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They seem nice, but could Polish girls be "gold diggers"?


Morsczi_Purtk 1 | 25
1 Mar 2010 #121
Why sadly?

Sadly because of a few unhonest b*tches other honest girls may have a bad image? Ever thought of that?

Because foreigners are so stupid?

Yeah, so stupid beliving that somebody likes him and stays maybe with him...

Or because Polish girls are clever?

Rather sneaky don't you think?
Exiled 2 | 425
1 Mar 2010 #122
Can anybody explain to me why men fall for the same tricks again and again?Is our member so stupid after all?
Amanda91 1 | 135
1 Mar 2010 #123
Why sadly? Because foreigners are so stupid? Or because Polish girls are clever?

Well, I don't really blame them even if they're "gold diggers" (it depends obviously what you really understand under it), lol. Who wants to be with some loser without any future?

What I'm saying is that to make a better choice as long as the feelings are involved, there's nothing wrong with it. Unfortunately nowadays life is all about paying some kind of bills and nothing's for free. However using someone just for his money and no feelings involved in it at all, is a absolutely disgusting situation and whoever does it is wrong either way (man or woman).
ZIMMY 6 | 1,601
1 Mar 2010 #124
Of course women, whether they are Polish or not will press for men who are 'security objects'.

In the past year a Spanish woman I knew was constantly 'available' for me, even when I was ducking her (please note that I stated it with a "d" and not an "f"). This scenario is replayed daily and alpha males are more than aware of the potential troubles women like this are likely to cause.

Conversely, women 'feel' that merely giving of themselves (sex) is sufficient. It's not ladies; women are 50% of the population, therefore, it isn't as if women are a rarity. It's noticeable that even younger men are finally expecting more from women; after all, isn't that what equality is about?
Arien 3 | 721
1 Mar 2010 #125
Who wants to be with some loser without any future?

I understand to a certain extent, but who says that someone who doesn't appear to have a future, won't have a future tomorrow? It all starts with having character, and the will to work for it. I really think that sometimes, some guys could really use a hand, and who knows they might even surprise you under slightly different circumstances. I guess I mean to say that some guys might actually do much better under a bit of a woman's influence. I'm not saying we can't do it alone though! It'll just take longer without a partner. Sort of like how some girls will be able to get an education because their boyfriends pay for their appartment, and stuff like that.. (Sharing the rent might also make a HUGE difference!) It's easy to call someone a loser on the forehand, but I think both men and women know that this world isn't always fair for everyone. It's not always the guy's own fault, that's all I'm saying.

I don't think gold diggers are clever though. I mean, one day you'll wake up, realizing time has passed, and that you've spent most of your time with someone you didn't really like, and then you'll realize that you've never shared a real connection with anyone. It can be a cold world without love you know.. (Regrets can really be a bĂ­tch sometimes!)

:)
Amanda91 1 | 135
1 Mar 2010 #126
some guys could really use a hand, and who knows they might even surprise you under slightly different circumstances

I see you don't understand women much :-). What you're saying it means taking chances and we're not as risky as most of you. However you're right about saying that sometimes it might be worth it to take a risk if the person we're dealing with shows positive traits.

As far as the expression "gold digger", I agree, it already sounds nasty and whoever stays with someone only because of money is wrong, like I said above.
ZIMMY 6 | 1,601
1 Mar 2010 #127
I don't think gold diggers are clever though. I mean, one day you'll wake up, realizing time has passed, and that you've spent most of your time with someone you didn't really like,

Ah yes, 45+ year-old single females living with their cats is sad. Yet, I continually run into so many who still feel 'entitled' because that's what our feminized culture has been telling women for several decades now. Yet they wonder why the men they want keep rejecting them.
Arien 3 | 721
1 Mar 2010 #128
I see you don't understand women much :-).

I do understand, don't you think that's probably why I'm discussing it?

;)

What you're saying it means taking chances and we're not as risky as most of you.

So you're saying that a woman who's doing well for herself - in this day and age of equality - can't be with a guy who's doing not so well for himself? I mean, can't women secure themselves these days? Just as much as guys can? No offense, but your way of thinking is traditional for a woman, and you seem to apply the same logic, even when it's obvious that times are changing. I mean, the more women reach higher positions, the more guys will be left out for these positions. (Which in itself isn't a bad thing!)

