rights are taken by default. This still does not solve the issue of "inconvenient" pregnancy, but addressed the major concern. There should also be a surrogacy law, allowing people to adopt baby while a woman is pregnant. I even think this does not need to be free (I know that's controversial) - but any money exchanged has to be done after the baby is born and full adoption takes place.

The reason why many women decide to have abortion is fear for the future. If you remove that, and to certain extent address inconvenience aspect, number of abortions should decrease.

But you can't simply create law that does not allow abortion, this will simply push the problem to the black market to deal with (as it is now).
sa11y   
28 Sep 2012
Language / Burak or redneck? [36]

They are buraki. Lumpenproles will have element of patologia. I would say that the are kind of borderline, but this is a comedy show not really dealing with patologia.
sa11y   
21 Sep 2012
Travel / Why does everyone seem to hate LOT Polish Airlines? [380]

PoleInVegas, I don't even know whre to start to respond that's how wrong you are. Poles don't speak English? Poles don't have acess to internet and don't know what the options are??? Get the hell out of you hole! Internet in Poland cost around 5-10 Usd/p month, and I assure you that 99 % of Poles have access to it and know how to use it. Most intercontinental flights are via European hub, so in fact even if you don't speak English (as some of the senior travelers) you actually don't need to, as there usually will be someone in the interchange airport that will accompany you to your gate to catch connecting flight. Most of flights now are code share, i'm surprised that pilot does not know that. Aircrafts HAVE TO meat ar least European standards to be able to fly, again - a pilot does know that? Poland is a border of Shengen zone, that explain presence of army I guess? Anyway, these are Shengen, not Polish security rules. Jeeeez, I'm a very moderatw person, but you got my adrenaline going!

By the way - I do not like LOT. Extremely patronising attitude and crap service, that I agree. But your reasoning is very very far from the truth. The thing is that is a national airline, and as such it will exist, because it's subsidised. Same as in other countries with crappy airlines...
sa11y   
21 Aug 2012
Language / Funny/strange/deviant words in the Polish language [35]

[Moved from]: What are your favorite lines in Polish movies?

Polish movies (especially those from communist era) have very specific kind of humor.
Have you got any favorite lines that you could share with the rest of us?
One of my favorites is "Kopernik Byla kobieta! ("Copernicus was a women!") from "Seksmisja".
Other good one: "Londyn? Nie ma takiego miasta Londyn! Jest Lądek, Lądek Zdrój! (London? There is no such town as London. There is Lądek, Lądek Zdrój!) - this is from "Miś".
sa11y   
3 Aug 2012
News / Does Polish hotel have right to turn down Americans and Israelis? [73]

In which countries?

South Africa, Botswana and Namibia are also good examples... If I remember correctly India and Nepal also had different fees for tourists and for locals. This is common practice in developing countries, but completely unfair and unjustified in Europe, I haven't seen places in Poland doing this, so I'm hoping that this hotel is the "rotten apple". Accommodation in Poland is NOT cheap. We paid less in Spain, Italy or Greece not long time ago.
sa11y   
20 Jul 2012
Life / Polish sentimental ballads [38]

your input belongs to another thread

You right, I didn't realize such thread exists - otherwise I would have posted it there :)
sa11y   
19 Jul 2012
Life / Polish sentimental ballads [38]

This is also very nice - Little Elf, about unexpected love and losing that love. All on example of little elf appearing from nowhere in the cold and wanting to stay for few moments...

youtube.com/watch?v=BDwzlX_PcKs
sa11y   
28 Jun 2012
Life / Izabela? - Advice with Polish name for a girl [36]

I absolutely agree with you that name should be unique, memorable but not freakish. But in example you gave it's more a matter of form and not the name. And to be honest I'd rather have plain name than a weird one. Another thing is that if you are working for internatinal company you probably noticed that a name that seems unique to you, might actually be very plain and common in another country. Tshepo or Bongani might sound exotic in USA or Europe, but are quite popular in RSA.
sa11y   
28 Jun 2012
Life / Izabela? - Advice with Polish name for a girl [36]

hat's the type of job she'll be perfect for. Want her to be remembered and work in a professional field? Pick a name that will work in that situation.

I beg to disagree. How the hell can you know what is your child going to do in the future? Naming babies with prospective jobs in mind??? Are you for real???
sa11y   
11 May 2012
Genealogy / I love Asiatic influences in Polish peoples' faces [59]

Pawian, I have no idea where you get those pictures from, but they look nothing like Poles I know. There are probably some Poles that have Asian ancestry, as we were raided many times (especially the east part of Poland) but this genotype is definitely not predominant.
sa11y   
7 May 2012
Life / Why is circumcision not practiced in Poland? [701]

No, you are the one that brought the argument of American women into equasion, not very revant for most of Polish men who are unlikely to ever meet one.
sa11y   
7 May 2012
Life / Why is circumcision not practiced in Poland? [701]

just about all of them

Likes and dislikes of American women are totally irrelevant for Polish men IN POLAND. Fuzzy - OP's question was "Why circumcision is not practiced in Poland". And why should it be? It's not routinely practiced anywhere in Europe.
sa11y   
29 Apr 2012
Life / Why is circumcision not practiced in Poland? [701]

Circumcision is not practiced routinly ANYWHERE in Europe. What a lot of savages, the English, Germans, French, Italians and others. Whole lot of them!
sa11y   
5 Apr 2012
Love / Do Polish Women age well? [153]

You are with wrong crowd... Or maybe the ones you think are 30 are in fact in their 40's ;-P
sa11y   
28 Feb 2012
Life / My experience in Poland 15 years ago as an American trying to live and work there. [167]

Guys, this is semantics. Bottom line is that many people retire outside their own country and I don't think Polish law is that much different than i.e. Spanish. You can easily retire in Spain, Italy, South Africa etc. as long as you can prove you have enough money, usually specific amount. If the guy worked all his life in USA he probably has assets he can liquidate, if he is determined enough. Anyway, best place for his questions is Polish embassy.