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Who makes a good Polish wife?


ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
10 Sep 2008 /  #31
thanks shelly s for being honest.

Join a dating agency - get to know someone and then see how it goes- western culture is very different to that, that exists in India - arranged marriages are easy in comparison - in the west it is normal to date for a couple of years (some have been known to date for over 10 years) fall in love and learn about them and then the next step is to plan a wedding and then to live together and learn more and more each day about the other person.

You simply can't just walk up to someone and expect them to give up their life and home and marry what could be considered a complete stranger. I don't know how old you are Roy but I think possibly you need to grow up a little bit and consider what it means to another person to have to leave their family and to go and live in a country which is culturally a million miles away :)

You have a picture in your minds eye of your perfect dream woman, maybe closing your eyes to others is stopping you finding something that might be right in front of you.

Good luck :)
OP roynelson 3 | 22  
10 Sep 2008 /  #32
shelly, i didnt mean to be rude towards ya. i am 25 and kinda young, i would love to make friends first and then date and all that. but how . please dont shoot me down but help me. i know i am stupid for wanting this. i like polish women shelly , i really do. i am physically attracted to them. i dont know how to explain to you. but when i meet an indian woman my mind shuts down. i want to try a dating agency. i do have a few friends on facebook that i write to every now and then. india is not such a bad place to live. nor is dubai. i am a very simple guy, who just wants to be happy. i feel like a fool to be honest telling u about this stuff, but i have to open up to somone. poland is only like maybe 7 hrs away by flight from dubai. i know we can make it as a couple. i just need someone to believe in the fact that what i'm talking about is possible. if i marry her and decide to live with her in poland, i could do that for love and i probably would be happy in poland, but i do not have any clout in poland, i dont have a house over there. what do i do for work . i dont speak polish. all kinds of problems.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
11 Sep 2008 /  #33
I understand you have an attraction to a certain type of woman, we all have different taste.

Join a dating agency, but finding someone who is genuine and honest is a difficult task in this day and age, be careful about the information you give out regarding your wealth - the kind of women that are easily impressed about money are hardly the kind of women that will love you for who you are.

Try dating agencies in Dubai, maybe there are some single Polish girls working over there, that way they know the reality of living outside of Poland and experiencing a completely different culture in a place like Dubia.

I'm not sure you will ever find what you are looking for because of the environment you are in, you are in UAE and Polish girls are mainly in Europe - it kind of narrows the chances down. Hopping on a plane and visiting for a few days isn't really going to reep any benefits to your search either (I explained about Western style dating and courtship process). Somethings are never meant to happen, you loved and lost whilst in the States and I think you want to re-capture what you had, maybe you should just be happy with the memories you have of the Polish girl you dated out there.

Anyway, I hope you find love
Dekameron 1 | 146  
11 Sep 2008 /  #34
who makes a good wife

Well theres this guy on the Rakowska Street in my city, he makes pretty good wives but there's no warrancy so if she breaks down and stops working you need to either trow her out or pay a hefty sum to have her repaired.
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
11 Sep 2008 /  #35
hhhhmmmm a good Polish wife, well lets see: If i was having a family it would have to be with either PolishGirlX or Krysia, i reckon they have great mothering qualities in them and would make lovely wives :).

If i was looking for an energetic wife who could be called 'challenging' then it would be Jowita, Wyspi or Justysia, I reckon these three girls have got a hell of a personality and would keep you on your toes no matter what!!!!!. What fun it would be traveling the world with either of these three.

OK if i was looking for a wife who was quite, went along with everything and was just loving, you know lovey dovey, i would probably be thinking about uuuummmmm-hotie or however many flippin 'u's' and 'm's' she has in her name!!!. Also along the similar path but a little more demanding would be LondonChick :) sure to be loving but with a little fire in the belly, ok not like wyspi but still a little bit of fire :).

If i was looking for a wife to control me, lol, like hell!!! I would probably be looking at PolskaDoll or Becski, I wouldn't get a word in or decision in edge ways, i reckon these ladies would make kool wives as they would be totally independent and not need mollycoddling every five seconds, there is nothing like an independent women, it can be an attractive quality.

Of course as well as some of the characterstics all of these ladies are lovely, beautiful and have many qualities that you may expect of your Polish wife, love to you all :):):):)

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polishgirltx  
11 Sep 2008 /  #36
If i was having a family it would have to be with either PolishGirlX or Krysia, i reckon they have great mothering qualities in them and would make lovely wives :).

huh? lol...
Wahldo  
11 Sep 2008 /  #37
Torny, the lady's man.. sh/iiit baby, work it .
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
12 Sep 2008 /  #38
roynelson fancies white women, they are exotic. That is fair enough, i think most people are at least curious about other races and find them exotic.

i gurantee our customs is a lot like the polish customs. we go to church on fridays and fast , do novenas on wednesdays. celebrate all the religious holidays the way the poles do.

So to summurise this guy was lieing (I quite liked him, he had a sence of humour). He may not be Mulsim but he sure as hell isn't Catholic.

So this has two very different meanings for me,

Either he was afraid that we would not except him if he were not Catholic, which some people wouldn't but shows cowardice on his part

OR

It is one of those nightmare stories, were the guy lies through his teeth for his own purposes.

Of course having caught him in a lie it would be unwise to trust anything he says, unless it is just for fun and of no consequence.
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
12 Sep 2008 /  #39
huh? lol...

Of course i'm not being serious, i was just leveling up some skills and qualities certain memebers may have for a marriage, after all just look at the name of the thread :)

Torny, the lady's man.. sh/iiit baby, work it .

