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Who makes a good Polish wife?


roynelson 3 | 22  
10 Sep 2008 /  #1
who makes a good wife . polish or irish
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
10 Sep 2008 /  #2
Ha ha ha, roynelson you are really trying.
The way it reads is funny.
I think most people will tell you it is not down to the nationality but the two people in the relationship.
Are you worried or is there pressure on you to marry?
dcchris 8 | 432  
10 Sep 2008 /  #3
depends if you like to drink whiskey or vodka haha
OP roynelson 3 | 22  
10 Sep 2008 /  #4
yes there is pressure and lots of it. iam been born into a culture where arange marrige take place my friend. i dont want that at any cost. if it means i have to travel to poland and get married ther i will do it. i dont want polish nationality or euopean nationality , i just want a polish girl which i think is better than being with an irish girl cause they cant cook for ****. i know everyone is telling me that arranged marriage would be good for u. u can grow to love her. i dont want that. its either a polish girl or i dont marry at all.
dcchris 8 | 432  
10 Sep 2008 /  #5
cmon now there are lots of great women out there no need to limit yourself to one nationality whats wrong with a liberated modern indian woman for instance? and as far as coming to poland to get a wife it doesnt exactly work that way over here...
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
10 Sep 2008 /  #6
i just want a polish girl which i think is better than being with an irish girl cause they cant cook for ****

ha ha ha, my mother could burn water ha ha ha.

i know everyone is telling me that arranged marriage would be good for u. u can grow to love her. i dont want that. its either a polish girl or i dont marry at all.

I see, that is tricky, why don't you come up here and travel around but come in summer because I think the winters would be too cold for you.

cmon now there are lots of great women out there no need to limit yourself to one nationality

I think he fancies white Catholics, he is Catholic. Not a bad criteria.
dcchris 8 | 432  
10 Sep 2008 /  #7
oh right didnt realize that one well how about those italians? they make good wives maybe and its nice weather
OP roynelson 3 | 22  
10 Sep 2008 /  #8
i dont like indian woman. i know how they are . there isnt any excitemnet over there. they are jealous , think only about themsleves. if i cant go to poland and get sombody over there then fine. i guess marriage is not something i wanna get myself into.
dcchris 8 | 432  
10 Sep 2008 /  #9
Im not saying u cant find a wife here but its just different. it has to be a natural occurance. its not like in india (no offense please) where you can tell your parents that ok Im ready to get married and they find you a wife. its more complicated and truly up to chance or god or whatever you believe in. I am just saying that there is no guarantee. maybe I should become a marriage broker? hahahahaha

maybe instead of going straight for the wife you should look for a friend and take it from there?
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
10 Sep 2008 /  #10
maybe I should become a marriage broker? hahahahaha

We used to call them match makers. Arranged marriage used to be common place here in Europe. I am happy it is gone.

maybe instead of going straight for the wife you should look for a friend and take it from there?

This is good advice, I think you will frighten a lot of women talking about marriage so quickly.
OP roynelson 3 | 22  
10 Sep 2008 /  #11
thnaks for the advise . Im not rushing into marriage but on the other hand i fear for my future. i have seen men that are not happy in their arranged marriages, mostly from my family. i do not want that to happen to me. i dont want to tell women i wannna get married so soon but its always gonna be on the back of my mind. i have a good life here in dubai. i'm a fashion designer , stayed in the us for 9 yrs in miami. i work in dubai media city as a media planner and own my dads transportation company. I can give my wife a good life. but whats the point of all this wealth if your not happy with your choice because ur folkks wanted you to tie the knot with an indian catholic woman.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
10 Sep 2008 /  #12
i just want a polish girl which i think is better than being with an irish girl cause they cant cook for ****.

How do you know Irish women can't cook? And why the comparison between Polish and Irish?

i dont want to tell women i wannna get married so soon but its always gonna be on the back of my mind.

