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Neoliberalism and family formation in Poland [100]
Women, they are generally more concerned with survival without a husband, or after a husband than actually having a family
Being able to survive after husband disappears is caring for your family. Who will support the kids if the women won't think about that?
men tend to treat relationships like money (ultimate goal, valuable in an of itself) and women tend to treat relationships like jobs (a means to an end).
Yeah, that's why for ages women marriage opportunities were so closely related to their dowry
Which is why it really doesn't matter what Paulina's or Lenka's mom or grandma did.
I included younger generations as well
You can't really grow beyond a certain point in politics or business if you are not married or have kids
I would say that's very American thing.
You think men should GAF about your career goals and your wants, when all men want is peace for their family and security.
Since they want to have those relationships with women, yes, I would say it should matter what the women want. They may say it's not worth it in the end but that's a different matter.
