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Posts by Becoming dad  

Joined: 11 Jan 2018 / Male ♂
Last Post: 20 Dec 2019
Threads: 2
Posts: 23
From: Nigeria
Speaks Polish?: no
Interests: becoming dad

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Becoming dad   
3 Jul 2019
Love / Help my Polish wife hates sex [34]

@PolDud

It's probably gonna take more than a month but it sounds like a good idea and I'm up for it. Thanks for the advice man
Becoming dad   
3 Jul 2019
Love / Help my Polish wife hates sex [34]

@johnny reb

She ain't cheating that's for sure. I would know if she was. There's no time for her to cheat.
Becoming dad   
3 Jul 2019
Love / Help my Polish wife hates sex [34]

@Dirk diggler
I ain't trolling and I'm an inch to cheating. It's not a thing to be proud to say but it is what it is
Becoming dad   
29 Jun 2019
Love / Help my Polish wife hates sex [34]

@dolnoslask
E be like say cockroach don chop this one brain.

What has a free pass into Europe got do with what I'm talking about here?
Becoming dad   
29 Jun 2019
Love / Help my Polish wife hates sex [34]

@Lenka
I don't know what you meant by burnt but let me try and be clear. We have only had sex once in three months, It's a bit easy for me to cope because we were in a long distance relationship for a sometime and it took as long as 6 months to be apart meaning no sex for six months. I used the word allergic because that's the best way to describe how she feels after taking the pill.

@Ziemowit
I specified "Polish" because she's the first and hopefully only Polish woman I will be with. I have no experience with Polish women. The character and behavior or people differ according to their background or upbringing.

To those of you surprised that I found a girl after two months of no sex, let me say this, I did not have sex with her. There are many Penpal and chat sites to find male or female friends with benefits and two months is a long time to for being denied sex as a married man or woman. Come on let's be real here
Becoming dad   
29 Jun 2019
Love / Help my Polish wife hates sex [34]

@pawian
I told her once that we needed to visit a marriage counsellor but she refused. She's really stubborn.

@johnny reb
Tying her tubes sounds like a good idea, hopefully this might help
Becoming dad   
28 Jun 2019
Love / Help my Polish wife hates sex [34]

We have been married two years and have a daughter. Pregnancy wasn't planned but she got pregnant and it freaked her out. She's scared to have sex because she says she thinks she will get pregnant again. She's allergic to contraceptives and doesn't "trust" condoms. It's becoming frustrating because we haven't done it for over two months. Once she even said I should find a girl to do it with and as long as I don't get her pregnant and it's just one girl she's fine with it. So I went hunting on one of these chat sites and found a girl who was looking for friends with benefits. I told my wife and when she saw her photos and our chats, she went berserk.

Any other men married to Polish women going through the same here? I ain't the type to eat the forbidden fruit but I'm being pushed to the wall here with or without approval.
Becoming dad   
12 Jun 2019
Real Estate / Websites to find an apartment for rent in Poland? [28]

As to owners not renting to (some) foreigners, it is of course a reality (not only in Poland but everywhere again) and NEVER we read anything of the kind in PF

@InPolska I'm surprised a grown up put so much effort in writing such absurdity. How tenants treats a house is not dependent on their ethnic background or nationality. I'm currently renting a flat with my wife and daughter and the landlord gave us the initial three months free because I renovated the house like it was mine. I'm not Polish, I'm from a "third world country" and not all of us have disrespect for people's property. I'm pretty sure a lot of Europeans have done a lot damage to people's property.

People shouldn't be judged by their nationality or race except you are still living in 1869.
Becoming dad   
7 Jun 2019
Law / Advice needed on why my Poland National Visa D has been refused? [49]

I got the number from their website which is ‭222500124‬ but the auto operator put ls me on hold for 30 minutes every time then it call ends. I have read that you can only be attended in the office by appointment and booking an appointment in the office is impossible as well because there's never a space available. Also read the spaces are being sold.
Becoming dad   
7 Jun 2019
Law / Advice needed on why my Poland National Visa D has been refused? [49]

