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Scars of Communism on Polish culture. [55]
I am forever saddened by the ways Communism has permanently damaged and scarred the culture and the people.
This is true to some extent. I think the partitions also "scarred" Poland/Poles.
More Polish people live outside of Poland than inside Poland
Actually it is estimated that there are 20 million Poles outside of Poland (not sure how "Pole" is defined here: ie both parents Polish? second gen Polish?).
destroyed the ability to think out-of-the box to solve challenges.
False. It actually made people think outside the box (ie: how to deal with shortages/how to acquire goods, "kombinowanie").
When you try to go into the store through one of the forbidden lanes -- they go nuts. You must be trying to steal something -- into the store.
I agree. I sometimes feel like a criminal just walking into a store. I think its common in many euro countries.
What maybe someone will steal some bread or fries or salt in their coats and take it out, or maybe someone going to the Symphony will steal a base violin.
Stealing and cheating was part of daily life during the communist era and the partitions. People don't need to cheat/steal to live anymore, but some do and most like to take precautions against would be thieves.
If Gary or Bill in US gets a brand new SUV or a nice new van, or boat, then Ken says "What a nice boat, Gary." and he works harder and saves his money and gets a boat too. If Przemek gets a nice new car or SUV, Pawel and Monica and his neighbors all wish it would catch on fire.
Overall Poles don't react to someone else's success the same way americans/canadians would, for instance. I think some (Poles) feel what you said ("wish it would catch on fire") but others would be very jealous. Either way, the reaction is negative.
That is good to see because many on this forum believe that Poles do not Queue.
They do queue. I found polish queues to be really annoying as people tend to stand very close, front to back, in most cases touching. It is impossible to have a foot or two of space between yourself and the person behind you ... IMPOSSIBLE ... especially when there is an old babcia standing behind you. And when you leave some space between yourself and the person in front, the people behind you get nervous and quite often i would hear "why doesn't he move forward, there's plenty of room."