because I want people to realise their mistaken approach
Nope.
You are very conveniently ignoring the parts of my argument that don't fit your point of view, like the one that it's ridiculous to claim to possess saving faith and at the same time reject and break God's commandments. You also dismiss Reformed theology as being "mostly man-made" (as opposed to which theology, if I may ask?). You do it even though you apparently have no significant knowledge of it. It doesn't surprise me because it's your usual stuff - I don't remember anyone on this forum ever convincing you to change your point of view on anything - you are truly a
besserwisser extraordinaire. :)
some believe they are saving their souls when they impose various bans on other people who don`t believe
I never said that. Moreover, I explicitly denied that idea, but
still you bring it up again. Same old, same old. :)
And that is a very harmful belief coz all religious wars and massacres were started for that reason.
Such a horrible platitude. I would answer this if you were 16, but I believe you are closer to 60, so.
let non-believers do what they deem right for themselves (...) If they aren`t your wife or life partner, it is none of your business
Well, some things (like murdering children) should definitely be banned and it has nothing to do with people being believers or non-believers or with them being somebody's wives or partners. Any sane society has to have laws against criminal act of murder, especially murder of innocent child by its mother.
Of course, you can stick to your immoral and hypocrytical view of "I believe abortion is evil and I would never do it myself, but I want others to do it freely if they want to", but don't expect sane people, especially Christians, to subscribe to this preposterous approach.