They seem nice, but could Polish girls be "gold diggers"?

Are all polish girl's gold diggers?

Met a polish girl 4 years ago; this is what she got from me,

Paid for her collage fees, books, rent on her flat,
Paid for her masters fees (she was doing architecture course)
Paid for 3000 sq meters of land in Poland (on the understanding that was where we was going to build owner home in Poland,)
Paid for the wedding, holidays to nice places,
She finished her course 6 weeks ago and she left me with on reason why,
Now with legal aid she's after!!!!!!!!
Car
Savings,
You name it she's after it; she's never work in the whole time we've been together,
What a mistake,
look out everyone out there they may seem nice,

Someone has been taken for a ride. People often take when offered, there's nothing new about that.

Short answer, No. You put your finger in your nose and picked a winner.

Counter sue for all the money you paid in tuition fees! Tell her to *** off in no uncertain terms...

I wish I could

But with the hassle the £5k it would cost me (with no sentry that I would win)
It’s already cost me
But what I don’t understand is how she can get legal aid
(Guess what I don’t earn too much) Joke

If what you earn is what is stopping you from getting legal aid, ask your job if you can have a year off. Then sue her to recover the money you spent on her education. I'd also suggest contacting the tax office near where she lives and checking that she declared as income the money which you gave her for those fees. Do the same with the Polish tax office. If the land is in her name, make damn sure the Polish tax office know that the money used to buy it came from you (then she'll be liable for income tax on that money).

IF what you're writing is true you're a king, no not a king a fucking GOD of suckers.

Howeverrrr i'm inclined to think you're full of it since unless she was your wife or had any input into those things she's after she has no right to them and no legal aid would take the case.


If you paid for that stuff, have proof of transactions and she did not have any input into their purchase she's not getting a penny.

Not quite that simple in the UK unfortunately - she can take him for the shirt off his back whether she has paid a penny or not :(


Again, welcome to the wonderful country called England where peoeple who work hard get fucked up the arse and bastards come out smelling of roses!


The w (wife) word means she has got claims on everything!

Is the land in her name ? If so, she might sell it on and therefore cut you out of the loop.

Got the impression she wasnt his wife? But if she is...yeah he's fucked.

He's well and truly fucked, thats why before we say yes, my better half and i we're going to have our income separated so if shit ever hits the fan neither of us (me) doesnt end up stark naked.

and the moral of the story is `pre nup or pay up` once those blood sucking,robbing t--ts the lawyers get involved they cannot wait to get there pound(s) of flesh.

no... the moral of the story is to choose your woman with your UPPER head...

impossible i fear after all `we are but men`

the Polish girl you met may not have been a gold digger at the time you met her, but looking at the list of expenses you were happy to cover no wonder she turned out that way and took advantage of you. anyone would. i find it crazy, what did she pay for? nothing? and you were ok with that?? and you wonder why she's so ungrateful and greedy... you spoil a woman and you create a monster! i think 'spoil' is an understatement here! her nationality has absolutely nothing to do with it. i'm not saying you were asking for it cos being generous is a good thing but when you sponsor someone like that you should prepare and secure your wealth somehow once they get the legal right to all you have. get a good lawyer (i'm sure you can afford one) and save your ass before you got nothing to cover it up with!!

That's a good point. I did the same thing before (once), but it was a woman who was paying for everything. It evenutally led to the point where:

1 - I would invite my friends out, as she would pay for everyone's drinks, etc., and eventually
2 - Me viewing her as my sugar moma (she was younger) who will take care of everything.

In the end, I became ungrateful, spoiled, and above all, lazy. In the beginning of our relationship, I was not like this at all - in fact, I was taken back by the idea of her paying for something on more than an occasional basis. But set a precedent, and the dynamics of the relationship change.

Oh, and she wasn't polish, but man, she spent thousands upon thousands on me. It all went to my head.

Believe me i love our hot Polish girls, but u are gold diggers like hell, the ones in Poland are different, i'm talkin' about the ones living abroad, it's probably due to the fact that they come from relative poverty and have a chance to live better, even though it's HIS money :)

I dont think so, i think most gilrs/women are gold diggers.

When you make promises and plans together but you have alternate plans yourself that in my eyes makes you a gold digger
I paid for those items on faith for a better life for us both (well that didn't work, and what hurt the most wasn't the money but the plan we had)

just wanted to ask u a simple question!!! ( for 4 years ur brain was sleeping and didn't notice with all what u doing that there is something wrong even 1 sign ???)

Now he is going to tell us that he didn't even get his end away, LOL.

Many women take what's on offer but many men don't realise how good they have it with some women. Polish women are very practical and are the pillar upon which many men build their success.

Sorry, you often have to give to get in this life. Just try and be aware of all the things that women do for you.

well said :)

Thanks! There will always be gold diggers in almost every country, WB was right. Still, why shouldn't Polish women pursue this? Relative to their salaries, they don't have much spending power for the most part. Why should Western women have access to their material desires and Polish women not?

i almost can agree with the idea that somtimes they should be like this , but not in rude way :) just dont be like a cave for money ..... man would like to give all the time even if he dosent hv anything to give he will work hard to give , but i think he will be happy if he will feel that what he is doing got a good reactions , comparing polish girls to westren ones is not fair at all :) westren got more and more in all the ways

That was my point. If we assume Polish women to be equal to Western women, then why should Western women be able to receive more material goods and things than their Polish counterparts? I know Western women have more generally and my point was that that is not completely fair. It is natural for women here to go after money. Why? To make things add up better.

So if someone is generous they deserve to be ripped off??? WTF! Kinda shows how your mind works, which makes sense!


Make up your mind Juysty!


Sorry Seanus, we have access to these things because we work hard, not because we single out some poor bastard to milk for all he has!!!

evryone is going after money , there is no shame in this for sure .... the point is if u looking for money from human flush like that poor guy!!!! here we go that's for sure and 100% steeling money in the name of feelings:) i can't call it anything else

sad !!!!!


and you think thats right!!!!!!!


!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Apul how old are you, and how old is the polish girl?

I dont think that's what he was doing! Blimey the way some people think is sick!

No if you had an ounce of decency about you and a real man, you would have stopped this in it's infancy. One a "freeloader" always a freeloader. Don't make excuses.