They seem nice, but could Polish girls be "gold diggers"?

B drinking is getting to be a real problem here now. Happens a lot in Warsaw.

Ya its unfortunate. It shows desperation amongst these young girls and I don't think they're like some organized group at least in this case it just seemed to be 3 friends.

There were always pick pockets in busy areas like around the train station but now you really have to be careful with your credit card. Staff working at businesses like bars hotels strip clubs taxi drivers will try to get one over on you if they can. Sometimes the owner doesn't know but sometimes the owner gives his or her blessing to do such activity in exchange for a cut. Not just in Poland but almost anywhere throughout the world its just in different forms. Luckily I've never had credit card charges I didn't make or my identity stolen but I know plenty of people who have and it was a huge hassle fixing everything.

I think its like an ingrained thing in many polish people to be a cwaniaczek. If they can get one over on you and you let them, they'll keep doing it all while pretending to be your friend. But if you call them out on it they'll respect you and not try to pull some bs in the future.

Personally I think it's wrong and very short sighted. You can make plenty of money honestly, ethically and over the long term instead of pulling some stupid crap just to make a bit more today. There's a saying for it 'krotkie nogi' meaning such activities have short legs.

In Warsaw, it's people, usually girls, trying to get people into strip bars, the kind where drinks are incredibly expensive. They can be very persistent and the bars more often than not belong to seriously dodgy people. One reason that they're so persistent is that they don't get many takers, but if they do, they get a cut of the spend.

They try with anyone, but if someone looks foreign and/or is wearing a suit, they really hassle you and don't want to take no for an answer.

It started in one place, the corner of Nowy Swiat and Chmielna/Foksal, however I've seen them doing it in a few places now, so obviously spreading across town. As far as I know, it's legal unfortunately.

Yes apparently if the card owner is present in the establishment while charges are being added to their card the police can't really do much. I've heard cases where British guys and other males who are travelling for business would get their credit cards charged to the point of being maxed out over the course of a few hours. Also a lot of people aren't too familiar with the exchange rate so they think a 300 zloty drink is fairly priced.

In Miami this practice was very pervasive and the bar owners would hire pretty Russian girls for the specific purpose of overcharging a customer's card. In the us its fairly easy to get the company to refund your money in such a scenario but apparently in Europe its much more difficult to get the card company to issue a refund.

I know for a fact that the girls get a cut of each drink sold in such places. If they can sell say 1 drink an hour on average and make a $12 cut I could see how polish girls could be enticed to do such work especially if they have few other prospects.

I know this post is really old and kinda irrelevant now. The OP might even have recovered from all this and who knows might have found true love and be really happy today.

Although here OP was naive to let someone take advantage of him so much. A man who doesn't think from his dick knows what the girl is up to more or less. First of all, OP shouldn't be paying every single penny of her education and living. Tons of college student work at different places to support themselves in college OP could have asked her SO to do the same rather than being a sugar daddy. If you did ask her to and she didn't do it then you ignored a red flag there. Also, if you married her when she had no income and you were the breadwinner and had assets you should have done a prenup. If you didn't do it then it's not anyone else fault but yours. I am not a pole neither am I trying to defend one here but you got burnt because of your own mistakes. Man up and accept it rather than playing the "women!" card.

If you were the one buying the flat in Poland how is it under her name or how did she even get it? Wouldnt it be yours technically from the get go unless you both sign or it was taken with alimony? Perosnally I am finding out about all this stuff and finally stepping into the adult world being all my life in the u.s. on probation or in jail.

Yes in no uncertain terms they are gold diggers, it's sad but I met thousands they sleep around and just want guy with cash and to pretend they queen of sheba. It's pretty pathetic and sad, the worst trait I see is pathological lying this seems to be a normal trait from them unfortunately

How we're the cornflakes anyway? You know the ones you woke up with your face in.

What does it matter if they are gold diggers. You dig them, they dig you, all are satisfied. Just don`t be fool to fall in love.

I've noticed that every woman on Sympatia or Polish dating sites is literally a gold digger. Literally all of them will tell you that they are talking to you because they value your brains or intellect or thats what they look for in men lol. Do Polish guys really buy that crap? Literally the only trait they care about are wallets or sponsors. This has to be the most shallow country of females. This guy said some interesting things about the subject of sex dolls and their appeal:

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Yes, there are women who value wealth over everything else in a relationship. However, that's certainly not a majority of women. Rather, most women simply don't want to date a broke ass bum.

