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Posts by Natasa  

Joined: 6 Jun 2010 / Female ♀
Last Post: 29 Mar 2014
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From: Beograd, Serbia
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Natasa   
29 Dec 2011
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]

I think society is responsible for that. Male part that insists on high standards.

In absence of demand, the supply becomes less....perfect? ;)

If you were a Slavic woman and labeled as a member of sluttiest group western from Ural, wouldn't you also think it is because your kind is prettiest of all?
Natasa   
31 Dec 2011
News / Amnesty to Illegal immigrants in Poland [102]

It would also test out the tolerance concept.

How I see this with the fear that lack of relevant historical facts made me err- my conclusions might be totally wrong, please feel free to correct me.

British are known for their liberal attitudes when it comes to foreigners, they mixed, they were ruled by foreigners, they are good hosts, and that is for me personally an interesting characteristic.

But expecting all others to have the same openness when it comes to more or less distant cultures is something too ambitious. And at the end not logical.

Some cultures have reasons to be more xenophobic, those whose survival depended on cohesiveness , which is the case of large parts of continental Europe. British isles have specific, isolated geographical position where intruders from the continent were not a threat to survival of the English nation, you rather assimilated the invaders which is possible if there is no critical mass impossible for assimilation. And ocean was a natural protection against that threat.

On the other hand nations on the continent were constantly under same threat or even threat of extinction without seas surrounding them.

Also, probably there is the element of guilt from colonial past, so you tend to be over tolerant now, being guests all around the globe previoulsy (I understand why and how it evolved I think, navy was a mean of survival, conquering as well), and later inviting more guests you had to find way to live with them, norm helped and served there as well, to achieve the goal, to adapt.

Tolerance is indeed a nice result of that process.

But that is something specific for britain and those who share their cultural heritage and where tolerance was also one of the means to rise like a nation , but .....

continental European countries (not only european) faced due to their position different problems and logic of survival had to evolve in some other direction.

Why imposing norms that served you to others whose destinies demanded different adaptations and norms for their survival?

Xenophobia had and still has its purpose. it has evolutionary roots. protect your gene pool. that is why we all prefer our kins to our wife's kins.

and europe was all about bloody evolutionary games for millennium and more. And this forum proves it is a vital principle still.

Like your openness served function of survival (Britons+ angles, saxons and then that new group assimilated danes,normans= English nation), elevated tolerance would have proven to be a tool of self destruction in the continental case of like i.e. Khazars.

Try to teach Germans the tolerance lesson , they will pretend that they embraced it, yet... they wouldn't have survived if they did and they know it.

French? Italians? Poles? Hungarians? Anyone in the classroom? :)

It is I'm afraid learned by heart and as a recital for important audience.
Natasa   
1 Jan 2012
Love / What are Polish Women like? Just started to date one. [256]

He brings sex into everything, so I suspect that sexual jealousy is part of his problem :D

The one who says he doesn't is a liar ;)

Psychoanalytical assumption is that other types of curiosity, particularly that one that involves acquiring the knowledge (like in latent phase of PS development, when kids suddenly become totally asexual apparently, best years for school, after oedipal phase) are derived from SEXUAL curiosity. That is the basis.

And Freudian thesis about final source of curiosity being sexual by nature is just the tip of the iceberg that includes later theories of their relationship, they seem to be inseparably intertwined, sexuality and curiosity.

Sexual jealousy, what is that suppose to be? When someone's wife is banging with the neighbor at the same time that person (hubby) experiences heat pump cycle's peak ? :)))))

I think you meant envy, not jealousy (jealousy is a stage for 3 actors, threat of loss of someone important, etc.) :)
Natasa   
3 Jan 2012
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

Pennboy yes, she is one of three, four varieties. Belgrade fabric, one octave down, sexy, but she is volleyball player probably very tall :)

I posted other subspecies in Balkan corner.

