Love / My reaction to a thread against foreigners marrying Polish girls [37]

Being British, and attracted to Polish women, you won't be surprised to say I think cross-cultural relationships and marriage are good :-). And since we're also in the UN, there could never be any suggestion that either of us would be in it for green card reasons :-)

Love / ACCEPTABLE modest wear for Polish women? [49]

@ the OP, the best way to fit in with a foreign society is to honour its traditions and customs. Polish women are not expected to over their faces and hair. They are not second-class citizens and nor are men treated as animals who cannot control themselves if they see a woman's face or hair. So one option might be for your fiancée to wear a normal fitted top and a skirt or jeans.

If, however, she chooses to maintain her Muslim dress code in a European Christian country, so be it. But it would be wise to reflect on the fact that a Polish woman who travels to, say, Saudi Arabia, Pakistan or Afghanistan cannot dress as she would at home, as Islam is not yet at the point in its evolution at which it tolerates contradictory views or behaviour.

Love / Why a polish girl would prefer a relationship with a foreign man? [30]

Some people think mixed-nationality marriages can be good for bringing up children - they get to learn from and appreciate two cultures.

Love / Woman 23, man 47 years old. What do you think about ? [162]

Well I'm 44, and while I know the chances of me attracting a 23 year-old are small (especially as I really want a Polish one...) I'd like to date a younger woman. It's not because I'm shallow, it's that I'd like to have kids and I think if I could find someone in her early 30s or so the chances are a lot higher.

Love / Marriage with a polish woman - Heaven or Forever Hell ? [60]

What's the plural of polka? I thought it was also polka...?

Love / Marriage with a polish woman - Heaven or Forever Hell ? [60]


I'm not married to a Polish woman (unfortunately), though I'd like to be.

It's my experience that Polka are kind, loving, honourable people who would make amazing spouses. But then, I've met only a handful so am basing my observations on a small sample. It may be that others here who've had less positive experiences are falling into the same trap, only worse.

Life / Why is circumcision not practiced in Poland? [701]


Some Muslims advocate it, on the basis that there's a passage in the hadiths reporting that the Prophet saw a woman circumcising a girl by the side of a road and complimented her for doing it, and also there's a mention of 'the circumcised parts touching' during lovemaking somewhere in the Koran.

Female circumcision is really a misnomer, there are no medical/cleanliness benefits, and it prevents women from enjoying sex. Many of the countries where it's commonplace are ones where the status of women is very low. I've never understood why the men in those communities allow it to continue. Even if women have no rights in those places, surely men would prefer to have sex with women who enjoy it?

Life / Why is circumcision not practiced in Poland? [701]

@ Natasia, as a guy of course I enjoy orgasming in a way, but I also see the disadvantages. For instance it can bring risks or at least fears of pregnancy and STDs for a woman, which are removed and much reduced respectively if the man doesn't climax. Also there's the fact that if a man orgasms too soon, it can reduce pleasure for the woman, or deprive her of another orgasm. And female orgasms are stronger, and longer lasting, than men's, so not only the woman but also the man can get more enjoyment from the woman climaxing again rather than the man doing it once.

Love / Should I forgive my cheating Polish girlfriend? [73]

In the words of the Paul Smon song, everything put together, sooner or later falls apart. IMO this relationship isn't a harmonious one, it isn't meant to be, and prolonging it would cause both people pain.

Love / Observations and experiences so far about Polish women [93]

Natasia wrote: 'So you could, I suppose, translate that into they are man-grabbing, possessive, traditional, opinionated, narrow-minded, frigid mini-matriarchs (if we are talking about the ones in their 20s) ... but would that be fair, I wonder?'

That's a very negative picture. A more positive way of looking at things would be to say that Polish women link love and sex more closely than, say, their British counterparts, that they are strong-minded (but also good home-makers) and that, far from being frigid, they expect lovemaking to be about receiving as well as giving.

On that basis, I think Polish women are very special, actually :-)

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]


I don't think women are just here for my pleasure, in fact the opposite. I'm sure I'm not the only many who'll tell you that when a woman is smooth down there, the only thing we want to do is caress that area, with our hands or mouths, whereas when she's hairy we'd rather just get on with pumping away. So I'd say men are better lovers, and women enjoy sex a lot more, when they're smooth. Also they're more sensitive down there because of removing the hair.

@AK, sorry for misjudging you - I think it's good that you shave, much better than someone else on this forum who seems to think it's OK to stay hairy... Sorry about the hedgehog problem :-(.

Not being female I haven't tried the creams, I'm sorry if they don't work for you. I think electrolysis removes a single hair but also kills the follicle, so no more hairs can grow there. It's a bit like the laser treatment, has to be done a few times but can stop any hair ever growing in a particular area.