Maybe this'll explain it better? We have fifty job offers. We have fifty guys, and we have fifty girls applying for these jobs. All these guys and girls have the same qualifications. I'm sure you can do the math as to how this affects the traditional role-pattern? So are the twenty five guys and girls who will not succeed at securing this job automatically losers? Or even stupid? I beg to differ.

However you're right about saying that sometimes it might be worth it to take a risk if the person we're dealing with shows positive traits.

I just want people to be aware of the fact that being single or not can really make a world of difference for younger people these days. Just a decade ago it was doable to develop yourself on your own, all by yourself, but today it's a lot more difficult to survive on a minimum wage, especially when you're single. (It's the same for both men and women ofcourse!)

As far as the expression "gold digger", I agree, it already sounds nasty and whoever stays with someone only because of money is wrong, like I said above.

They'll probably learn when they're older, but in most cases, they'll end up alone when their sugar daddy finds a younger girl to play with. (I understand women well enough to know that the competition can be killing sometimes!)

;)
Exiled 2 | 425
1 Mar 2010 #129
45+ year-old single females living with their cats is sad.

A gold digger collecting money just to buy some cats is sth sad.
LAGirl 9 | 496
1 Mar 2010 #130
No they are not gold diggers they are decent and have a heart. Polish girls are pretty moral decent and stay faithful to their spouses bf or partner. they are not into money I know some that are really cool.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240
1 Mar 2010 #131
A gold digger collecting money just to buy some cats is sth sad.

might be but it's funny that you desperate lot fall for it :)
Exiled 2 | 425
1 Mar 2010 #132
. Polish girls are pretty moral decent and stay faithful to their spouses bf or partner.

You wrote is as a joke,not?

that you desperate lot fall for it :)

Yes,sometimes I want to hit my head on the wall.It is natural for me to be generous everytime a girl asks for money I give her whatever I can.
Arien 3 | 721
1 Mar 2010 #133
No they are not gold diggers they are decent and have a heart. Polish girls are pretty moral decent and stay faithful to their spouses bf or partner. they are not into money I know some that are really cool.

I feel the same way. I've worked with some really hard working girls from Poland, and I know one who even showed up at work when she really should've stayed in bed. She was really sick that day, but she was afraid she would lose her job. I basically had to drag her home, and I made sure that she didn't. I never came across a girl who was so fragile who showed so much character. She had a very big mouth too! (Which I like.)

:)
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240
1 Mar 2010 #134
It is natural for me to be generous

not generous, desperate. generous is when you don't expect anything in return and men like you encourage golddigging.
Exiled 2 | 425
1 Mar 2010 #135
not generous, desperate.

I am generous.Why desperate?It is simply an addiction.The more you get the more you want.

and men like you encourage golddigging.

Yes,because we are rather vulnerable and girls know that.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240
1 Mar 2010 #136
It is simply an addiction.The more you get the more you want.

yes, desperate for more

Yes,because we are rather vulnerable and girls know that.

so shut the hell up and stop moaning about gold diggers. it's the only way you can get sex.
Exiled 2 | 425
1 Mar 2010 #137
it's the only way you can get sex.

This sentence has some truth in it.Not bad expressed.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240
1 Mar 2010 #138
just some? i think we can all agree southern that you won't get a girl into bed with your charm and devilishly handsome looks. just wait till the money runs out.
Exiled 2 | 425
1 Mar 2010 #139
that you won't get a girl into bed with your charm and devilishly handsome looks.

This is the Polki opinion.Damn.You express that right.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240
1 Mar 2010 #140
if you had charm and devilishly handsome looks imagine how much money you could save on getting laid
Exiled 2 | 425
1 Mar 2010 #141
f you had charm and devilishly handsome looks imagine how much money you could save

This is the way to become rich.
Amanda91 1 | 135
1 Mar 2010 #142
don't you think that's probably why I'm discussing it?;)

then again, why would you discuss it if you do? I mean if it's all known to you. lol

So you're saying that a woman who's doing well for herself - in this day and age of equality - can't be with a guy who's doing not so well for himself?

I guess you totally misunderstood me. All I sad is, it's all about making choices.
When you see someone, you don't know anything about his personality or anything else about him so all that counts at this moment is what you see (if someone is saying something else, I don't believe it) and this is when you start making your choices. I mean before you even know if he's intelligent, nice, rich, poor etc.