Pennboy, under the male terror of highly specialized criteria imposed to women here (regular exercise, always displayed in highest resolution, hair, modest but necessary make up, diets, fashion dictate without rights to deviate in any direction, especially weight or style), I have to say that she represents a large group of very similar girls. They are just shorter than she is.

They are actually quite uniformed. I never understood that part though. Actually I think that is influence of Italians. Whenever I was in Rome, all men were dressed the same, for example some violet nuance for the season, they all wear it, next years something else, same for women, and Serbs, Croats and Slovenians travelled for 50 years to Italy for shopping.

Ivana is in this clip above average but not that much for that model. I think she is a bit bulky, that prototype was designed to be skinny, skinnier, skinniest ;)

So, random sampling would make you happy :), Belgrade or Novi Sad.
Natasa   
3 Jan 2012
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

It's not like posted a pic of her in a bikini.

An insult! If you like those who like to play hide and seek, this area is not for you ;)

And by the way what kind of hypocrisy is that, one shows herself in the bikini during summer vacations regularly to total strangers, take pics, post them on FB and then suddenly that rule doesn't apply to winter? Or all media flood you daily with mostly poorly decorated :) celebs, sportsmen but that is OK, why?

That bikini is then wrongly seated in the sets of beliefs that guide the person. Not natural. Shameful. exception to the rule.

Is perhaps body per se vulgar, and face not? (I see more often unpleasant faces than unpleasant bodies. Body speaks less than face.)

I am not attacking your view Pennboy, I know many people see it that way. I am just not sure why. Why using the bikini option at all if it is considered actually shameful and too disclosing?

I would give up bikini in summer if I felt that way. If I were ashamed for example, I wouldn't use it in summer, winter, autumn....

Consistent behavior... where are you?

Arabs seem to have regulated that field with more honesty, swimming fully dressed always? ;) (I guess I would be typing from some nice prison if I were an Arab now :))

She's 6'3, 190cm

You would date girl that tall?

Our more muscled men :))))) like taller women. Not that tall, the magic number they would all like to have by their sides is 178 cm. And it is often achievable.

Milorad Čavić the swimmer born and raised in California chose the other volleyball player, she is 185cm. Ivana djerisilo. They were 2 years together.

Let's appreciate their bodies.
Natasa   
3 Jan 2012
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]

Why not? I'm 6'6, 198cm.

Pan Pennboy, my deepest...... admiration? :) (I am certain it is the wrong word, but the other concept I have in mind about this does not exist in this reality, so...)

I've dated anywhere from 5'4 to 6'1.

I'm happy to inform you, you officially have a stalker ;)
Natasa   
4 Jan 2012
Love / My Polish wife got married to me but she's still not in love? [34]

if there is not love from first sight.

Dear men, that is a walking calculation then, run away, I am of that kind, I know.

Nothing worse than having a rational woman by your side.

Men are different story, they are always the same, rational above all ;)

largactyl

Who was anxious or had peculiar ideas? (I love those failures of adaptation to wrong things!) ;)

Sorry, always drawn to, for this place, exotic words :)

she says it wil take time to feel the love. i dunno what she means

She is probably lead by the logic, if I had that canary bird and started to feel love after sharing space with it for a while, why shouldn't that be possible with the man?

It can work...if that belief is strong and repeated daily in front of the mirror. It didn't work for me.
Natasa   
10 Jan 2012
Life / Who's Leaving Poland? [138]

scientists long ago knew little sun in winter causes depressions (it's physiological)

The sun affects production of some neurotransmitters, serotonin....melatonin.
Seasonal affective disorder. That is why Spain, Italy and Greece have lowest incidence of depression in europe.

O sole mio. I miss it. One of the winters will kill me eventually.
Natasa   
16 Jan 2012
Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]

Marriage is freedom?

Yes, in the same way as War is Peace, Freedom is Slavery and Ignorance is Strength.

I doubt most men can feel this liberation.

Some women as well. I see that 'yes, I do' people say in front of the registrar like a kick on the chair person stands on while rope around her neck is keeping her/him connected to the ceiling. A kick, one yes, and the chair is gone.

