ZIMMY
22 Feb 2010
Love / They seem nice, but could Polish girls be "gold diggers"? [196]
Women are women; doesn't matter much if they are Polish, Irish, Macedonian, or Brazilian (well, there's a story there but perhaps some other time).
In general, when deciding on marriage women practice hypergamy. This evolutionary instinct is tempered as women age because women's (sexual) power is at its height when they are young (fertile). In short, womens standards drop as they get older and they realize that the top 10 per cent (of) males are not interested in them.
A woman's best bet is marriage and it's best when she marries young (exceptions duly noted). That's because a woman's social power declines after child-bearing age as does the dubious area and appeal of 'beauty'.
Traditional marriage had some advantages for men as well but these have been eroded by discriminatory judicial systems and laws which favor women and discriminate against men.
Today's men are rightfully wary of entering into the marriage contract which binds men in a multitude of ways especially after a divorce (women initiate 70% of all divorces) and when children are involved.
There seems to be a mini-marriage strike by men, especially in the U.S. It's more difficult to get men to bite on that baited hook after these past 4 decades of "politically correct"
feminist driven culture which has stripped men of their masculinity. Men are told they must do this, but can't do that, etc. Women are told they can do anything but without the responsibility that men continue to have. We are now seeing the tragic results as evidenced by single parent families raising their children who are more prone to becoming drug addicts and/or criminals.
It is enlightening to see that even men in these threads have seen the light.
Women are women; doesn't matter much if they are Polish, Irish, Macedonian, or Brazilian (well, there's a story there but perhaps some other time).
In general, when deciding on marriage women practice hypergamy. This evolutionary instinct is tempered as women age because women's (sexual) power is at its height when they are young (fertile). In short, womens standards drop as they get older and they realize that the top 10 per cent (of) males are not interested in them.
A woman's best bet is marriage and it's best when she marries young (exceptions duly noted). That's because a woman's social power declines after child-bearing age as does the dubious area and appeal of 'beauty'.
Traditional marriage had some advantages for men as well but these have been eroded by discriminatory judicial systems and laws which favor women and discriminate against men.
Today's men are rightfully wary of entering into the marriage contract which binds men in a multitude of ways especially after a divorce (women initiate 70% of all divorces) and when children are involved.
There seems to be a mini-marriage strike by men, especially in the U.S. It's more difficult to get men to bite on that baited hook after these past 4 decades of "politically correct"
feminist driven culture which has stripped men of their masculinity. Men are told they must do this, but can't do that, etc. Women are told they can do anything but without the responsibility that men continue to have. We are now seeing the tragic results as evidenced by single parent families raising their children who are more prone to becoming drug addicts and/or criminals.
It is enlightening to see that even men in these threads have seen the light.