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Joined: 20 Dec 2009 / Female ♀ 		Last Post: 4 Jul 2010
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Posts: Total: 212 / Live: 211 / Archived: 1 		From: Nowhereland
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shush   
27 Apr 2010
Travel / Just back from Krakow [120]

Maybe they didst know English and thats why they walked away? but it doesn't mean they were racists. Hard to communicate if you don't speak the same language.
shush   
27 Apr 2010
Language / Calling a person a 'potato' (ziemniak/kartofel/burak) [37]

I've lived in Poland my whole life and I've never heard of it from anyone except for one newspaper. It's definitely not common.

Yes, I have not heard it either. "Burak" is common and known in every part of Poland and the meaning is deragatory as it was already said.
shush   
25 Apr 2010
Love / Church of England - Catholic Marriage in Poland. [23]

Remember, you need the dispensation from the relevant Bishop

Yes, that's true but I think the problem is a priest really and not a bishop. Bishops i guess know the law but priests do as they please most of the time.
shush   
25 Apr 2010
Love / Church of England - Catholic Marriage in Poland. [23]

The CoE doesnt need to be baptised. It is possible to get married even with atheist, muslism etc (from the catholic church point of view). I think the only one requirement is for the other person to agree to respect the person's religion. Some time ago also the partner had to agree for the children to be raised in the catholic faith but i think it changed some years ago. Well, at the end of the day it depends on the particular priest but the general guidance are as above.
shush   
25 Apr 2010
Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

Ehh you two having fun, thats nice but i still think there is not necesserily going something bad there. Maybe i m naive but i prefer to think about people in a good way.

Maybe she doesnt like sex that much but she does like intelligent people.
shush   
25 Apr 2010
Genealogy / Polish person's average height? [210]

I m 159 cm. I think average for women is around 165 cm, there are women who are much taller but there are significant amount of women who are smallish.
shush   
25 Apr 2010
Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

Being rich doesn't mean you can buy reincarnation ;)

Yes but not everyone is that wise to fall in love only in suitable persons. I dont think he is that rich and marrying him she lost a lot - perhaps friends and family who now will think she is a dziwka. So altogether i think there had to be something more to that than just money.

But i find it sad that people always think a person is worthless if she or he did something different. That's all.
shush   
25 Apr 2010
Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

Can you show me where it says that she is dying of cancer? And even if she is dying of cancer, there are many young guys who are dying of cancer aswell, and they're probably more attractive and active than this old man.

I was not talking about the Lapicki's wife dying of cancer. It was my other example when i was sayin that sometimes people marry even if they know they wont be together for long. The argument that people should not be together if they know one of them will die soon is not convincing, thats all.

Well, why is it that these old guys always are wealthy then?

I dont know why - maybe one of reasons is that if you have money you can socialize and then u can meet more different people, even younger than urself?

Oh, and where did I say it's always the woman's fault?

You were not saying it's woman's fault but Seanus was, he even called her "dziwka".
shush   
25 Apr 2010
Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

No, because that's different. Anything could happen, and nothing is certain, we all know that.

Well, not really, when they were going to marry they already knew she was dying of cancer.

How and where do you think she met this man?

He was her tutor at university.

The fact that there are plenty of handsome, nice looking, well-mannered, honest, d

It doesnt change the fact that if she loves him she would not want to be with anyone else regardless his age and position. I see your point but why it is always woman's fault? She may be genuinely in love with him, there are lots of cases when girls fall in love with their teachers, more if the girl had bad relationship with the father so why always it is woman who is bad and nasty, i just dont get it.

I'm not going to marry someone who could've been my grandmother for money anyway

It would be funny if u met someone much older than u and fall in love with her lol Never say never :P I m not talking about marrying for money though.
shush   
25 Apr 2010
Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

And where does he live, this Mind Reader fella? ;) ;)

Unfortunately in your head :P

How many people you know go for OAPs?

I dont know what's OAP.

It's more common that women go with older guys (i guess in most marriages the guy is older than his wife) but it has nothing to do with money. But of course, men jump to the conclusion that those women are "dziwki" (i wonder if that was the first word what u learnt in polish). If a guy did the same he would be a hero...
shush   
25 Apr 2010
Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

Who is Mind Reader?

Someone who thinks that knows whats going on in other people's mind, clear?

How many young men do you see with very old women? Can you name me a case?

