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Posts by Arien  

Joined: 20 Oct 2008 / Male ♂
Last Post: 1 May 2010
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Arien   
9 Apr 2010
Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]

You are then only talking about the girls that leave their home country to look for money.

Not even all of these girls who leave their countries are looking for money though. I already know that some of these girls are leaving because of cultural differences, and some of them are looking for a different way of life. Guys who complain about gold diggers are pretty funny actually, because they can't be bothered to work on their personalities, and that's exactly what it takes to find an honest, hard working girl. You can flash your money and your expensive car, and with some girls that might work for a while, but you'll find out that most of these girls will leave you anyway. Can't buy love.

;)
Arien   
12 Apr 2010
Genealogy / Is tallness common among Polish people? [201]

We can't say that all Polish people are tall, just like we can't say all British people have bad teeth, or all French people smell, or all Germans are racist or all Irish people eat potatoes, because I am all of those things and none of those stereotypes apply to me.

All of those things? So you are tall, have bad teeth, you smell, you're racist and you eat potatoes? Or did you mean to say that you are Polish, British, French, German and Irish at the same time?

:)

Funny, I know.
Arien   
13 Apr 2010
Language / Nice Polish words to say to a girl [147]

Czy umówisz się ze mną? (Would you like to go out with me?) Bardzo chętnie umówię się z tobą. (I'd very much like to go out with you.) Może innym razem? (Maybe another time?) Podoba mi się twój śliczny uśmiech. (I like your lovely smile.) Bardzo cię lubię. (I like you very much.) Jesteś piękna. (You're beautiful.) Myślę, że jesteś wyjątkową dziewczyną. (I think you're special.)

:)

No?
Arien   
13 Apr 2010
Po polsku / Policzmy się! [80]

Fajnie byłoby gdyby ten dział był, między innymi, takim naszym małym, polskim azylem,
gdzie moglibyśmy spokojnie, kulturalnie porozmawiać (w części anglojęzycznej ciężko
czasami zachować kulturę - mówię z własnego doświadczenia) albo "skoordynować
działania" ;)

Niektóre holenderskie barbarzyńców może coś napisać..

;P
Arien   
13 Apr 2010
Language / Nice Polish words to say to a girl [147]

You can also say: I could never compare anything I've seen before to those twinkles in your eyes, because they make everything look so ordinary..

:)

*barf*
Arien   
13 Apr 2010
Po polsku / Policzmy się! [80]

Mogę zachować w tajemnicy, za odpowiedną cenę!

;)
Arien   
15 Apr 2010
Love / Polish blonde and a British pensioner. No fool like an old fool, or is it love. [57]

with these words, you can convince yourself, but, you can not convince this 29 years old sexy girl being with 72 old men to be with you.

Let's just be diplomatic and tell you that I've been with sexier girls than her. I don't fool myself with sexy anymore though, because a lot of women are sexy, wether they realize it or not. Excuse me, but I can't convince who? Just be happy I'm not posting pictures of the last party I've went to, because you might get jealous and depressed, and me being a gentleman these days, am certainly not going to post pictures of other people without their permission.

Oh, and I don't have to convince her, because something tells me she won't spend her whole life with that man. (And having all the money in the world but no partner still doesn't make most women very happy!) She'll figure it out some day..

It's all about money in your world, but you forget I also live in the real world, and in the real world, most of my friends who are construction workers are all happily married with a working girl. (And most of those girls are more than sexy enough, but more importantly, they value friendship, personality and character!) Me? I choose to stay single for the time being, because right now I have too many plans for the future, and I want to see how it all works out before I make any rash decisions. I know a relationship takes commitment, and I don't know what the future holds for me, but if I'm ever going to be a dad somehow, then atleast I want to be a dad who's happy with what he does, and also a dad who doesn't have to worry about not being able to give all the things I think any child should have to my child, or children.

