having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child)

Didn't say he wasn't in the wrong. But hey, she knew what she was getting into, so I say, more power to both of them. If they're both happy, then screw what everybody else says or thinks!

luck


not as god as me lol

you had already a bad luck meeting him...now think, be jealous, wait, wonder what will be and if it will happen... if you look good go and find your own man especially that you are not very much into his looks maybe now it doesnt bother you much but it will soon ...

Has he got any married brothers in Poland thinking of coming to England to work, give me a shout if he has...lol

It makes me wonder about English men...are they so miserable in bed?

Not at all, but I cant say I've had the whole population but what I have had have been very good..arrrrr fond memories!

I was joking in my post re: married brother BTW..

Nonsense !! Women are constantly laughing at me in the bedroom! :)

Yep, they can. They can revoke his passport and other ID documents. Enforcing is much easier, since PL is in the EU. It's enough, if his wife knows his address and his place of work there.


It has nothing to do with if they love their wives and kids or not.
Unfortunately, most of them don't bring their families over, because they do not make enough money there to support them. I am not talking about IT ppl or the guys like Mobile is dating now. Kids need to go to school, to be taken care of all the time and that's quite expensive. Some folks are there temporary to repair home budget.


Yes, this is what I was talking about referring to these one thousand stories I heard about such relationships :) Polish reality is much, much different, but these women still live in a fantasy world.

I hope you are not referring to me, I live in the real world hence my comments about cheating men being dumped, English women dont put up with that kind of behaviour....now thats reality..

LOL at Mr D....:)

Mobile is putting up with it by being with a cheating man and she's English.

But she's not being cheated on...

As far as she knows....

Well Im sure she'll drop him like a hot brick if he does...

thats right he couldnt possibly get any better!!!! polish women must just not be all that

that was only a joke but come on guys give me a break maybe we do have something special, maybe you just havent!!!


at least i can live out my fantasy

If you believe it, that's all that matters....don't worry about what anybody else thinks.

im not worried just met him and it still feels right

Listen Mobile, you don't know anything about Polish women, since you probably didn't meet so many in your life. Women have different perspective, when they have kids and family. Polish women are family oriented and they will do everything to keep their families together unless the case is hopeless.

You cannot be sure that your boyfriend will not cheat on you in the future, since he was cheating on his wife and their daughter


Yes, you sure can, causing somebody else's pain and tears...I mean his wife and a kid. You are also responsible for it.

I am not against such relationships, since my partner is not Polish.
However, I would never get involved in a relation with a married/in a relationship guy.
Maybe it's because I am a mother myself and I would have killed somebody ignorant who would like to destroy my family...

its upto him what he wants to do if she is such a great woman then maybe he will stay

I don't know the whole situation. I wonder, why his family is not with him yet, since he makes enough to provide for all of them there. Why his wife accepts this situation, since she knows they already could have been together as a family there? It's strange, because normal Polish guy will bring them over long time ago. Something is very wrong and I don't think that guy is honest with you and with his wife.

For you or even for him your relationship may not be so important. You never know, what his wife thinks and what he have told her. She may tolerate everything but maybe not cheating on her. Who knows?

If you are that pretty as you say, just go and find a nice, single Polish boy your age.
I bet that guy is older than you...

luck, even :)

its not a game i dont go around looking for a polish man it makes no difference if he wasnt polish and im not looking i like him a lot and dont want to look for anyone else.. i am 29 he is 38

i'm 26 :-)

I'm 37 and married. Want to date? :)
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Just kidding.. I'm not really married :)

thats funny

Its not that big an age gap, they're both adults...

age aint nothing but a number

first, you have to ask your self mobile, do you really love him or only passion?? no body fault in this case...but he is not good man... how he guarantee you that he doesn't love his wife...?? don't waste your time for the guy like him... there is someone you deserve happy with... may take time..but all decision depend on you... coz only ourself who know very well what really make us happy.....wish you luck...

Why does anyone actually give a toss what this woman is doing.....and why the hell would anyone post such a thing on a forum, I wonder how this Polish guy would react if he knew his life was being spoken about in such a way!!! Just let her get on with it!

I always said that when my wife turned 40, I was going to trade her in for 2 20yr olds girls :)

If he cheats on his wife that is his problem, not yours - but it shows that he is not to be trusted and that may affect you .............. please listen to my advice , drop him and find a man who is unattached , you deserve to be with someone who is available and wants ONLY YOU !! I am an English woman in Trowbridge seeking to meet a Polish guy with handsome dark looks - but he must be single with no wife or children !