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Marriage with a polish woman - Heaven or Forever Hell ?


MaryPerry
18 Jan 2013 #1
Poland Reality 2013:

If a divorce is initiated after a male cheats on his spouse,
the male is likely to lose custody of his children, 50% of his wealth
and be forced with larges financial obligations to his exwife
and to the children, for the rest of his life.

If a divorce is initiated after it is discovered that a female has
cheated on her spouse,
then the male is still likely to lose custody of his children (the
ones that are his)
and be forced to pay with large financial obligations even to the
children that aren't his.

Judges in divorce cases are a large majority women,
but the laws of divorce are also bended on women's total advantage.

Marriage is, in short, the real everyday story of male liability at
all costs and in nearly all situations.
It is the product of the divorce laws that, in effect,
removed any protection for the men
and replaced them with a system that incentivizes the initiation of
divorce by women,
regardless of their actions.

What are your opinions?
Wulkan - | 3,251
18 Jan 2013 #2
What are your opinions?

My opinion is that you should have thought twice before you cheated on your Polish woman.
gumishu 11 | 5,239
18 Jan 2013 #3
there is even a society of fathers that have been maltreated by the courts fundacjaojcow.org.pl

some good observations by the OP
johnb121 4 | 184
18 Jan 2013 #4
In the UK: fathers-4-justice.org
OP MaryPerry
19 Jan 2013 #5
the problem is that all fathers are maltreated BY DEFAULT... and there is no end in sight for it

even when the wife is a wh*re who slept with half of the men in Poland,
still she gets the children and financial compensation for the children for the rest of their lives...
all on the hard work of the husband who was cheated upon and broke his heart...
antheads 13 | 368
19 Jan 2013 #6
Mothers are biologically the raisers of children and men are biologically the providers. Laws just reflect this human condition.
Meathead 5 | 470
19 Jan 2013 #7
even when the wife is a wh*re who slept with half of the men in Poland

That's what you get for not marrying English. An English lass would never do that.
pam
19 Jan 2013 #8
What? Sleep with half of England? Unfaithful women are everywhere, England included.
As for maintenance (alimony) payments, a decision as to how much should be paid depends on the needs of the children and the wife.
It's usual for an absent father to pay maintenance until his children finish education. How much he pays depends on his income and outgoings.

As regards custody, that is usually given to the mother,with the father having access rights, though if there are no objections, joint custody is perfectly normal.

In making these decisions, the welfare of the children is important, not whether the soon to be ex-wife is a complete slapper!

Marriage is, in short, the real everyday story of male liability at all costs and in nearly all situations.

All i know about Polish family courts, is the horror stories i've read on here. I would like to think that judges have the best interests of the children at heart, but as in the UK, no system is perfect. Generally, it appears as if the mother has the better deal, but mostly it will be her looking after the children, and possibly unable to work herself. Don't make light of how hard it is to be a mum.

Incidentally, i never received a single penny in child support from my son's father. He was determined he wouldn't pay, and he got away with it.
MaryPeryy
20 Jan 2013 #9
So we heard a lot of opinions from women.

No opinion yet from a man?

Are there no men on this forum anymore?
Winko - | 1
21 Jan 2013 #10
We are all scared!
f stop 25 | 2,513
21 Jan 2013 #11
So we heard a lot of opinions from women.

you only heard from a woman, Pam. The rest were men.
Mary Pery 2012
22 Jan 2013 #12
all of them were women. we can hear some men, or they were already scared to death by their divorce-threatening wives?:)
Sniperek - | 2
22 Jan 2013 #13
I think its like marrige with any nationality woman can be heaven or hell
Foreigner4 12 | 1,769
22 Jan 2013 #14
It's a little bit of column A and a little bit of column B. What those columns are supporting is a mystery to me.
pawian 170 | 11,506
22 Jan 2013 #15
Marriage with a polish woman - Heaven or Forever Hell ?

There is still Purgatory.
Englishman 2 | 278
22 Jan 2013 #16
So we heard a lot of opinions from women.

