Are all beautiful Polish girls as crazy as this?

Very true, Midas. Don't they know that a country can only have one true princess? ;) The parents seem to encourage this vanity as it has run through the generations, the trickle-down effect. I've never met any Jewish girls personally.

Contrary to Polish families, Jewish families don't encourage vanity in girls ( this may not hold true for some parts of U.S. where the Jewish blood is often very thinly spread out ).

In Poland it's in my opinion downright scary how vain and fickle some women can be and how society in general accepts that without even blinking. "Kobieta zmienna jest", etc.


Indeed. Although watching "Polish princesses" "compete for territory" can be hillarious at times.

Yes,I cannot hold enough of them in my lap.


Such a distaster?Jewish blood thinned?

Keep your anti-semitism in check, please.

In Scotland, mothers of course want their daughters to feel comfortable about themselves but I wouldn't say vanity is encouraged there either.

Calling yourself the best is just the ultimate in vanity and leaves nothing to subjectivity. It is laughable.

Agreed.

Not all Polish women are of that belief, but the ones that are...oh brother...

The problem is that they are so brainwashed into believing this that all arguments fall on deaf ears.

Well, defiance and defensiveness are also pervasive so any attempts to change their minds are fruitless. Therefore, the best reaction is ignorance.

What if this belief is actually true?I on contrary found polish girls quite humble and much less stuck up than their appearance would allow them to be in the West.I mean here girls think they are nothing less than queens even when they are semi or no attractive.

Reached the same conclusion a few years ago.

We don't doubt that quite a few are humble, southern. However, you clearly haven't had your ears open that much around certain types. There is a readily discernible element in Poland where everything must be the best and it's lame.

You use cryptic language.I don't understand what you mean.

He's using plain ol' English damn it.

And talking about something a number of my acquaintances from other parts of the world ( Germany, U.K., Belgium, France ) easily noticed when they spent a bit of time in Poland.

Poland's strengths are known.They don't need to be advertised.However in my opinion their pride etc was considerably harmed by the constant defeats and communism completed the process,so I cannot really spot any prince or princess like mentality contrary to where the classes remained intact.

Conclusion :
all Polish girls are beatify crazy
or crazily beautiful
or are you all crazy
or are you all beatify crazy!

I-S (enough of this nonsense crazy people, get a medical help)

OK, I posted this thread and it seems to be unravelling.

The main point I'm picking up is that her behaviour is certainly not atypical for a Polish girl/beautiful girl/beautiful Polish girl.

I'm finding that I'm reading things I actually know already: for example, perhaps I've put up with more sh** because I am blinded by beauty (I'm a guy - you know, shallow that way). It is clear that - perhaps since coming to Britain - she has discovered physical beauty is a source of power, and that it can be used to manipulate men (me!); hardly anything new, I suppose.

It is worrying. She has brought out the worst in me (I hate conflict - she thrives on it), and has gradually eroded my faith in my previous vain hope that a physically beatiful woman can also be sweet, a little modest, pleasant, even 'normal'. Which is sad, because I do want a nice personality, shared interests and beliefs etc., but unfortunately I am also a sucker for natural beauty (not the fake tan/big t*ts/square white fingernails kind). A dilemna.

However, my gut feeling is that she has to go. She does not make me happy, and I find it virtually impossible to picture any viable future with her. Sad.

Anyway, thanks for the more thoughtful contributions. And if you are a naturally beautiful Polish girl who also thinks she is normal and pleasant, do feel free to contact me. ;)

Cheers

What you are describing is a woman. Get used to it. Life with a hot blooded woman is interesting and never dull.

Women are like horses. There is the very stable, very predictable sway back nag. That horse will seldom give you any trouble.

Then there is the hot blooded Arabian with a slick coat. Fire in her eyes. She can kill you if you let her. Maybe get you both killed if she is bad in traffic, spooky. So....you must be man enough to train her. She is testing you. Use the reins and dig in your heels to let her run a bit, when safe.

You must man up. Never show ANY weakness in front of a woman. Like a horse, some women desire and demand you to be a leader. Many are just testing you.

