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having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child)


OP mobile 1 | 82  
27 Jan 2007 /  #151
Besides I dont think all this bashing is right, they are judging you, what about him???

As for all this he is using you rubbish, it sounds like he is very smitten and only time will tell what the outcome will be...good luck

i know i am not stupid we are as bad as each other its not just sex on either part he is smitten bless him and we both hate the situation but its too soon to try and sort it
KUKULKA  
27 Jan 2007 /  #152
if he's been away from Poland for 2.5 years then what does that say for his marriage --> it says nothing since I know marriages which survived 7-9 years ...they had affairs of course...but most came back.

what about the Polish women in relationships with other men!
---> it does happen more often than other way around
just like yourself! <--to this I don't answer you would have to explain what you mean by "just like yourself"
Maati 1 | 178  
27 Jan 2007 /  #153
Some Polish families are apart since 2003, when Poland joined EU. Almost 3 yrs.
It is called long-distance realtionship. Some guys are bringing their families over there as soon as they make enough money.

I don't know, why he's not going to bring his family over to the UK, if he makes good money there to support all of them. If his relationship in Poland is over, why he's not divorced yet? What lies he's telling his wife that she still believes him and is not there with him yet? And why he's so concerned about his teenage daughter, if he haven't seen her for 2,5 yrs? Do you think she doesn't see sth is wrong? It's obvious what he's doing...
OP mobile 1 | 82  
27 Jan 2007 /  #154
now i dont want to sound big headed here but i am a very beautiful woman and his wife is not he says i am the best woman he has ever met in and out of bed.. now i know what u are gonna say that he is gonna say that to get sex

but most came back.

most thats right but why go back if u have better
Decorator 4 | 291  
27 Jan 2007 /  #155
No you don't sound at all conceited :)
OP mobile 1 | 82  
27 Jan 2007 /  #156
It's obvious what he's doing...

i think he had good intentions and like he always says he didnt know he was gonna meet me and have feelings
Maati 1 | 178  
27 Jan 2007 /  #157
now i dont want to sound big headed here but i am a very beautiful woman and his wife is not he says i am the best woman he has ever met in and out of bed.. now i know what u are gonna say that he is gonna say that to get sex

And u believe everything he tells you.
Have you seen his wife's pic?
OP mobile 1 | 82  
27 Jan 2007 /  #158
No you don't sound at all conceited

what can i say? lol
Maati 1 | 178  
27 Jan 2007 /  #159
Reply Quote . Jan 27, 07 [07:11] . Post #186

Quoting: Maati, Post #182
It's obvious what he's doing...

i think he had good intentions and like he always says he didnt know he was gonna meet me and have feelings

Pity this guy has a daughter.
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
27 Jan 2007 /  #160
Some Polish families are apart since 2003, when Poland joined EU. Almost 3 yrs.
It is called long-distance realtionship. Some guys are bringing their families over there as soon as they make enough money.

Well this guy hasnt and he's taking home about 2k after tax & NI so that tells me he likes his life in England and doesnt want his family here

And maybe he just doesnt want to hurt his daughter, thats a good enough reason...he needs to get some backbone and be honest.

Okay and if all these Polish women are marrying other men, what about the Polish men that was my point or are there more Polish women than men! you do the maths!
OP mobile 1 | 82  
27 Jan 2007 /  #161
And u believe everything he tells you.
Have you seen his wife's pic?

yes i belive him because i am and yes i have seen his wife she is nothing special

Well this guy hasnt and he's taking home about 2k after tax & NI so that tells me he likes his life in England and doesnt want his family here

And maybe he just doesnt want to hurt his daughter, thats a good enough reason...he needs to get some backbone and be honest.

Okay and if all these Polish women are marrying other men, what about the Polish men that was my point or are there more Polish women than men! you do the maths!