Your intentions are not completely honest and this is not a good start to a relationship, what if you meet a Polish girl and she doesn't want to move to Dubai, whilst Im sure the life style you have is wonderful, the cultural differences are totally different even though Dubai is quite a "modern" place, it is still under Islamic Shariah laws and it might be difficult for someone to not only adapt to a new country but also to a husband who has a different cultural background. It's quite obvious your family want to chose your future wife, do you think they would accept someone who is European?
OP roynelson 3 | 22  
10 Sep 2008 /  #13
My mum and dad will be happy if i am happy. Why would they have a problem with her. yes dubai is a muslim country. no doubt over there. But shes not gonna be staying with some muslim who is gonna treat her like crap, but with her husband who loves and cares for her. There are so many europeans that live in dubai buying freehold properties here and making a life in dubai. You said my intentions are not honest . why would i be on this forum pouring my heart out if i was such a liar.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
10 Sep 2008 /  #14
You said my intentions are not honest . why would i be on this forum pouring my heart out if i was such a liar.

I didn't mean it like that, what I meant was that you have to be completely honest and open..... you said that you will meet a girl and have the intentions of marrying her in your mind, maybe you need to let girls know this, withholding information is as dishonest as telling lies.

I dont think a forum is a place to find a wife either, maybe you should join a dating agency, rather than wasting time here.

europeans that live in dubai buying freehold properties here and making a life in dubai.

My cousin has been out there with her husband and child for a few years - I know how good life in Dubai can be :) But it's still very very different to life in Europe, women are still very restricted in certain ways.
OP roynelson 3 | 22  
10 Sep 2008 /  #15
Dubai is no europe i understand that. The freedom and life that u have in europe in not the same in dubai. But dubai is aplace fro making money. It does provide as a safe enviorment for children . Family life is realtively very nice over here. There isnt as much greenery her in dubai than inpoland. i understand all that. But with that said i still wont be able to leave dubai to move to poland just because my wife is from there. Im not on this froum to find a wife , but to get some answers to question i have been wanting to ask. I could fly to warsaw tommorrow if i had to. I dont need to go to any dating agency either, cause i know i will be able to find a decent girl. And when i find that girl i have complete intention to tell her how i feel and ask her to marry me. I will most probably marry her in poland so she can have her parents and family over there with her. But dubai is the place i would want her to come and settle down with me. either that or india. which ever works.

As far as customs and traditions, i gurantee our customs is a lot like the polish customs. we go to church on fridays and fast , do novenas on wednesdays. celebrate all the religious holidays the way the poles do.if her parents want to come to dubai and stay with us, its fine with me. and if she wants to visit poland twice a year its fine with me.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
10 Sep 2008 /  #16
we go to church on fridays and fast

You are not catholic then (as you stated many many times) - as we go to church on Sunday. Being dishonest about who you are is a terrible thing.

and if she wants to visit poland twice a year its fine with me.

You can't restrict how much a person would want to see there family, how can that be fair? You also cannot expect a girl to leave her home, her friends, her life, would you do such a thing, roy, you need to grow up a little bit because I think you are dreaming and also still a bit selfish.
pandora69 - | 18  
10 Sep 2008 /  #17
As far as customs and traditions, i gurantee our customs is a lot like the polish customs. we go to church on fridays and fast

We go to church on Sundays and errr...eat.

The question is, would you (if you met a nice Catholic Polish Girl) change your religion to Catholic OR expect her to change to Muslim?

What pressure would your parents put on to you in that respect?

My sister married a muslim and he always threatened to steal and send her daughter (errr my niece) to Yemen and marry her off if my sister didn't do as she was told.

I would have personally nailed his balls to the wall
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
10 Sep 2008 /  #18
OR expect her to change to Muslim?

He said he's Indian, but that irrelivant, he's obviously telling porky pies :)

My sister married a muslim and he always threatened to steal and send her daughter (errr my niece) to Yemen and marry her off if my sister didn't do as she was told.

