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mafketis   
20 Jan 2022
Food / What do non-Poles think about eating the following Polish foods? [1450]

I like buckwheat kaszanka much better than barley though I don't like it warm... it's already been cooked so I usually eat it cold.

Hungarian blood sausage is very delicious (the best I've had) and also like the blood-liver sausage there (the Polish version doesn't have enough liver for me....)
mafketis   
19 Jan 2022
Polonia / What about the Poles living in Germany? [65]

nuclear power will make a comeback in Germany....

Is this something announced are is Germany still blindly following Merkel's second word emotional over-reaction? (so glaaaad she's gone.....)
mafketis   
17 Jan 2022
Travel / Airport Transfers in Krakow [7]

Here's info on the train:

krakowairport.pl/en/passenger/transport-en/directions/from-to-krakow-airport/train-en/

the link to the timetable doesn't work (in english the Polish version works but only to march 12 at present).

I'd take the train over a cab. I might take the bus but with luggage it could be awkward (and thieves sometimes specially target airport buses so you need to have Polish situational awareness... which you probably don't have).

If you do take a cab make sure it's reputable (some airports will order you one, which won't be the cheapest but won't skin you alive either....)
mafketis   
15 Jan 2022
UK, Ireland / From Hertfordshire, UK to Śląskie, Poland - Are we crazy? [35]

the positives probably outweigh all the negatives for all of you as you

I'm in a very different situation than you (tots obvs) but for me the positives _far_ outweigh the negatives (which I'm aware of).

But... how well do you know your mother-in-law? How much have you seen your wife interact with her? I've seen a _lot_ of young marriages have really bad times (or fail) because the parents insist on getting involved and the adult children just kind of... let them.

You have a very established relationship (if you're talking about school age children) but Polish parents, on the whole, are almost constitutionally unable to resist the urge to interfere. That seems like the real weak point (from my point of view) of your plan. And your wife in the UK might be a very different person than she is in Poland living under her mother's roof (lots of international marriages undergo a shock when moving to one spouse's homeland only to see the spouse revert to local ways....)

I'm a pretty different person in Poland than I was in the US (far more assertive, if you don't learn how to be assertive then you'll end up with footprints all over your face). But also I know the language really well and understand how things work (not necessarily what it seems on the surface).

As I always say, it can be great place to live but the learning curve.... she is steeeeep....
mafketis   
15 Jan 2022
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [891]

dont want Jokervich to break the record

It's more about displaced anger. The Melbourne area had totally insane lockdown policies and most people just took being shut up at home for months and months and months.

Then Djokovic posts an instagram picture talking about spending time with loved ones (something Australians had been deprived of by their government for many many months).

Rather than admit that they were saps for following a fatally flawed policy (lockdowns have not worked.... anywhere) and asking themselves questions they found it easier to get mad at Djokovic.

And he doesn't have 20 AO victories "just" 9 (IINM) the 20 is his number of victories in Grand Slam tournaments. At present there's a three or four way tie among players and he's the most likely to break it (if he plays).
mafketis   
15 Jan 2022
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [891]

not a reason to break a foreign country rules. He didn't have to go there. If he did he should follow their laws

Now the Australian government admits his exemption was valid (in other words he followed their laws) but they want to kick him out because he has opinions that are not in line with the government's policy of injecting people with under-tested drugs.

theage.com.au/sport/australia-declares-djokovic-a-risk-to-civil-order-and-public-health-20220114-p59oex.html

This should be incredibly concerning. Australian is going in a very bad direction...

