Are all polish girl's gold diggers?
I know this post is really old and kinda irrelevant now. The OP might even have recovered from all this and who knows might have found true love and be really happy today.
Although here OP was naive to let someone take advantage of him so much. A man who doesn't think from his dick knows what the girl is up to more or less. First of all, OP shouldn't be paying every single penny of her education and living. Tons of college student work at different places to support themselves in college OP could have asked her SO to do the same rather than being a sugar daddy. If you did ask her to and she didn't do it then you ignored a red flag there. Also, if you married her when she had no income and you were the breadwinner and had assets you should have done a prenup. If you didn't do it then it's not anyone else fault but yours. I am not a pole neither am I trying to defend one here but you got burnt because of your own mistakes. Man up and accept it rather than playing the "women!" card.