he does like england and he says he doesnt want his daughter to blame herself for the relationship ending, he will sit and explain to her
KUKULKA  
27 Jan 2007 /  #162
I think he is not bringing them to UK because he plans to go back to Poland. He is not divorced because there is nothing wrong with his marriage. His wife may know that perhaps he has somebody for now but know him well enough to be sure that he will be back. He is concerned about his daughter because he loves her and most likely his wife too. Of course it is possible that he is sooooooo smitten by the English "lady'" since he didn't have a woman for a while...She cannot judge the situation for she doesn't know polish reality. Many families have to live like his... long years of separation, affairs etc...
OP mobile 1 | 82  
27 Jan 2007 /  #163
Many families have to live like his... long years of separation, affairs etc

and many dont

it was also never me who meantioned getting divorce it was him
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
27 Jan 2007 /  #164
I think he is not bringing them to UK because he plans to go back to Poland. He is not divorced because there is nothing wrong with his marriage. His wife may know that perhaps he has somebody for now but know him well enough to be sure that he will be back. He is concerned about his daughter because he loves her and most likely his wife too. Of course it is possible that he is sooooooo smitten by the English "lady'" since he didn't have a woman for a while...She cannot judge the situation for she doesn't know polish reality. Many families have to live like his... long years of separation, affairs etc...

affairs, now that doesnt say a lot about Polish men and their morals does it now..a little bit of reserve would be called for because I dont know any English women that would put up with that kind of thing, most men that go and work away for long periods take their wives with them - if they love them -
OP mobile 1 | 82  
27 Jan 2007 /  #165
now you and i know that but nobody else seems to, i wouldnt put up with that english, polish whatever
KUKULKA  
27 Jan 2007 /  #166
Perhaps, that is why you cannot judge the situation properly ...your live over there is different, you dont have to cope with such problems ...simply you dont have a clue...and please do not mention morals here we are talking about a lady sleeping with a married man after all... English Lady! by the way...
OP mobile 1 | 82  
27 Jan 2007 /  #167
English Lady! by the way...

english lady and polish man wow
Maati 1 | 178  
27 Jan 2007 /  #168
And maybe he just doesnt want to hurt his daughter, thats a good enough reason...he needs to get some backbone and be honest.

He already did it. He didn't provide better future for her in the UK. He's a PE and a teacher, wow, I'm impressed, but didn't think about his own kid... Also, I wonder what stories he's telling his daughter all the time, if he has ever visited her in PL. He's a teenager, he hates him, I'm sure. 2,5 yrs there.

Anothre thing I am sure of, we have in Poland very strict child support law. I don't know, if you want to date him in the future, after he would be paying his wife and his daughter more than half of the "big money" he makes.
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
27 Jan 2007 /  #169
NO we talking about a married man sleeping with a single women.....who's in the wrong, not her!
KUKULKA  
27 Jan 2007 /  #170
and why not her but him? It is easier for him over there you think?
OP mobile 1 | 82  
27 Jan 2007 /  #171
its not about the money i would encourage him to pay for his daughters upkeep for the rest of his life... why r u so bitter
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
27 Jan 2007 /  #172
Anothre thing I am sure of, we have in Poland very strict child support law. I don't know, if you want to date him in the future, after he would be paying his wife and his daughter more than half of the "big money" he makes.

Now thats a positive thing, but enforcing such a thing is difficult....since he is in England and she is in Poland, they cant put an attachment on his earnings
Ranj 21 | 948  
27 Jan 2007 /  #173
NO we talking about a married man sleeping with a single women.....who's in the wrong, not her!

They both are in the wrong---like I said, it takes 2 to tango.
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
27 Jan 2007 /  #174
Mobile, some people are just blinkered, I dont condone what he has done, but these things happen.

They both are in the wrong---like I said, it takes 2 to tango.

One married one not, he's the one doing wrong IMHO
OP mobile 1 | 82  
27 Jan 2007 /  #175
Mobile, some people are just blinkered, I dont condone what he has done, but these things happen

neither do i we both shouldnt have done it but as u say these things happen if he and his wife were so happy then it wouldnt of happened, now i have to go to meet him in the supermarket ha ha
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
27 Jan 2007 /  #176
And another thing, making out that English women are not good enough for Polish men, what rubbish
KUKULKA  
27 Jan 2007 /  #177
One knew the other one is married but one feels has a chance must be so sure of oneself...
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
27 Jan 2007 /  #178
supermarket ha ha

No canoodling by the cold meats section!
OP mobile 1 | 82  
27 Jan 2007 /  #179
And another thing, making out that English women are not good enough for Polish men, what rubbish

i think im actually too good for him, he cant belive his look!!!
Decorator 4 | 291  
27 Jan 2007 /  #180
now i have to go to meet him in the supermarket ha ha

You best hurry it is an easy place to meet single British women...:)

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