OMG i don't like those clothes and the hairstyle can go too :):)
polishgirltx  
12 Sep 2008 /  #40
Of course i'm not being serious, i was just leveling up some skills and qualities certain memebers may have for a marriage, after all just look at the name of the thread :)

huh? lol ;) you're saved Tornado... ;)
pldudeinus - | 6  
14 Sep 2008 /  #41
“Polish wife in Dubai” - it is not gonna happen. Even if she is some stupid bleach-blond country side peasant girl, totally unattractive or old, or simply is doing it for the money, she is not gonna put up with the pre-medieval life there for long. She may do it for few years, like a job. Polish women are capable to endure harsh lives, the communist regime taught that. But finnaly, it is gonna end in the divorce.

You cannot expect to hold an independent and free-spirited Polish woman happy in a cage for a long time, even if it is a “gold” cage like Dubai.
OP roynelson 3 | 22  
14 Sep 2008 /  #42
u are so stupid man
Uncle Bob 2 | 82  
14 Sep 2008 /  #43
I suspect it is not stupidity but ignorance
OP roynelson 3 | 22  
14 Sep 2008 /  #44
people perish for the lack of knowledge
stemacker - | 2  
14 Sep 2008 /  #45
I think polish women make better wifes and girlfriends
I'm irish and i am marrying my polish girlfriend in 09 and there is no comparison between irish and polish girls
100% poland all the way
sausage 19 | 777  
14 Sep 2008 /  #46
there is no comparison between irish and polish girls

not even in the paleness of their skin?
stemacker - | 2  
14 Sep 2008 /  #47
haha well i'm pale so imake up for the two of us
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535  
14 Sep 2008 /  #48
people perish for the lack of knowledge

True.

However, you also must review yourself from time to time. What is it that you exactly seek? ... think deeply.

Physical fantasies dont last long after marriage. I dont mind Indians getting married to Polish or European...infact I smile pleasantly at it! However, to consider Indian women any less would be very naive. Why do one person have to do that? It is so immature and unhealthy. It shows a needy moral value.

Plus, its appalling.

You said you were decendant of portuguese. So what makes you so proud about it? The country where you live, the food you ate from its land, the very birth you had their. You identity was give there... you have shown enough respect to them, to prove your capability to respectfulness.

However... its your life. I hope you can manage it well.
OP roynelson 3 | 22  
14 Sep 2008 /  #49
polish woman and indian woman are a lot in common all expect religion which is the deciding factor for me.
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535  
14 Sep 2008 /  #50
all expect religion which is the deciding factor for me.

Your previous post didnt seem to emphasize so much on that issue, as you claim now.

However, if religion is a factor for you... look inside you and see what Jesus was actually after. Or do you follow your own Jesus? Where you make a statue which looks almost exactly like you... just with a beard and long here... almost in starving conditions... in a white robe! lol...and looking for a polish woman at the best! :D... Roysus Neist... the saviour! :P

Anyways... I do not oppose the idea of interracial integration. I actually welcome this move. However, I see a more normal, emotional reason more beautiful than such a statistical, calculated reason.
Dekameron 1 | 146  
14 Sep 2008 /  #51
she's quiet, doesn't need a new pair of shoes every week, always ready for some love, never jealous about other ladies, faithful and never starts quarells ;)

Honey you seem so deflated today. There was a strange air about her. She was so full she almost exploded.
OP roynelson 3 | 22  
14 Sep 2008 /  #52
actually i have been made fun of on these forums for stating that i was catholic. and christians are less 3 % minority in india. if you read todays papers. you will see how many christians have been persecuted by the hands of the hindus. and how many priest have been burnt alive. So many churches burnt in india. Now being christian i know i dont want to yoke myself with unbelievers. india is great country, and a super powers country but the fact of the matter is its an idol worshipping country and i am a roman catholic christian.
Dekameron 1 | 146  
14 Sep 2008 /  #53
Roy i'll share a little secret with you, coming to these boards with a huge poster "I AM A CATHOLIC" wont get you laid, seriously.
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535  
14 Sep 2008 /  #54
with a huge poster "I AM A CATHOLIC" wont get you laid

exactly :)
OP roynelson 3 | 22  
14 Sep 2008 /  #55
u guys have a problem comprehending what i write. u think i wanna just get laid with some polish chick. oh u have a problem with me being catholic. oh u have a problem with me goin after polish women. oh u must have a real good reason to marry a polish girl, and being catholic shouldnt be one of the reasons. give me a break dude. i certainly aint gonna put polish women on a pedestal . There are plenty of nice women from my country. u think getting laid with a polish chick is the first thing on my mind. man ur opinions of foreginers are just pathetic.
Dekameron 1 | 146  
14 Sep 2008 /  #56
u think getting laid with a polish chick is the first thing on my mind

Nah but you came here in a rather naive belief that being catholic is going to score you a massive bonus, it generally wont.

oh u must have a real good reason to marry a polish girl

Well i love her and she has these enormous absolutely perfect boobs, also she's a master cook thats four reasons ( including the boobs ) to marry her.

You strike me as either very young or just very naive, anyway good luck with your search.
miranda  
14 Sep 2008 /  #58
who makes a good wife

somebody who has a good husband.
wildrover 98 | 4,451  
12 Nov 2008 /  #59
Who makes a good Polish wife?

Errr.... a Polish woman...?
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
28 Nov 2008 /  #60
The ones with their heads screwed on. My fiancee is tough, resourceful and talented. She gets things done. She will make a super wife.

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