No opinion yet from a man?

Are there no men on this forum anymore?

I'm not married to a Polish woman (unfortunately), though I'd like to be.

It's my experience that Polka are kind, loving, honourable people who would make amazing spouses. But then, I've met only a handful so am basing my observations on a small sample. It may be that others here who've had less positive experiences are falling into the same trap, only worse.
Wulkan - | 3,251
22 Jan 2013 #17
Polka are kind,

Since when an English man has a problem with the English grammar?
Englishman 2 | 278
23 Jan 2013 #18
What's the plural of polka? I thought it was also polka...?
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595
26 Jan 2013 #19
Plural of Polka is Polki.

(If you are talking about a specific number of Polish women, and it's 5 or more women the plural is Polek. Enjoy Polish grammar.)
oxon 4 | 164
26 Jan 2013 #20
Get a sex change if you are stupid enough to be born male.
Mary Perry
27 Jan 2013 #21
Get a sex change if you are stupid enough to be born male.

Sounds great.

Why don't we already kill all the men?

It will be any feminist' dream come true, like in the very succesfull book of all men-haters:

"The End of Men"

skrud
27 Jan 2013 #22
I was married to a polish woman ( I am polish 2).I live in Canada , one day I decided that I will find me a wife in Poland and so I did ...brought her here , shared everything I had with her , worked my tail off to provide my family with good life ...but all went down the tube ....already Canadian citizen , tasted some of the benefits living in this country she decided to file for divorce ...fast forward , I lost everything , paying trough my nose for lawyers , courts , constant battle for my child , depression etc . She however seems to enjoy it all ..."on the system" , free house , free money and absolutely no intentions of getting a job .But what is the sadest part in all of it ,is that the family law , court system ,welfare system is right behind her , there is ZERO symphaty for men , we have no rights , we are supposed to work and support our lazy ex spouses , the harder man work , the more money man makes , the more he is going to get screwed by the system . My advice to all men and some women ...STAY SINGLE or make significantly less money than your future spouse and then get married , so you dont end up paying through your noses for your ex and her new boyfriend while they enjoy their Florida vacations on your tab ,and you are standing in the line at local food bank .
Mark Perry
27 Jan 2013 #23
skrud, we are all thoughts and hearts with you. read returnofkings . com for many stories like yours.

polish women are like that, unfortunately, and not only polish women...

the system is based on complete discrimination against men, it's a men hating society, you are simply
forever guilty of simply being born a man
Ironside 49 | 10,353
27 Jan 2013 #24
one day I decided that I will find me a wife in Poland and so I did ...brought her here

A big mistake! I find dudes who are looking for a wife in a foreign countries - shifty - and their motivation suspicious. Also a good guy in his haste can make a mistake. He should ask himself - what kind of woman would leave her country and her family for a guy she know a month or so? Life is no a movie as you have learned the hard way.
Mark2001
27 Jan 2013 #25
the thing is this:

WHY on average, men live 62 years, while women live 79 years in Poland?

because the men are accused all their lives if they chated one time, they lose the kids
and their money in divorce, so when they are old, nobody is there for them to take care of them,
so they die in misery...
Mark 2001
29 Jan 2013 #26
skrud, tell us more about your story, with details please
ukangel 8 | 56
29 Jan 2013 #27
Hell forever,most polish women I know are crazy and are after money.good luck
bdfn
29 Jan 2013 #28
so are UK girls i know. crazy after money, dumb and ugly. could be worse? haha
Peakus
29 Jan 2013 #29
I married an Australian girl. I now hop everywhere like a kangaroo, i have even learned how to hop into, hmmm, bed. I am well trained.

:)
Maria11
8 Feb 2013 #30
Hell forever,most polish women I know are crazy and are after money.good luck

Western Man's average salary: 3,500.00 USD
Polish Woman's average salary: 700.00 USD

But as long as MAN STILL PAYS EVERYTHING FOR A WOMAN,
the real incomes are:

Western Man's average income: 200.00 USD
Polish Woman's average income: 4,000.00 USD



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