So it has nothing to do with the girls, with me or whatever you're going to make of it. I'm happy as I am, but I do miss the company very much. I know tomorrow will be different though, once I can do something I like for a living. (Because that's also important!)
Arien   
15 Apr 2010
Love / Why are Polish women so sexy ? [390]

Or they are just as sexy? (I think that may sound a bit friendlier towards Polish girls?)
Arien   
15 Apr 2010
Love / Why are Polish women so sexy ? [390]

polish women are not "sexy", you will find Greek and Spaniards are genetically hotter

Well, I find Polish girls sexy. Greek and Spanish women are beautiful aswell, but I guess I have a soft spot for blondes!
Arien   
15 Apr 2010
Love / Polish blonde and a British pensioner. No fool like an old fool, or is it love. [57]

I liked your post very much and agree with what you are saying, money alone is not a basis for building a relationship.

It does help though!

I met my wife in London in 1970 and got married in 1971, we are still married and have a contented happy life. We have three lovely intelligent daughters highly educated, and the eldest two are financially independent of their husbands.

My youngest is still at university doing her masters. This post is not to brag how well I have done, but to contrast it with Brogan's disaster of a life.

Well, you have a good reason to be proud of your daughters, and I think your daughters have a good reason to be proud of you man!

Three marriages God knows how many kids, and a honky tonk bar in Donegal. If that silly girl is a gold digger I think she is on a loser, it looks like the gold mine is well played out. I am seventy one and would never embarrass my children like that, the mans got no dignity. you got the right idea Arien hang out for the right woman

Well, I'm pretty open-minded, and today all the ideas guys and girls have about relationships work a bit differently from how it used to work when you were young, so I won't refuse a dance when asked! (Unless I'm a bit too drunk to dance!)
Arien   
15 Apr 2010
Love / Why are Polish women so sexy ? [390]

Instead, they seem to blame all of their own self-made problems on men.

Well, some women might blame it all on the men, and some mothers might actually raise their daughters to be that way, but I hope you'll notice that there are still plenty of girls out there who aren't like that. (It's a bit of a one-sided story you're presenting here?)
Arien   
15 Apr 2010
Love / I need your opinion ladies - Polish girl very friendly with her ex. [47]

I am friends will all of my ex's.

I wish all the ladies and gentlemen would think like you, because it would save us all a lot of drama. To be honest I wouldn't want to get too close with my ex's though, I'd just leave them to their lives, because if the relationship really was deep, I prefer not to be around too much. (I mean, it's not very considerate to get all fluffy with your newly found love infront of a person who once loved you to bits?) Just a message or a few words every now and then would be nice, but that's it. If we happen to share mutual friends, then that wouldn't bother me in the slightest either.

**** these ex ******* I wouldnt want a man with his ****en ex around no way.

Hey, most men don't like having all the ex-boyfriends of their women around either, so I can understand that perfectly.
Arien   
15 Apr 2010
Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]

polish girls aint gold-diggers

Only a few are, just like in every other country. Oh, and just because some girls are out to have fun with some foreign guys they don't take too seriously, doesn't automatically mean they're all gold-diggers. (It probably has more to do with the fact that he'll be easy to forget once it's over and he's going home.) I think most of us are mature enough know that both men and women aren't always serious about dating and stuff, and maybe that's exactly what keeps life interesting from time to time?
Arien   
15 Apr 2010
Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]

we all know it takes more then that.

Definitely, but sometimes I can't help but to think that it all takes a bit too much though!
Arien   
15 Apr 2010
Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]

still, we all have will.

..and I'm glad you have, because life would definitely be too boring for me if you didn't!
Arien   
16 Apr 2010
Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]

Oh really? And why do you think so many Russian ladies are looking for a partner elsewhere then?

Genius.
Arien   
18 Apr 2010
Life / Polish Hip Hop [47]

Paktofonika. They've got some laidback cuts, they don't talk **** and they're pretty oldskool..
;)

youtu.be/pX-yx78nkgQ
:)
Arien   
18 Apr 2010
Food / Does beer have any "real" expire date? [39]

I have a beer in my hand, and the label on the back reads: 18-10-10. I've bought them yesterday, so you can do the math?
Arien   
19 Apr 2010
Love / Polish Women Versus Your Local Women ? [289]

condemned by our local princesses.

You know, sometimes it doesn't hurt to show that you're sorry about a few things you've said or done. (I'm not telling anyone to beg for anything though!)
Arien   
19 Apr 2010
Love / Polish Women Versus Your Local Women ? [289]

You know what your mistake is? Be open, be honest, discuss your sexlife with your girl, come on! I mean, if you're already doing it with eachother, there's nothing to be shy about anyway?

