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Slavic vs Germanic thinking.... and the philosophical differences [251]
With all due respect to Slavs, I much prefer Germanic soul. It is more logical, practical, rational. The Slavic soul can easily drive me up the wall, either with women in relationships or with people in general at work, due to their work ethics and "corporate culture" inherited from communist administrations. Not to mention the constant victimization.
I will not comment any further on the "soul at work". But on the "soul in love", I will say this...
Back then when I was still in Belgium, my teacher of Polish used to tell us that Poles were often described as "the Latins of the North" (or was it from the East?). Actually it was tough for me to cope with the temperament of my Polish girlfriend. As a Belgian, I'm a cartesian cold-blooded animal and my culture is a mix of French, Dutch and German cultures. I'm used to be with women like the ones you see on TV in "Derrick". With my previous Polish girlfriend, I was spending most of the time trying to cope with an emotional hurricane which made me think of Penelope Cruz in the film "Vicky, Cristina, Barcelona". :-) I'm a bit exaggerating the caricature, of course. But she was complaining that I had "no sensibility" (!) and was not expressive enough. As a result, she didn't feel secure with me. And I was exhausted by her sudden changes of mood and her frequent exaggeration, and ended up telling her to go to a psychologist. I must however mention than even her mother and her best friend kept telling her to cool down, but it was useless. This misunderstanding on both sides eventually destroyed the relationship.
Since January this year, I'm with a new Polish tornado, though a much smaller one this time. So far it's OK. Of course I received my dose of energetical complaint already, but after socializing with Polish girls over the past 2 years, I now understand how to deal with it. The question is: "will I have the patience to deal with it in the long term?". Slavic soul can be touching with its romanticism at the beginning, but its unpredictability and extreme intensities could still easily shut me down. I envy those Polish men who can somehow manage it with the appropriate way and "coolness". ;-)