Joan Collins, Elizabeth Tylor to name just the two cases u for sure heard about.
shush   
25 Apr 2010
Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

I can, but we all know this is about money

Again, are u mind reader? How do u know? You dont even know those people.

You can't tell me this is natural

He is still a human being even if older than her. What's unnatural in being with a man?

You can't tell me that this girl can honestly expect to be with this guy for years

IF he was 30 years old how could she expect him to be with him for another 50 years? there are accidents etc If you were in love with a girl and she was sick and about to die, would u not want to be with her coz she will die soon anyway?

a young girl who's marrying an old man who might die tomorrow, that's pathetic

Read above, there was recently a case when a guy got married with a woman who was dying from cancer. She was Big Brother winner or something. So they are pathetic?

This is how badly the law is framed, giving women entitlement to things they haven't worked for or deserve.

This works in both ways - men have rights to women's wealth as well.
shush   
25 Apr 2010
Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

Do you find 85-year old men tasty, shush? Do you think many young women do? Would you trade your partner for one?

It doesnt matter what i prefer, i did not go with 85 years old man but I can understand that some people may like something what i dont. And judging them on the basis that i dont like something or i would not go for something is just pathetic, dont u think?

The guy isnt a child, he knows what he was doing, so let them be. Maybe they are more happy than many so called "proper marriages" when there arent big age difference.

Seriously, if all the girls were going to be as stupid as she is

Maybe you are the stupid one when you judge people u dont even know?
shush   
25 Apr 2010
Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

Each to their own, but yes, dziwka

How do you know? are you mind reader?

I don't think any self-respecting young man will want to date her after she becomes a widow though

We can see clearly from all posts here that most of men (here? everywhere?) are narrow minded and they cant think out of the box. You never know what is in people's hearts and in mind's and supposing that you know coz it doesnt fit into ur scheme of life is just pathetic.

At least u have something to feel better urself about.
shush   
24 Apr 2010
UK, Ireland / Let's discuss Polish and British, only constructive (though we will digress) [60]

I am British I am JIEB qualified

I Couldn't give 2 sh*ts what you are matey boy, I have earned what I have, I am qualified in what I am,,,,and you are the one wanting "to talk some more", and saying we are uneducated, so therefore, why bring an argument on yourself, if you can't back it up correctly apart from your sarcastic comment above??

Actually he only repeated what u said in the first post but changed Poles to Brits. There was nothing about whole nation being uneducated, just stating the fact that in every nation (so British too as well as Polish) there are some nice people and those as u call them "scumbags".

I know some British and they are wasters, but I also know some that are hard working, and are trying to integrate....

What about all the scumbags here then??

Well, nothing, i guess. What should be about them. Perhaps they should be deported as it is being done in Australia when someone commit a crime.
shush   
23 Apr 2010
Language / About: w tytę [12]

Every Pole at least understands pyta lol I have never heard about tyta though.
shush   
22 Apr 2010
USA, Canada / The proper behavior an American should show when visiting Poland [115]

I would suggest to not comment in the bad way all the church-stuff and our history. Mostly it's about history, people get very offended and aggressive when some foreigners say things which are not as Poles were taught.

And from my personal experience - dont criticise food :P you dont have to like it but you are a guest so keep it for urself.

The other things are as already was said - the same rules are everywhere else in Europe so i guess in USA as well. You can wear shorts and flip flops even but not to the more posh restaurants so the same as in other countries.
shush   
21 Apr 2010
Po polsku / Policzmy się! [80]

I wystartuje na prezydenta!
shush   
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]

'Really awesome Dutch guy looking for a cold, rude, blunt, upfront, foul-mouthed, insensitive, practical, realistic, oversexed, suicidal, crazy, mentally disturbed, blonde, hardcore prn b*tch.''

Damn i m not blonde :S
shush   
21 Apr 2010
Po polsku / Policzmy się! [80]

Gdzie diabeł nie może to babę pośle uhh uhh a baba walnęła jak łysy o krawędź kuli czy coś tam ...
shush   
21 Apr 2010
Language / Future tense with bawić się [34]

Baw się dobrze dziś wieczorem and Dobrej zabawy! are commonly used, natural and correct.
shush   
21 Apr 2010
Love / Polish Women Versus Your Local Women ? [289]

POSCO, you clearly did not respect her. Probably she needed more than just sex for itself and you were not able to give it to her.

And rest of you who say that polish or american or whatever nationality are bad in bed/bad gf etc after sleeping with one girl - no comment.