We all have to learn, ladies too!
Arien   
19 Apr 2010
Love / Polish Women Versus Your Local Women ? [289]

Hey Posco, who told you I was talking to you? Anyway, you can blame everything on the girls, but I'm just going to say - wether you like it or not - that if you have had this experience with a lot of women, then you're clearly doing something wrong, or you simply don't turn her on..

It's funny, because the ones I've met were pretty wild.
Arien   
19 Apr 2010
Life / Polish Hip Hop [47]

I know the quality is pretty bad on Youtube sometimes, but in my opinion this is one of the dopest tracks they've ever made. I know it's a simple cut, but I can listen to this type of Hip Hop all damn day..

:)
Arien   
20 Apr 2010
Love / Polish Women Versus Your Local Women ? [289]

maybe i didnt had lucky with this my girl

It's probably that.

And she was also vey gealous, and try to control me, all the polish are like this, extream geaulous?

I don't think so, but I'm certainly not the expert.

:)
Arien   
20 Apr 2010
Off-Topic / If I don't understand Polish and I post a Polish song on a profile, is it wrong? [10]

Ofcourse not! Remember all those Spanish and Latin songs in Top of the Pops? Juanes? Ricky Martin? Hey, you're not the only one who enjoys foreign music, and it really doesn't matter if you understand all the words or not. If you really like a song, then you really like a song, and that's all that should matter?

F*ck 'em, (Excuse my Dutch!) and enjoy the music!

;)
Arien   
20 Apr 2010
Life / Polish Hip Hop [47]

Hasn't it occured to you that you might be in the wrong thread? I'm sure this one isn't about Disco Polo. (Gee, I wonder why I would think that? Let's see..) Oh, and you sure do have a funny name for someone who pretends to listen to Disco Polo.

playing traditional polish folk music dressed in traditional polish garb, dancing around lakes that look like Mazury and mountains that look like Tatry?

Rap isn't traditional music. It's a word. Hip Hop isn't traditional music either. The first Hip Hop was created out of Pop and Disco Tunes. Oh, and if you're going to be racist, or narrow-minded, then why aren't you complaining about Rock Music, or Heavy Metal? I think Jimmy Hendrix invented that music..

;)
Arien   
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]

Are you the owner of her apartment? No? Well, then you don't owe her jack. Just so you know.

:)
Arien   
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]

Arien you are obviously absolutely right, but if factual and logical arguments like that actually worked with this girl, I would have never left her in the first place :)

Well, you did leave her, and unfortunately for her that's the point where you don't have to take care of anything for her anymore. (Unless you have children.) So in this case, even if it was true, (Which it obviously isn't!) it's still going to be her problem, isn't it?

I am wondering what is going on though... if she is lying, or wanting me to feel guilty for leaving her, or for using her precious water... I don't know!

I need to be closer to her to be able to read her mind. (Sorry! It's all a wild guess for me!)

I should also mention that around half the time I wasn't even living in that apartment - I was only in that apartment for less than two months.

Well, there you have your answer.

I considered demanding to see this mysterious 'fine', but at the moment I am just ignoring her.

You know what I would do? I would smash my mobile phone to bits, and make it flat enough to actually fit into an envelope, and send it to her along with a card that reads: Did you get the message?
Arien   
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]

Thanks for the excellent (and humorous) advice Arien. Thankfully no kids are involved (I escaped that death trap).

Hey, don't mention it, I'm sure you've heard better! (Phew!)

Maybe at age 28 I am somewhat naive, but I can't believe that she, a sweet Polish girl, would be so dishonest like that.

Well, I'm 29, and sometimes being naive isn't too bad! (It really does suck when you get hurt though!) I wouldn't want to be realistic and cold all the time, because that would feel pretty empty for me personally!

:)

I thought that breaking up with her would have spelt the end of being subjected to her horrible behaviour. Clearly it isn't...

You can smile about the times you've had a great time together, and forget about the rest? She could've been friendly and real with you after you two split up, but she obviously has chosen for a different approach. Again, that's her problem. Just cut all contacts between you and her if she keeps bothering you with her behaviour, and move on. Unless you think she's still the one for you? (I doubt it!)

:)