The BEST Guide to POLAND
Unanswered  |  Archives 
 
 
User: Guest

Home / Love  % width posts: 191

Are 98% of young Polish girls emotionally unstable and mood changing?


joland 4 | 86
31 Mar 2009  #1
I am Spanish man, 28 years old, and i come to Poland every year, for 4 months, with business.

I love clubbing so I went to most of the big cities (Gdansk. Poznan, Wroclaw, Lodz, Krakow, etc)
almost every night out. so i have an experience of meeting and kissing over 150 polish girls,
usually age between 18 and 24 years old (i am not interested in older girls).

From their point of view, it seems they consider me to be very educated, smart and
handsome man, which they keep reminding me.

In 90% of the cases, it happens like this:

I go to club and have eye contact with some extremely gorgeous young Kasia,
student, smart, feminine, speaks english quite well, although she says "I am sorry
i am poor in English" i talk to her and she is very EXCITED and HAPPY and
she asks me a lot of questions,
she wants to know more about me, and in the first 3 minutes she almost always
asks me "What hotel do you stay in?"

In my spanish culture, this means she wants to sleep with me. Not in the polish culture
as i discovered through trial and error.

Then she goes on asking me a lot of questions, starting to dance very close tight glued
to my body, like she wants to have sex with me right there on the dancefloor.

This hapenned to me in more than 100 cases in the last 6 years, so I know exactly what i am talking about.

I just try to find somebody who can explain me polish girls behaviour and what would make them
be more emotionally stable.

After that, we kiss, sometimes for even 1 hour, with breaks of course, and she is very passionate.

I consider her to be a sure thing, i take her phone number and she says how much she wants to see me again, that she wants we go out the second day, etc.

My friends who come for the first time in Poland, they all say to me "Hey man, this girl
is really in love with you"

But then the next day when i call her or message her, she doesnt answer the message and
she doesnt pickup the phone.

On the 3rd day she writes me a very short sms, saying that she wants to meet me very much,
and she can meet me only in 1 week time.
(Next wednesday), which is clearly a lie, because it is impossible that all young polish girls to be exactly the same very busy every single minute of their lives...

If i message them after one week, they dont answer anymore.

Now, after happening this for so many times, i almost got used to it. But i still hope some of
these beautiful "Kasias" to be different and actually say what she means.

I expect now a lot of making fun and unserious posts, but some foreign men who will read this, they know exactly what i am talking about.

To my friends who live in Poland for 4 years now, they also say that polish girls should never be trusted, and that even them they dont know when they say truth and when they lie,

and that they treat boys as toys.

I clearly do not quite understand what the polish girls have to gain by being completely emotionally instable and changing their mood from extreme love to indifference,

without any event happening between these, that could influence her moods...

Thanks in advance for your detailed opinions on the young (18-24 years) beautiful polish girls
behaviour.
southern 75 | 7,096
31 Mar 2009  #2
Are 98% of the young polish girls emotionally instable and mood changing?

The rest 2% have met me and become stable.
mbiernat 3 | 107
31 Mar 2009  #3
This post does not seem worthy to comment on, but here goes
-> They are normal and stable to me. Maybe this is the answer
-> You are chasing young girls in clubs. Further,any guy that has kisses 150 girls in a short time seems pretty unstable. Girls are not toys for your delight. Treat people with respect and maybe someday you will get some in return.
OP joland 4 | 86
31 Mar 2009  #4
ok, i do treat them with respect, and they are very much excted and in love with me, the way they act and everything. i go out EVERY NIGHT so in 6 years it is normal that i kissed 150 polish young girls.

i was quite expecting that, instead of focusing on their actions, and on the fact that what polish girls say seem to be completely worthless, because they dont keep their word or they simply never mean what they say... but it is puzzling that everytime it happens the same and the same and again the same

They seem extremely much in love, they want to see me again, and next day they start to play games and then we never meet again.

PS
mbiernat i assume you are polish guy, so you are used to their behaviour and it seems you are some kind of foreigner hater, you think i came here to get the Kasias? No, i am just puzzled with their mood changing, emotionally instable behaviour

It seems that if i want to have a future with a girl, i should NEVER accept from her to kiss me in club,
and never dance with her the way she wants, that is very erotic... normal dance for polish girls by the way
Harry
31 Mar 2009  #5
They seem extremely much in love, they want to see me again, and next day they start to play games and then we never meet again.

Why not play the game?
still_wisher 7 | 97
31 Mar 2009  #6
sometimes for even 1 hour, with breaks of course, and she is very passionate

she was drunk dumbo!! and i think the 150 also were drunk that's why they probably don't remmber you , man! get a life..
mbiernat 3 | 107
31 Mar 2009  #7
Sorry I miss read your post. I thought 150 in 4 months.

I am a foreigner and have lived in Poland for 5 years.

Try not meeting girls in clubs and not ones that are materialistic or even ones with cell phones. I do not have a mobile phone. Ones that care about spiritual things or have noble ideals. If this is your inclination.
southern 75 | 7,096
31 Mar 2009  #8
or even ones with cell phones

Or try village girls who have rings.
OP joland 4 | 86
31 Mar 2009  #9
ok, this thread is EXCLUSIVISTICALLY about:

young beautiful polish girls 18-24 years old , which i met in clubs in Poznan, Wroclaw,
Lodz, Radom, Olsztyn, Opole, Krakow, they are Students and they are smart and speak good english

i do not want to change my preferences or start to date old women, i am simply not interested, i just want to understand what makes them behave like that

is it some kind of strange rule in Poland that if you write to a girl message or you call her in the next 2 days, you are a complete LOSER or what is it ??
miranda
31 Mar 2009  #10
I clearly do not quite understand what the polish girls have to gain by being completely emotionally instable and changing their mood from extreme love to indifference,

power trip and lack of proper upbringing at home will do that.
southern 75 | 7,096
31 Mar 2009  #12
I don't pick up in clubs.I use my killer eyes and grab them on the street to my cave.
OP joland 4 | 86
31 Mar 2009  #13
i never ever buy them drinks. 95% of them are not drunk, i do not like the taste of a girl who is drunk.