That means, you have a certain picture of a person that you'd like to be with and this is basically your criteria that you follow before entering the next steps.

I'm not saying that everyone has to share my point of view here.

to develop yourself on your own,

oh absolutely but it has nothing to do with me being "developed" how you say and him not. Unless, somehow (despite any criteria, lol) we'll get to know each other better in the meantime which happens every once in a while even though it really shouldn't.
Exiled 2 | 425
1 Mar 2010 #143
Are there any gigolos in Poland or the last died from hunger?
Arien 3 | 721
1 Mar 2010 #144
then again, why would you discuss it if you do? I mean if it's all known to you. lol

I'm not saying it's all known to me, but ofcourse I understand why women tend to choose the more succesful ones.

I guess you totally misunderstood me.

Fair enough.

When you see someone, you don't know anything about his personality or anything else about him so all that counts at this moment is what you see (if someone is saying something else, I don't believe it) and this is when you start making your choices. I mean before you even know if he's intelligent, nice, rich, poor etc.

Well, over here girls usually talk to eachother about a guy they might be curious about, and that's how they find out if a guy is doing well for himself or not, or if he fits in their community or not. (Not all the girls care about such things though!)

;)
Amanda91 1 | 135
1 Mar 2010 #145
Well, over here girls usually talk to eachother about a guy they might be curious about

That's if one of them knows him, lol.
Besides, just like you said, not all of us care about what other girls think about him.
Exiled 2 | 425
1 Mar 2010 #146
girls usually talk to eachother about a guy they might be curious about, and that's how they find out if a guy

This is exactly the advantage you have with slavic girls.They lack information sources available to locals.
Arien 3 | 721
1 Mar 2010 #147
I have my pride. I want a girl to know who she's sleeping with. If that's not good enough, then that's too bad. (I'll keep my honour, thanks!)

:)
Exiled 2 | 425
1 Mar 2010 #148
I have my pride. I want a girl to know who she's sleeping with.

You promote women gossip?Do we men have any similar kind of information?Noo.
Arien 3 | 721
1 Mar 2010 #149
You promote women gossip?

No, but it's not like I can do anything about it.

Do we men have any similar kind of information?

Hey, believe it or not, but some of us do..

yes, a little :-)

Yeah, but that's because.. (It's probably in my best interest to shut up now?)

;)
Kojak333 3 | 12
1 Mar 2010 #150
This is an interesting thread (topic).

I've thought about scenarios like these before, where a guy marries a woman, then a short while later, or maybe a few years later, she files for divorce and gets HALF of everything.

I think it might be a good idea for a guy, to carefully think everything out beforehand. If he has some degree of money or wealth, he should put the majority of it in a trust, before he gets married. Then make his mother (or someone he really - really trusts) to be the executor of that trust. The guy would become a beneficiary of the trust.

There are smart landlords that do this type of thing, here in the United States. Let's say some guy has a few duplexes or rental properties. He puts every single property in a seperate TRUST. Then if 1 of his stupid tenants tries to sue him......too bad, everything - all the properties are in different trusts. As far as the tenant is concerned, this guy only owns just 1 duplex.

The plaintiff's attorneys aren't going to file a major lawsuit against somebody, who doesn't appear to have any real wealth or money. Why would attorneys sue somebody, if they can't verify that this person has any real money, and that he will be able to get their attorney fees ?

A lot of women you can't trust. I remember years ago, my sister had some kind of boyfriend standing in our driveway, working on her truck, putting in a brand new carbeurator. This was years ago, in the early 1990's.

Anyway, I said "Hey, your boyfriend is out there putting that carbeurator in your truck. You should at least go out there and talk to the guy." - She said.....she really didn't even like the guy, she was just using him, so he would pay for a new carbeurator and install it for her.

Another time, she needed a car. I gave her a car I had, after I bought a new car for myself. I gave it to her for FREE. A few days later, I notice she has several department store bags, with brand new clothes. I ask her where she got the money to buy the clothes. She said she got the money, by selling the car that I gave her. She said she sold the car for $600.00 - Again, this was in the early 1990's.

Geeez.... If I knew she was just going to turn around a few days later, and sell the car, I would have SOLD the car myself and put the $600.00 in my own pocket.

But there are a lot of bad / freeloading guys out there too. A lot of guys that don't work, but expect their girlfriends or wives to do everything --- work, cook and clean.


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