Boycott the AO now!
mafketis   
15 Jan 2022
UK, Ireland / From Hertfordshire, UK to Śląskie, Poland - Are we crazy? [35]

don't see what they would gain by weakening national cohesion ...in member states

Two things:

first, the EU project has different factions with different agendas and these often interact (with unpredictable results)

second, one of the goals of the EU is to replace national identity with 'European' identity so that people don't think of themselves as Italian or Swedish (or whatever) first but first as Europeans. Supporting minorities to develop their own regional identities weakens national identities (which then interacts with other policies with.... not great results)

third (bonus) the EU is very, very, slow and reactive. It takes a looooong time between noticing a policy isn't working and anything happening in response
mafketis   
15 Jan 2022
Language / Imci Pana meaning [5]

imć

an abbreviation 'jego miłość' (his love) formerly used as a polite expression, mostly before a last name or title

imć pan (very roughly) 'your most honorable lord'

imci pana the same but in the genitive/accusative case

"skrót zwrotu jego miłość, używany dawniej jako wyrażenie grzecznościowe, przeważnie przed nazwiskiem lub tytułem
Imć wojewoda.. ."

sjp.pl/im%C4%8
mafketis   
14 Jan 2022
News / Security issues in Poland [10]

allegedely by Polish hackers

Is it just me or does the Polish text does not read as if it had been written by a native speaker... starting with Ukrainiec! (instead of Ukraińcu! though even that is..)

how would a Polish writer begin that? I have an idea they might address the country more Ukraino!
mafketis   
14 Jan 2022
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [891]

their laws ridiculous

their laws are ridiculous - why should healthy young (okay ND isn't so young...) athletes have to undergo an invasive procedure to engage in their profession?

Especially with an under-tested medicine and especially when anecdotal evidence is mounting that young healthy people are more in danger of the drug itself (and when the producers and the governments pushing the shots are free of any legal responsibility)?

Australia no longer deserves to hold the AO and it should be moved elsewhere.

Disgusting government...
mafketis   
14 Jan 2022
News / New Polish tax system hits the ground stumbling... [14]

Poland is absolutely going to hell in a handcart under PIS

They're crappy managers and administrators.... and that comes from the top (JK is mentally still trapped in the PRL and always will be and those under him replicate the key PRL features of patronage, corruption, incompetence and avoiding responsibility).
mafketis   
14 Jan 2022
Off-Topic / Random Sports News [891]

It's not over until the lawyers sing... doesn't he still have an appeal?

If he's kicked out I'm never watching a second of the AO again (and tennis is one of the few sports I like watching).

I'm not even a Djokovic fan but... he's in the right here. He poses no risk and if the law cannot take that into consideration it does not deserve to be respected. Bad laws (like vaccine passports) erode the respect for law in general.
mafketis   
14 Jan 2022
News / New Polish tax system hits the ground stumbling... [14]

Polski Ład (usually translated Polish Deal*) which was intended to be centerpiece legislation by the ruling party (Pis) for the next election has already run into problems with mass confusion on taxes, many people receiving lower wages than expected and a totally unprepared bureaucracy.

The government suggested people consult their local tax offices (which had not been sufficiently prepared) and went into damage control mode by temporarily halting some VAT taxes.

Also, true to form they partially blame their problems on their favorite scapegoat Donald Tusk who has not held office in Poland over six years. This has not stopped state run media from blaming problems on the "podatek tuskowy"

bloomberg.com/news/articles/2022-01-11/poland-to-slash-levies-to-curb-inflation-and-ire-over-tax-revamp

*Polish order seems to be a better translation but Polish Deal, perhaps an echo of the New Deal is far more often used and may be the official translation...
mafketis   
13 Jan 2022
UK, Ireland / From Hertfordshire, UK to Śląskie, Poland - Are we crazy? [35]

starting to identify first as Silesian and Polish second

Not sure how much of this is spontaneous and how much is aided and abetted by EU and NGO subsidies to minority movements (as a way of weakening national cohesion?)

Catalonia was a different thing - those behind the original push for independence were never really that serious, it was always a ploy to get more money from the central government and then things got out of control when a few true-believers took over the project.
mafketis   
12 Jan 2022
UK, Ireland / Ireland and Poland - ways of struggling for independence [43]

What made the Irish so soft? (especially for Atch...)

"We have become the most subservient lickspittles on the planet."

And... is Poland going (or could it go) in a similar direction of tame people who follow orders?

spiked-online.com/2022/01/11/whatever-happened-to-the-fighting-irish/

Was it being in the EU? Will Polish people become similarly... domesticated if they stay in the EU long enough?