I'm pretty sure an epilator is an electrical device, a bit like a shaver to look at, except that it plucks hairs out instead of cutting them. This means it doesn't have to be done so often, and when the hairs return they are very fine and barely visible, and can be plucked out again by the epilator before they become noticeable. It might be the best solution for you - you can be beautifully smooth, without hedgehog days :-)

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

A.K., if you're allergic to waxing that's fair enough. But it's no excuse for being hairy. There's shaving, epilation, cream, electrolysis and laser hair removal. Why not do one of these? You could be as beautiful as Dominika :-).

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

@ Ruzumiemnic, how old is she? Is she single? And most important of all, would she consider dating and Englishman?

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

1:0 to Dominika, I'd say. And I know who I'd rather go down on... :-)

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

@ ilmc, if you're concerned about getting a rash or whatever from shaving or waxing, use tea tree oil afterwards. Or explicate, or use Veet cream. But surely it's more hygienic to be hairless, never mind prettier and better for both man and woman when it comes to sex.

Life / Why is circumcision not practiced in Poland? [701]

I agree :-). But circumcision is still good because if a man is less sensitive down there or finds it hard to climax, hopefully he'll get pleasure from using his tongue or fingers to please his partner instead...

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

I don't buy the idea that man liking women to be smooth down below are secretly into pre-pubescent girls. On the contrary, they like it because it's more beautiful, and more intimate.

Life / Why is circumcision not practiced in Poland? [701]

@ ilmc, as a man I'd rather have difficulty climaxing or be unable to do so than climax too quickly. The male orgasm is only really needed a handful of times in a typical man's lifetime, if that, for fathering children. The rest of the time, making love is surely about closeness and pleasure, and for that the female orgasm is much more important and the male one is best avoided if possible.

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

@ ilmc, you've got to admit, smooth is preferable for certain activities (which women like receiving almost as much as man enjoy giving...)

Life / Why is circumcision not practiced in Poland? [701]

Also circumcision makes a man a lot less sensitive. This may seem a bad thing but of course it takes him a lot longer to climax, which is better for his partner :-)

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

This is a rather crude difference and could be unfair...

I heard that many Polish girls keep the hair in a certain place, where most English ones remove it...

Love / Google: Polish women "easier" than English women - official! [52]

My theory... If a nation's women are wonderful partners, but also very discerning, men will turn to Google in the forlorn hope of finding easy women of that nationality. If they are either ugly or easy, why bother Googling easy versions of them?

Polish women are the best in the world, and also they don't jump into bed with just anyone, hence millions of men Google 'easy Polish women', even if their searches are in vain...

News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2971]


It seems to me that while there are a handful of anti-abortion women, most who oppose women's right to choose are male. And all too often what lies beneath the surface is a desire to punish women for what are described as 'their' lascivious behaviour (forgetting that it also takes a man...).

Whether or not you support abortion, I hope you'd accept that unwanted pregnancy is an emotionally heart-wrenching time for any woman. Consider that there are many ways a man can please a woman, or a woman can please herself, with zero risk of pregnancy. There's only one sexual activity that can get a woman pregnant, and for most women it isn't the one that brings her the most pleasure. So if a woman gets pregnant without wanting to be, on some level she took a risk to please a man, she didn't do it in pursuit of her own selfish pleasure.

Love / Why don't Polish women treat education seriously for themselves? [130]

I guess all-male workplaces could be criticised too.

News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2971]


That's true, and logical, excepting perhaps for women who are raped.

However, it portrays a world in which neither women nor men can have sex unless they are in long-term relationships and willing to bring up and able to afford to support children. This seems to me to be a rather grey, loveless, joyless life, in which people repress their sexuality because they choose not to take advantages of the medical advances designed to make lovemaking for emotional reasons, without pregnancy, possible.

News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2971]

<<It's not necessarily about "benefit of the child". I am anti-abortion first of all because people should be responsible for their actions...>>

So women should be made to bear and bring up children they never wanted, to punish them for being sexually active? That's unbelievably cruel, both to mother and child, and also unjust, because it doesn't deal equally with the father.

Love / Any English guys give me advice please. Are Polish women very different to English women? [46]

Of course there's a huge variation among Polish girls, as there is among English ones. But on average I'd say Polish girls are less materialistic, more health-conscious, more interested in their extended families, more independent/feminist, more thoughtful, more sensitive toward sleights or being treated inconsiderately, more thoughtful, more inclined to use smilies in emails and texts :-)

Love / Chastity rings in Poland - bad news for 'dziwkarze' [42]

I think if a girl or young woman in Poland or anywhere else has the self-control and self-respect to commit herself to remain pure until marriage she should be admired for it. The chastity ring signals her decision to men. Some kinds of men will love her for her decision, others will shun her. The ones who shun her are unlikely to be worthy of her love.

Travel / Driving to poland from the west midlands [11]

You have to carry a breathalyser in France.

Love / What differences is there among Polish girls and British girls as girlfriends? [102]

Tommy, I don't know. kaz seems quite critical of Polish women, but this doesn't necessarily mean she's British (or Polish either...)