Or earlier I saw a milder fantasy of opened coffin, person says I do, goes inside and somebody closes the coffin. The kids would be nails in the coffin in that version.

;)

But those are just my fantasies. Nothing similar happens in reality ;)

p.s.
but as we are taught by the society we are programmed, if we are healthy, to be able to love and work. Why was it interpreted in those extreme ways I have no clue. Neither work, nor those insane marriages with clause' till the graveyard tear us apart'.
Natasa   
25 Jan 2012
Love / What are Polish Women like? Just started to date one. [256]

This was my only smile today :)

You are my soul brother. I would describe the scene in similar way. Only this 'massage of breasts' is a bit soft prnish, slapping the udder creating the chain action- reaction on the neglected one.
Natasa   
31 Jan 2012
Love / POLISH WOMEN ARE PROMISCUOUS? DISCUSS. [153]

Previous survey, US, showed:

The results of the 2010 survey broke down like this:

At What Point Does A Woman Become Sexually Promiscuous?

Never? 14%
When she sleeps with her 10th partner? 41%
When she sleeps with her 20th partner? 34%
When she sleeps with her 50th partner? 14%
When she sleeps with her 100th partner? 3%

Few years ago I heard for some insane definition given by allegedly WHO or some similar organization saying that if number of partners exceeds one per year, person should fulfill the high standards to be one of the stigmatized. Then 90 % of women are sluts.

I doubt the source, it was a rumor of one conservative MD.
Natasa   
2 Feb 2012
Language / Polish was chosen the HARDEST LANGUAGE in the world to learn... :D [1558]

Are you sure that it isn't the other way around, hungarian borrowings in Slavic languages?

I understand those two :) The first one aways sounded to me like the most important of Ottoman heritage in this area, for the second I was almost certain it was originally hungarian word.
Natasa   
2 Feb 2012
Off-Topic / Book: Gogol's Taras Bulba [37]

Bulgakov

'Second grade freshness' (The Master and Margarita) is for me to this day the funniest phrase I encountered in literature. Always makes me smile.
Smile :)
Natasa   
24 Feb 2012
Genealogy / Being ashamed of Polish ancestry? [156]

To be honest when I speak face to face with western people I feel somewhat inferior even in my own country. But I guess it has much to do with the fact that my interlocutor speaks better english.

Those sentences revealed that this couldn't be Crow in disguise using username Slavia :)

Why feeling of inferiority Slavia. why.

Aren't we all just ordinary people? (If this sentence hurts, send me a PM I might help you.)
Natasa   
15 Mar 2012
Language / "żółwik" - the same word?? [55]

This I think is in the domain of sociolinguistic. I compared German, English and Serbo croatian (Russian a bit too) and differences are surprising. We seem to have more develop some, for us more relevant concepts , hence many synonyms or words that slightly differ in meaning. Same examples of much more elaborated concepts in English in German compared to my mother tongue.

People in cold ares have words denoting different types of snow, other types of sand, some tribal society (I forgot the name) knew only for three words for colors , black, red and white I think, and researchers gave them various colors, they categorized them in existing three categories, all solved the problem. Their lack of more subtle discrimination was explained with irrelevance of the differentiation for their survival in some jungle.

Anyway, interesting way to discover the worlds behind the languages.
Natasa   
23 Mar 2012
Love / Woman 23, man 47 years old. What do you think about ? [162]

If I were 47 year old man I would be very curious about motives of my 23 year old girlfriend and my own. Both options, Pygmalion or father figure are not good foundation for solid structures.
Natasa   
4 Apr 2012
News / History lessons no more in Poland (Tusk's change) [61]

In Poland Tusk's government implemented change in schools in Poland. Reducing number of history lessons to almost non existence.
What do you think ?

Better than changing the program when the winds keep changing directions and blow from east to west then west to east changing the climate each time.

it should be banned ; )

edit

History has the relation to truth that theology has to religion - i.e., none to speak of.

Hehe.