Losing their eternal enemy of imperial Britain? (at least Poland still has Germany and Russia... despite the massive inconvenience.... overall having two eternal enemies is better than one)
mafketis   
11 Jan 2022
Language / Polish slang phrases - most popular. [630]

not a native but maybe...

pretty baby - ślicznotka (sounds maybe a little dated, but it was the Polish title of the Brooke Shields movie 'Pretty Baby'....

let's get high - zjaramy się
mafketis   
10 Jan 2022
UK, Ireland / From Hertfordshire, UK to Śląskie, Poland - Are we crazy? [35]

Moving in with mother-in-law .......................do you really need me to commnent?

I don't know much about parent and adult-child relationships in Ireland (or even the UK) but they are very different from those typical in the US.

The traditional American model is about adults reorienting their relationship with their parents into something more like friendship between equals (easier said than done).

That is not the Polish model where parents are authority figures for as long as they are alive and children are supposed to show them respect and not openly disagree with them about important issues (again... easier said than done).

In short... your wife living with her mother will be a very different person than she is living with you and her children and your relationship with your wife (and children) will be different in ways you cannot anticipate).

What I always say: Life in Poland can be great but it's not a user friendly country (in terms of language, culture and.. lots of other things). Language is crucial to fitting in and most english speakers have.... very little idea about how to effectively learn a language (especially a slavic language).

You'll also have to let go of lots of ideas about being able to change things.
mafketis   
9 Jan 2022
Genealogy / Do Polish people have big noses? [450]

So devoted to the trip that they speak Turkish and carry muslim prayer beads?

There are also some who could pass for Native American (esp women).

Here's a small sample of the diversity (at street level, if anything it's more diverse).

quora.com/Do-East-Asian-looking-Turks-face-any-racism-in-Turkey

It's a former very large empire that brought in many people from the edges to the center (on their own or by force) so genetic diversity is what you'd expect.
mafketis   
8 Jan 2022
News / Polish Pegasus Spyware Scandal [40]

people will (probably rightly) assume the worst.

The welfare dependent core PiS base will not care as long as they keep getting their 'free' money.

But the inflation could hurt PiS worse, especially because PiS can't really blame it on anyone else.... it could peel off enough of their electorate to make a difference
mafketis   
7 Jan 2022
Genealogy / Do Polish people have big noses? [450]

Turks look very different anyways

Have you been in Turkey? Exteme genetic diversity (dating from Ottoman empire) at street level you see people that could pass for Scandinavian or Chinese and everything in between....
mafketis   
7 Jan 2022
News / Polish Pegasus Spyware Scandal [40]

What about JK admitting to the purchase?

I think he has to wait to find out the official party line...
mafketis   
7 Jan 2022
News / Polish Pegasus Spyware Scandal [40]

Update: Kaczyński admits that the government has pegasus and maintains it's no biggie...

onet.pl/informacje/onetwiadomosci/pegasus-kaczynski-wysmiewa-zarzuty-opozycji-afera-z-niczego-i-histeria/3dp5c23,79cfc278
mafketis   
7 Jan 2022
News / Molested girl in Poland takes her own life [12]

This is a real failure of the system intended to protect children.

Beginning in September of last year a 12 year-old girl from lower Silesia was giving indications that she had been molested by her stepfather and possibly a family friend (as is often the case she didn't have the vocabulary to express the situation unambiguously).

A teacher contacted the local prosecutor
The mother denied it
An aunt with whom the girl had a good relationship (living some distance away) did believe her and offered to foster the girl.
The Polish system was very slow, hampered by the usual bureaucratic delays and the mindset that whenever possible the family unit should remain together.
Just before the end of the year, after being told she had to stay with the family.... she killed herself.

onet.pl/informacje/onetwroclaw/samobojstwo-molestowanej-12-latki-sedzia-rodzinny-doroslym-zabraklo-odwagi/rf5vxef,79cfc278
mafketis   
6 Jan 2022
Polonia / Polish workers in Denmark [41]

contact with a Polish person who speaks and writes Danish

Look up places with programs in Scandinavian languages. Danish has never been the most popular of those (it used to be Swedish, now it's Norwegian) but it does exist as a university subject. Ask them to put up signs (often there are employment boards in university depts).