Ever since the stone age when men and women were living in caves the most important thing to a woman was safety, security and being able to provide. It's no different in the modern era. The only thing that's changed is safety and security use to mean physical ability to kill something for dinner to now it's financial stability, assets, a good job, an education, ownership of a business, a good position in a company, etc.

Even with all that feminism B.S. and female empowerment and independence it still hasn't changed the fact that women desire a provider, a bread winner. Very few women want a man that lays around the house while she brings home the bacon.

Thats not really true tho. Look at artists or musicians even broke ass ones or the starving artists. Plenty of them date or have sex or lots of women would rather be with them than some chump in a suit. Im like Leonardo Dicaprio in the movie titanic while I bet you are more like that moron chasing that chick around in a suit. I have sensitivity about me, flair, and artistic touch and intellect which they value. Just not Polak ones with half brain from dating sites or clubs. Hispanic women for instance always date or usually broke ass dudes. And Im not really broke I just dont spend my cash on some biach or her bullshet hair sprays or whatever. I dont give out freebies just because polak fems act like hos who are high maintenance. Nor do I care about my appearance or some brand clothing. It makes no difference to me. I am a minimalist and follow function over form not form over function despite owning and liking apple products. oh and unless she is perfect i dont do relationships. I do friends with benefits or casual "sympatie" or just one nighters.

Older women have always liked me and still like me. But the Polish ones are stuck up *******. I was in this hot tub or pool the other night and tried to start a convo with one and she wouldnt shake my hand but finally admitted her name like she was too "I **** higher than my head is" to even want to introduce herself despite smiling to me and making eye contact when I walked outside of the hot tub and so I went back in and tried to talk to her. And she was in like her 50s I think but I think was one of thos ehigh maintenance types with abotox and a fake tan. I figure the pool or hot tubns are better spots to meet than clubs or sympatia.

That is why, as opposed to men, women never want to marry down. That tattooed dude on a Harley is fun but will never be seen with her at her office party.

You were just saying how most women are gold diggers and that they only care about money and that's why you can't hook up with your desired type namely underage, now you're saying that they value sensitivity and intellect, so which is it?


Sure you are.... minus the good looks and millions of dollars...

and I don't wear suits nor do i chase tail. My regular getup is a button down Bugatchi shirt, nice pair of jeans, air max's, and some bling. I chose the kind of relationship I want and match a female that's looking for the same whether it's casual dating or a more serious relationship depending on my priorities and what I have going on in my life at the time.


Older women especially divorcees are glad to have sex with any young guy. Their only other choice is someone of the same age who is likely not going to be as passionate as a 20 or 30 year old. So of course they're going to go after younger men to fulfill that itch rather than a deeper connection.


My point exactly. You are a boy an older, wiser, and more experienced cougar uses for sex. Outside of being a youthful sexual novelty you don't offer anything. It's no different than some 60 year old dude paying a 20 year old escort.


Look at the top 5 richest men in the world. All divorced. This is the western society we live in. Jewish media and this ridiculously stupid culture have turned everything that use to be respected as good and wholesome as now backward and every taboo and vice to be celebrated. That's why now marriage ending in divorce is basically down to a coin toss. This is why I hope that maybe some day the west has a sort of Taliban or whatever that brings things back to a normal natural state.

The only real refuge left is small towns and rural/suburban life and even that's getting attacked...

and you still have not even addressed half of what i said. Ukrainian men in Poland make garbage money like not even livable wages. yet all seem to have wives or girlfriends... so it proves your theory wrong all females of all nationalists not just polak ones are gold diggers. just because Polish ones are all capitalism enthusiast garbage ugly botox fake hair hos doesnt mean all are the same. just because they like to live the garbage fake Beverly hills or Santana row low class Mexican old ladies life style or desperate housewives doesnt mean i want anything to do with that garbage. if i lived in a multicultural country i wouldnt even look at them.

Plenty of females like this exist in the us as well. They call them "hos who forgot where they came from"/ Usually Mexican middle aged ladies trying to be hot or young. Like these polak fake blond hair botox ******. Nobody respects them and the only thing they can have is some fake tan steroid freaks. or some foreign old man who will treat them as a mail order bride.

read the last message by kojak on page five. even if i had savings or whatever why the hell would i want to marry one of these snakes these polak żmijas? i know how they are bro. heck why would i marry any females or put myself at risk for any conniving snakes? i dont ever plan to marry and i dont do dating or champagne them and walk them around like a dog they expect and buy a bunch of pointless shet for them. fuk fems bro.