PS guys, you can simply stick to the subject?

why some users need some kind of strange need to cur se and call me "dumb" or otherways
in order to show their frustration...

i simply asked a question and i described a situation. maybe i asked it in the wrong place?
Patrycja19 63 | 2,700
31 Mar 2009  #14
I don't pick up in clubs.I use my killer eyes and grab them on the street to my cave.

translation- he prob throws them in the back seat of his honda(aka cave) against their will !

lol

i do not like the taste of a girl who is drunk.

then you shouldnt be in clubs lookin for one.

its funny how you say all this, but I could and would almost bet you are a flashy
type person, who wears his shirt unbuttoned so that you look suave and slick
your hair back.. and prob flash you money in front of people..

you have to change things if you want something to become real.. your just as
plastic and people see that.. maybe you dont feel like it, but if you spend all your
time in clubs that says alot!

good luck.
pgtx 29 | 3,159
31 Mar 2009  #15
i simply asked a question and i described a situation. maybe i asked it in the wrong place?

you claim to be a psychologist, so with such rich experiences, you'd be able to get your own conclusion... what's wrong with you? did you skip classes?

PS - that's the funnies shit in this thread i've read lately...
OP joland 4 | 86
31 Mar 2009  #16
oh guys, i really wish you can simply stick to the subject, i have no idea why some need some kind of strange need to cure and call me "dumb" or otherways

Patrycia 19 you HAVE NO IDEA HOW I AM.

i am not a macho at all. I look like regular polish guy, and i never flash money in front of anyone.

you are imagining things, and you try to look for some answers completely OTHERWAY than simply

explaining why are 98% of young polish girls so mentally and emotionally instable?
i travelled in other countries with business too, and in no country the need for "playing games" is not bigger than in Poland
Harry
31 Mar 2009  #17
i simply asked a question and i described a situation. maybe i asked it in the wrong place?

Very probably. Why not talk to some Polish girls about it? You could ask them about it just after you get their number (or perhaps before).

BTW: it is entirely possible that an 18-24 year old girl in the cities you mention does only have one or two free evenings per week. Most of them work as well as study.
sausage 19 | 777
31 Mar 2009  #18
Most of them work as well as study.

Indeed, and their precious free time they have to share between various boyfriends ;)
OP joland 4 | 86
31 Mar 2009  #19
yeah right, so why they PROPOSE to me in that very same night when we met, that we should meet the next day, that she is free, and etc?

do you guys go out to clubs, so at least you know what i am talking about?
Patrycja19 63 | 2,700
31 Mar 2009  #20
Patrycia 19 you HAVE NO IDEA HOW I AM.

you are right.. so why would you ask any of us to help you figure out your love life
if u give people such a short version of your life? all involving the clubs and girls?

what do you expect? what do you want us to say?

what kind of lies or truth would you like to hear? you say your used to it, but if
someone gives you a slight bit of critism you get upset..

you dont want to change ? or you do? either way something has to change, if
the polish women you encounter are not going to change, dont you think maybe
something might need to be changed by you? after all your the one who controls
what you do in your life.. maybe you should go to a library more and a club less?

only offering suggestions..
southern 75 | 7,096
31 Mar 2009  #21
maybe you should go to a library more and a club less?

Library chicks highly recommended.
Patrycja19 63 | 2,700
31 Mar 2009  #22
I think you watch to much tv southern LOL

maybe your referring to the hot for teacher video from van halen
is that your ideal ?

if someone has time to show him this.. I have to get going..
southern 75 | 7,096
31 Mar 2009  #23
I am refering to chicks with glasses.The absolute phantasy.
still_wisher 7 | 97
31 Mar 2009  #24
i really wish you can simply stick to the subject, i have no idea why some need some kind of strange need to cure and call me "dumb" or otherways

what subject ??? 98% of polish girls (18-24) r kissing around and erotic dancers (normal as u said) !!! do u know how big this amount u r talking about ?? .. and what excatly kinda opinions u looking for ? because u sounded like u r looking for someone else will tell (yes amigo they r 100% and i kissed 250 in the same 6 years ) !!! i just don't get it .
southern 75 | 7,096
31 Mar 2009  #25
and i kissed 250 in the same 6 years ) !!!

250 or 251?
still_wisher 7 | 97
31 Mar 2009  #26
95% of them are not drunk, i do not like the taste of a girl who is drunk

sorry (150/95%) do the calculation and tell me they were going for tea in clubs??

250 or 251?

just for u 251 LOL:)
osiol 55 | 3,922
31 Mar 2009  #27
Polish women just fall at my feet.

I should stop tripping them up, I suppose.
pgtx 29 | 3,159
31 Mar 2009  #28
i have no idea why some need some kind of strange need to cure and call me "dumb" or otherways

well, a male whore came to my mind instead....lol
still_wisher 7 | 97
31 Mar 2009  #29
well, i wasn't brave enough to write it .... just was worried about his feelings .lol
southern 75 | 7,096
31 Mar 2009  #30
well, a male whore

Are you talking to me?


Home / Love / Are 98% of young Polish girls emotionally unstable and mood changing?
BoldItalic [quote]
 
To post as Guest, enter a temporary username or login and post as a member.