Like a horse, a horse will try to see what they can get away with. So will a woman. A woman will walk on you if you let her. So don't let her. But.....as with a horse...be firm, yet kind. Gentle yet NEVER weak.

You must train a horse in order to have a serviceable source of transportation.
You must also be man enough to train your woman, to have a serviceable wife.
But with a woman. You must also allow yourself to be trained.
You train each other, in order to become a couple, Not Individuals.

Never BEAT your horse or woman. But a spanking is sometimes necessary.
Lovingly, NEVER out of anger, or Rage. A man must ALWAYS be in control of both. You spank to modify behavior. Spank her, then immediately make gentle love to her.

Be gentle with your woman. NEVER WEAK. NEVER.

Pick your battles VERY carefully. Let her have her way with the home. She must feel safe and a bit in control there. The home is a womans domain, you just live there. Understand this.

-Most women want to feel protected. You must be strong but kind, gentle NEVER weak.
-They like compliments and to feel they are MOST beautiful to you. You have to let her know that she is MOST Beautiful to you. No one else.

-Train her. Also allow yourself to be trained in some matters.
-Learn to make money and to care for the physical needs of life. A woman needs to feel cared for. Not lavish. But safe. Again.....some women will spend lavishly. But you as a man must be in control and limit her. Never attempt to buy love. But do tend her needs.

Sounds like you two are in love. A woman like that is usually great in bed. Jealous means she cares. Controlling means she is testing you. On some things give in. Pick your battles and stand your ground on matters of protecting her, home, well being, or finances.

Realize that ALL women are somewhat irrational. Go with the flow. And speaking of flow. Mark on your calendar when her menstral time arrives. A week prior or during for some women. They are a real pain, and some are crazy. Stay away from them at that time. The cure is to either stay away, once you figure out when her bad time is. Or to fill her womb with a child. But then you have new problems.

Welcome to life.
Welcome to dealing with women.
Some of the advice I've given is good. Some might be ********, for your situation?
Try and see what works or doesn't work. We as men are always trying to figure it out. Because with a woman it always changes.

You must find a certain groove and equalibreum as a couple. It takes a few years sometimes. Be patient if she is worth it.

A woman will yank your chain if you let her. Don't let her. Control your emotions. Be a man. NOT a boy.

Best of luck and many children to you both.

Rotfl...

You sir must be a hit with the feminists... Or with most women for that matter.

Yeah, plucked straight from one of those atrocious so-called help books. The guy needs to dump her as she has crossed some lines. Tighten the noose and put her under the cosh, see how she feels when the boot is on the other foot.

Another thing I've learned is that they'll take everything from you but give nothing back. It's like they feel they deserve it for some contrived reason. DO NOT fall for it!

Women are like cats not like horses(we talk about slavic women of course,kocky).

Still bearing the scratch marks, southern? ;) ;) Those claws go really deep sometimes :)

I am supposed to be a kotek too.

No comfort without conflict is spot on! There needs to be a gripe and a groan before their nerves get settled. It's toxic!

This is women's opinion.They like excitement,emotional conflicts etc like in the soap operas.
I should learn some soap operas lines to deliver.But there male actors manage also to cry or appear about to cry,for sure they have special techniques.

That's true! Sometimes life out on the streets is like those mind-numbingly boring and dramatic serials like Na Wspólne or M Jak Miłość. Moping and dour faces abound!

Do you suggest them?

As cures for insomnia maybe ;)

They are shockingly bad! Looking around the streets today, many lost souls.

Do you fish lost souls?
Anyway do you think that Poland can have a permanent saddening effect or detriment,how do you call it?Can it change sb's character?

Certain segments of it, southern. I know some people here that are pure gems and are full of charisma. They know who they are and are always uplifting :) Some of the negative mumphing and grumphing is purely theatrical and can get you down if you don't respond to it in the right way.

This is all silly. No one can generalise a whole country like this. She's just a bad apple, pretty or not.

I've got a crazy Polka and she is incredibly cheap,she never asks for anything.A plot?But I continue to care my blachary.