Not uncommon but it's a chance you take if you marry someone from that kind of culture. It's different for the men of course :(
pandora69 - | 18  
10 Sep 2008 /  #19
Here's a sinario:

You've been married and living in India with your little Polish wife and it's Christmas (ooooh that could be a problem) so all the family are over from Poland to have one MAJOR drinking session (these are hardened Polish Catholic drinkers remember, they take no ****).

Her dad brews his own 99% proof home made rocket fuel (vodka). and brings some over with him. He offeres a bottle of his best batch to your dad in the hope of getting totally slozzeled and bringing out the family photo album.

What would your dad do Roy?

(I thought India was siekh & Hundu by the way????)
OP roynelson 3 | 22  
10 Sep 2008 /  #20
we got to church sundays , saturdays and fridays, i personally go on fridays cause thats my only day off. and yes i am catholic. I am not dreaming . u just keep misunderstanding me thats all. if u wanna be hateful then dont talk to me but if u wanna tell me the truth then fine. ur not my shrink . for the last time i am not muslim, so dont give me some stupid muslim guy as an example and tell me i am gonna do the same thing.India is full of hindus and muslims. My ancestry gos to portugal from both my mum and dads side. How the hell do u think i am catholic.
pandora69 - | 18  
10 Sep 2008 /  #21
How the hell do u think i am catholic.

Is it because you are the Pope???
OP roynelson 3 | 22  
10 Sep 2008 /  #22
nope its because i'm the popes butler
McCoy 27 | 1,275  
10 Sep 2008 /  #23
who makes a good wife . polish or irish

Japanese:

Girl

she's quiet, doesn't need a new pair of shoes every week, always ready for some love, never jealous about other ladies, faithful and never starts quarells ;)
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
10 Sep 2008 /  #24
we got to church sundays , saturdays and fridays, i personally go on fridays cause thats my only day off. and yes i am catholic.

Well grow the feck up and stop dreaming about some life with a Polish girl you have never met, it sounds rediculous.

Do you want me to be honest? You have zero chance of finding a woman let alone a Polish women the way you are going about it.

As for your catholic statement:

[members.tripod.com/~Berchmans/today.html] - Catholics In India

Roy, you could be the nicest guy on the plant, but reading your posts you just sound desparate and stupid.
dcchris 8 | 432  
10 Sep 2008 /  #25
hmm india has the largest population of muslims outside of indonesia which is first although they are still very much in the minority its just the sheer numbers of people there

so roy u r from goa? do you speak conkani?
pandora69 - | 18  
10 Sep 2008 /  #26
she's quiet, doesn't need a new pair of shoes every week, always ready for some love, never jealous about other ladies, faithful and never starts quarells ;)

PUMP NOT INCLUDED
miranda  
10 Sep 2008 /  #27
she's quiet, doesn't need a new pair of shoes every week, always ready for some love, never jealous about other ladies, faithful and never starts quarells ;)

that is an urban legend;0
dcchris 8 | 432  
10 Sep 2008 /  #28
not bad except for the face she could use some help but she could be kinda squeeky if u rub her the wrong way
OP roynelson 3 | 22  
10 Sep 2008 /  #29
thanks shelly s for being honest.
dcchris 8 | 432  
10 Sep 2008 /  #30
roy gotta agree with ole shelly there it is possible that u could meet and marry a polish girl but not like this. like I said advertise for a friend and perhaps more. u might find a wife especially if u talk about having alot of money but thats probably not the type u want. we call them gold diggers. if I was u I would use another route get to know some polish females if they respond and take it slowly I had alot of friends in India in similar situations and I can somewhat understand your predicament with the family pressure and whatnot. good luck you might want to learn some polish which broaden your search. but I would not recommend coming here on a hunting expedition. you will be sorely disappointed because the nice polish girls are a bit shy and reserved and well connected to family

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