having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child)

well maybe maybe not it didnt start as sex we were friends and still are friends, he doesnt lie to me but i dont know if i really want him to leave his wife i like it as it is for now

He's a 38 year old man who has been away from his wife for 2 years and you're the first women he has had feelings for?

yes he says he hasnt had an affair with anyone since his got married

20, male, business student, poland (been a model for suitings....a good memory and experience.....but not my kind of life/world....so completely dropped it).

about wisdom... its your word.....i am a simple human being....with a way of life. I feel the importance of being responsible. And that gives me reason to give out honest and pure smiles/joy.

I don't know what else to tell you. It sounds like your mind is made up. I guess only time will tell how things turn out.

whats the been a model for suitings?

God bless you...

Are you really 20 LoneStranger?

lonestranger r u taking the piss

for sale of a suitings brand. I was offered to wear their suit and have my picture taken in a special way/pose. This was used in some magazines for their marketing. It was me and two other people... :)...

Can we see the picture? :)

oh thats one thing we do have in common then

:s ya i am! any doubts?:)

I will get 21 in a few months now.... so you can consider me 21 too.... but thats what i am.....and its been nice little time of me being here.....i have previously also cleared about my age and whereabouts! :)...

i think somehow thats gonna be a no

if i register....i'll probably use it ... :) ... i like to be LoneStranger now though


what common :)?

i am also a model

I did one suitings modelling... just one....last for ever :)... not my kinda job/world...

so I am not a model.

what is your kind of job/ world

i'm a business student....finances... strategies :)...some math :P

I like books... working out... talking with friends i have from brazil, india and japan.

I am in love with a Japanese girl :)...i love her alot. I wish you marry her... maybe after i finish my education. Because i will go Japan to see her....or she can come Poland too :)... I never felt like that in my life... she is the right girl for me.

I have a good family... my parents are wonderful. My life is very plain...and my world has enough what I need to remain alive.

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i wish i lived in your world

we all make our own little worlds....it depends on our acts now and our nature (which is reflected from our past), on how the future of this world will be.

LoneStranger ... read my post again as well. If you find a part Im saying that you are wrong .... I will bend down on my knee...

What I said is (your response is one more example) that you are hot-headed rash... so I just suggest to take it more easy...
Am I better ? not at all.
One more time IF you read my post carefully you will see that I am looking in the same direction as you.
Anyway I take this lesson ... next time will express myself more clear I PROMISE I WILL TRY TO WRITE WITH CAPITAL LETTERS.

And cool down pal...I look at life through my previous experiance so I believe you do as well .... For me people do not have bad intention all the time ....

Did you ever try yoga ?

and by the way ... Im talking only about you LS and myself .... it does not even touch mobile.


you seem to see what I was talking about (see above). Now try to understand and use it as well
Have fun Lone Stranger, so do I :)

You are the first person to say me that :)... and I do practice some yoga and simple forms of meditation at day break every dawn.

No my friend...none of my posts were intended to hurt any feelings. They were only my strong opinions which I posted here. It is a forum, where you and me....both express ourselves... and be happy about it.

You dont need to write in All Caps.... i understand you in the normal method too :)..

:)

mobile,

Why did you post this topic ?

I see someone who has doubts about their relationship and no matter how hard you try you are well aware of the wife back home in Poland. You know in your heart of hearts that you invited him into your bed and you also know that one day he will go home. He's not going to get a divorce until he does. As a man, I will tell you that he is using you. As much as you are using him. There really is no point to your post at all unless you want help. So, What is really bothering you ? Do you feel guilty ?

LoneStranger ... give me a five :)

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i love your thinking Lone hun :) ... we are born then we die ... what you do inbetween is upto you --- its my little motto :)

We do make are own way in life with guidance from factors and forces but inevitably it is we as individuals that make the decisions and choices in our lives and have to live with them :)

We all make our own reality - it depends on what you want your reality to be, that's the deep moral question!!!!!

i dont know why i posted this topic but in mt opinion you have no right to say he will not leave his wife for me... why do you think that? i am very nice and we like each other a lot so how the hell can u say that

wrowclaw that was to you.... and i also think most people on this forum would do exactly the same as me just dont want to admit it

Not trying to give you a hard time at all. As for your age, I asked because usually in life, we grow out of self-centered satisfaction and consider the consequences of our actions where everyone (ie: wife, child) is concerned. That's what growing up entails, hence the reason I asked your age. To me, you sound very young, naive, and inexperienced. As for your lover, well he's a guy, and sometimes they never outgrow the self-centerdness :)---to be fair, some women don't either.


Did you honestly think anyone was going to tell you it was a good idea? Maybe you hoped someone else on here has had a similar experience that turned out in their favor, but I think the odds are against you. Just being honest. I hope for your sake, things do work out for you----I don't wish heartbreak on anyone. But as I said before, what usually goes around,comes around, so be careful for what you wish for---you just might get it.