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Aliments and abortion (I was married to a Polish guy) [64]
DNA test isn't a problem though but I guess he can also refuse to do it.
He can't if he wants to prove it's not his child.As I told you-the court will assume (don't take it the wrong way,I believe you I just want to tell it all) it's his child.
she told me it's better to go home coz citizens are more important than foreigners. Honestly, that made me lose hope again.
I can't really argue with a professional.Just remember that in Poland you also have rights.His behaviour will help you.That's why I sugested typing your conversations and gathering documents.You can send him a letter with your statement and see what his replay is going to be.Ask again at NGO or some lawyer (that won't charge you) and see what your options are
Maybe it's possible that I have such syndrome and probably not but I am almost sure I dont have such scary syndrome.
You may not have it but your posts reminded me of the several women I knew that were abused.I mean-you said that you can't even be mad at him.
even his Xgf was the one beating him but he still falls back for her.
My friend's always using expression "gonić króliczka"-"to chase a bunny" for this kind of thing.I once heard "in relationship one party always loves more while the other allows to be loved" .
If I was in my country, I would probably have more idea what to do but i am just so lost.
That's understandable.At home we feel secure and know how to deal with things.
ahmmm...I never let anyone treat me this way before it's just that my feelings with him are always strong. stupid feelings... I really wish I don't feel this way.
Emotions can be, and usually are, messy.Right now you must try to control them and deal with him with your head instead.
I've never seen my parents fight. Not even once in my life.
There's nothing wrong with fighting but it should be done within reason and without real insults.
everyone in his family is already pinning me down with negative feelings.
Don't pay attention.I have three good reasons:
1-They are his family and not yours.I know ppl that can be objective in situations like that but in most cases ppl will be on their relatives side no matter what you're going to say
2-Someone raised him to be the man he is.Of corse sometimes children are entirely different but not so often.
3-They know only what he tells them.
P.S.Do you have any friends here?Someone to listen to you and help you?
