Arien you are obviously absolutely right, but if factual and logical arguments like that actually worked with this girl, I would have never left her in the first place :)
Well, you did leave her, and unfortunately for her that's the point where you don't have to take care of anything for her anymore. (Unless you have children.) So in this case, even if it was true, (Which it obviously isn't!) it's still going to be her problem, isn't it?
I am wondering what is going on though... if she is lying, or wanting me to feel guilty for leaving her, or for using her precious water... I don't know!
I need to be closer to her to be able to read her mind. (Sorry! It's all a wild guess for me!)
I should also mention that around half the time I wasn't even living in that apartment - I was only in that apartment for less than two months.
Well, there you have your answer.
I considered demanding to see this mysterious 'fine', but at the moment I am just ignoring her.
You know what I would do? I would smash my mobile phone to bits, and make it flat enough to actually fit into an envelope, and send it to her along with a card that reads: Did you get the message?