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Do most Polish women just want a friend or a bf?


nodoubt 1 | 3
18 Apr 2010 #1
I have lived here in the US my whole life so I have no idea what other cultures are like. Here, where I live, there are more men then women. Many women here are picky. I have had a couple "friends" and my buddies have too. Some women are the neighborhood bicycle, everyone's had a ride. I am not into that. I am interested in a deeper, longer lasting relationship. I am 50% Polish and have been studying the language and culture for a little while now. Are women more interested in a real relationship vs. just a friendship because of higher morals than here in the US?
southern 75 | 7,096
18 Apr 2010 #2
Most polish women want a husband.
Pepeczki - | 32
18 Apr 2010 #3
have lived here in the US my whole life so I have no idea what other cultures are like

That sentence made me burst into laughter. The US is an amalgam of different cultures, yet you have never experienced other cultures? How about the Mexican one? Or the African one? or the Jewish one?
richasis 1 | 419
18 Apr 2010 #4
The US is more Melding Pot than Melting Pot.
OP nodoubt 1 | 3
18 Apr 2010 #5
@Pepeczki
I have a 100% Jamaican friend who would laugh as well if I told him I have experienced Jamaica because he cooked for me or told me about Kingston. Wow, I have even seen pictures of his family and home so I guess I have seen it all. I have never been there and that makes a big difference.

What I meant by experiencing other cultures is being able to talk about them because of an actual visit there where I live according to their rules, ethics, laws, made friends, can speak some of the language etc.

No doubt there are festivals, music, food, etc from other cultures but GENERALLY SPEAKING this is the USA. When in Rome do as the Romans. Just because I went to Polish Fest in Milwaukee doesn't mean I know Polish culture. I know little of Poland right now.
Pepeczki - | 32
18 Apr 2010 #6
What I meant by experiencing other cultures is being able to talk about them

Ok explain that to multiculturalist lovers that assume europeans will meet other cultures by having foreign neighbours.
OP nodoubt 1 | 3
18 Apr 2010 #7
assume

"assuming" makes an ass out of you and me :) Gotta love American locutions!...I am assuming "what are some of your favorite phrases from your country" would be a good thread??

anyways...
aphrodisiac 11 | 2,444
19 Apr 2010 #8
as southern said, Polish women are marriage oriented.
f stop 25 | 2,513
19 Apr 2010 #9
I believe that most of the time the woman will just want you for a pal is if you don't turn her on or she's in love with someone else already. Regardless of nationality.
Chicago Pollock 7 | 504
19 Apr 2010 #10
Try getting to know women as friends. You can start by getting to know the bicycle lady. Give her the benefit of a doubt. She may not be what you think she is.
southern 75 | 7,096
19 Apr 2010 #11
as southern said, Polish women are marriage oriented.

You agree with me?Maybe I wrote sth wrong.
Arien 3 | 721
19 Apr 2010 #12
Give her the benefit of a doubt. She may not be what you think she is.

True, it's like we say over here; You can make or break a lady.
pawian 161 | 9,971
1 Oct 2019 #13
Most polish women want a husband.

Yes, I was going to say the same thing. That is why there is an overrepresentation of females in big Polish cities - the ratio in Krakow is 117 -100. They come to find a good husband who will share life duties, be a responsible father for kids, won`t drink too much and abuse his wife.


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