Does any anyone here have an idea how long it takes for an application for residents permit as a spouse and father of a Polish citizen to be processed? It's been over three months since I applied and haven't heard from them. The Voivodeship Office phone number is nonexistent as they never pick up calls. I rang a lawyer and they said it will take more than a year but they could assist me in getting it quicker. I think they just want to make money off me. @pawian seems to good at researching, I have searched and searched on google but nothing tangible found.
Becoming dad   
11 May 2019
Law / HOW LONG DOES THE APPLICATION FOR KARTA POBYTU TAKE TO PROCESS IN POLAND! [35]

Merged:

How long does it take to process an application for residents permit



Does anyone here have experience about this? I put in an application about three months ago and I still haven't heard from them. Calls to their office are being cut off after being put on hold for 30 mins.
Becoming dad   
10 Feb 2018
Law / New law for foreigners : No longer any need to submit documents before expiration of Karta Pobytu? [15]

@Babajarro
Only weak men try and bring other people down with words that have maybe brought other people down, their d1ck gets hard when they feel "in their head" that they are on top, a bully only on the keyboard. You can think or say or believe in that little brain of yours that I'm a refugee, you have that right but thank Jesus you ain't God cos I ain't no refugee and even if you met a refugee is the first thing you say to them. "haha you are a refugee"? You are a really weak and sad human.

@O WELL
Lmao first of all it's not an immigration office, it's an embassy or a consul and I only claim I'm the boss when I'm the boss
Becoming dad   
20 Jan 2018
Life / What gifts to take? Presents customs in Poland. [129]

common

It gets confusing by the second. I think I'm just gonna buy something simple like the picture frame someone mentioned.

@LongTermR
You probably haven't travelled much that's why you haven't had the opportunity to see long term interracial couples. I would advice you to stop making love to sexdolls and go out to find a real woman. You sound so pathetic that I feel sorry for you.
Becoming dad   
20 Jan 2018
Life / What gifts to take? Presents customs in Poland. [129]

@jon357
A framed picture sounds brilliant. I know where to get nice art paintings so that might be the perfect gift.

@kaprys
I know the father drinks but someone said it wasn't a good idea. I don't know the culture there. I also have to buy gifts bro her brother and his wife because they have been supportive and really nice. If I asked my wife she will say no spending so just gonna surprise her.
Becoming dad   
19 Jan 2018
Life / What gifts to take? Presents customs in Poland. [129]

Lol of course, hey Dad, I bought you a Nigerian sexdoll, she's got the Nigerian booty.

Chocolates in Nigeria are imported, flowers will die in transit but brandy sounds good. Merging my thread on here helps. Thanks
Becoming dad   
19 Jan 2018
Life / What gifts to take? Presents customs in Poland. [129]

Merged:

What Gifts Can I Buy for My Wife's Parents



I will be meeting my Polish in-laws next month for the first time and I have no clue what to buy them as gifts. Where I come from, it's just wines, fruits or money in envelopes but a lot of Nigerian people are materialistic. Her parents are amazing people and although I don't speak Polish, they communicated with me via my wife as the translator.

I asked my wife what they would love as gifts and she said I shouldn't buy anything and should save money because we are expecting a baby. However, I can't go empty handed. First impression counts I think. Her parents smoke so I was thinking a roll each of cigarettes but that doesn't seem right. Any ideas will be appreciated.
Becoming dad   
11 Jan 2018
Feedback / How to reply to a thread on this website? [19]

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How Do I Contribute/Write in An Existing Thread



I'm new here and writing in a thread by another member seems impossible. I'm not that stupid but I can't see anywhere it says write or reply. Press the F5 key on your keyboard to reload the cache - possibly an old script collides with the updated one.
Becoming dad   
11 Jan 2018
Law / Poland's Tourist Visa Interview - it went too easy. Should I be worried? [7]

Hello.

I just had my Polish visa interview and it was too easy that it got me worried. My wife is Polish and I'm Nigerian. We are expecting a baby so I want to be there for the delivery like every first time dad.

So basically at the embassy, I wasn't asked any questions, I was only asked to tender the basic documents required for a tourist visa and was told to come back in two weeks. I was prepared with other documents like marriage cert, antenatal docs, pictures with my wife etc. None of that was asked for.

This got me worried like is that how easy it is or did the interviewer already refuse me a visa and didn't want to waste his precious time on me? Visa interviews are meant to be hard, aren't they?