UK, Ireland / Let's discuss Polish and British, only constructive (though we will digress) [60]


I know, I'd prefer a milkshake aswell.

Now, where's that crazy cow when you need him?

Love / English Men vs Polish Men [207]

Women don't scare men. Women can put men off though. (I think it's better to use the word disappoint though!) Women can break or make a gentleman, just like men can make or break a lady. Men are men, and women are women, regardless of nationality. We all make mistakes. We all read things. We all think. We all form opinions based on the input we recieve. To a certain extent, we create our own reality, because once we are convinced something really is as it has been presented to us, there's a fat chance that we will change our opinions, behaviour or expectations, and unfortunately, not always for the best. (Meaning this will affect other people around you because of your behaviour.) Some people also behave like sheep, and follow all the latest trends because they don't want to be different, do they? Well, here's a newsflash for you: We're all different from eachother. We always will be.

You've got sensitive guys, insensitive guys, macho guys, soft guys, old guys, young guys, gentlemen, bad boys, open-minded guys, old-fashioned guys, religious guys, non-religious guys, handsome guys, less handsome guys, strong guys, weak guys, brave guys, insecure guys, sweet guys, hard guys, wise guys, immature guys, boring guys, exciting guys, materialistic guys, spiritual guys, simple guys, complicated guys, oversexed guys, cold guys, warm guys, funny guys, smart guys, dumb guys, serious guys, rich guys, poor guys, clumsy guys, handy guys, manly guys, girly guys, loyal guys, unloyal guys, hard-working guys, lazy guys, decent guys, classy guys, rough guys, cheap guys, experienced guys, inexperienced guys, cheating guys, lying guys, honest guys, family guys, adventurous guys, caring guys, careless guys, humble guys, arrogant guys, succesful guys, less succesful guys, you name it!

And guess what? The exact same goes for women. So don't tell anyone to man up, or whatever! Allow someone to be someone in his or her own unique way. The only real men are the men who know they should be themselves. We can't please everyone, and we shouldn't want to please everyone either. Same goes for all the women out there. There is no such thing as ''the'' real man, and there is no such thing as ''the'' real lady either. If you don't want guys to make generalizations about girls, then why make generalizations about guys in this thread?

Dare to be honest, and you'll see that most people will be honest with you aswell. Some people might disapprove of such honesty, but you'll find out that the few people who don't will be the people who will really understand you. So don't be ashamed of yourself, or constantly compare yourself to others. Ever. You'll find him eventually, and he'll find you. He won't find you if you pretend to be someone you're not, just like you won't find him if he pretends to be someone he's not.

I can assure you a lot of people pretend. Both men and women think they should be something society expects of them. Too much pressure if you ask me. I think it's a shame, because I can see how many people aren't genuinely smiling anymore, and I'm sure you can see it too. You don't have to be perfect, and you don't have to be a saint. Just be yourself girls. Okay? (It's okay, you can barf, puke and throw up now!)

I thought I'd say something on behalf of all the guys who deep down, still mean well with you!

Genealogy / Polish person's average height? [210]


The average height for Dutch women would be 170,2 cm (5 feet and 7 inches.) between the ages of 25 to 34. (Fully grown adults.) I'm 176 cm, but I see many Dutch girls who are about the same height, or slightly taller than me. (With heels on most of them will be taller though!) So if I had to guess I'd say that 60% could come close to the truth.

Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]


Then why bring it into this? It's like comparing apples with strawberries.


If they both had health problems I'd understand. If your partner suddenly fell ill I'd understand. If you're going to date an old man who could've been your grandfather, and he's wealthy aswell, I'm going to call you a dziwka. (Which doesn't mean I'm going to treat you as a horrible person mind you! Just calling a peach a peach here!)


My argument was that it is unnatural. Which it is. (I gave you a full explanation as to why it's unnatural, so be my guest to say that it's natural for twenty five year old girls to marry eighty five year old men who can't even be active anymore.)


I'm going to die next year. I'm poor aswell. Will you marry me? Anyone? No? Thanks for illustrating my point!

;P


You can meet and socialize with people without having much money aswell you know, especially when you're a student.

;)


Always!

;P


I never said she was worthless. (If you've read all my posts, you would've seen I've defended prostitutes very often!)

;)


Maybe his love really is blind when he takes off his glasses? Maybe she just thinks it's cute to change his diapers? Or maybe she thinks his dentures sound funny when he talks? Maybe she thinks it's cool to tell her friends that her boyfriend used to know famous actresses like Beata Tyszkiewicz? Alright, alright, I'll admit that's too far fetched! It must be his awesome, god-like sexdrive! Right?

Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]


Can you show me where it says that she is dying of cancer? And even if she is dying of cancer, there are many young guys who are dying of cancer aswell, and they're probably more attractive and active than this old man.


She would not have met this man while actively socializing with people around her age.


Oh really? Well, why is it that these old guys always are wealthy then? Why do I never see a young woman with an old guy who's poor?


Well, I'm glad you see my point. It's better than defending old men who use young girls, because if you thought it's only the girl I was having a dig at, then you're mistaken. Oh, and where did I say it's always the woman's fault?


Where did I say women are always bad and nasty?

:)


True. I don't mind being with a girl who's like ten years older, and I don't mind a guy being with a girl who's like ten years younger either, but a gap of sixty years is just taking the **** and you all know it.

;P

Excuse my Dutch.

Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]


I don't know these people, but I do know what's wrong with the picture.


How and where do you think she met this man? Tell me that and I'll answer your question.


The fact that there are plenty of handsome, nice looking, well-mannered, honest, decent, hard-working guys of her own age out there who have to remain single because it's fashionable for rich old men to buy themselves another working-class trophy. (Not speaking for myself there!) The fact that this man can't even make love to this girl without Viagra. The fact that this man might die tomorrow. The fact that this man can't expect to be there for this girl. The fact that this girl is still very young and needs to be active, she should socialize with guys and girls around her age, because it's natural and healthy to be active at the age of twenty five. This man can't be as active as a young man. Girls her age usually look for a healthy, strong man who can be expected to take care of things and look after her when she needs him to.


I'm sure you're clever enough to know that there's a world of difference between things you can, and can't expect? At the time she has met this old man, she could not have expected to live a life with him. The situations you describe are possibilities, but I'm talking about simple expectations. (Which are so totally ******* obvious if you'd ask me!)


No, because that's different. Anything could happen, and nothing is certain, we all know that. But you can't honestly tell me that this girl could've expected to be with this guy for a few years at the time she met him.


I'm not going to marry someone who could've been my grandmother for money anyway. Not even if she had millions.

:)

History / The Polish Blame Culture! [330]


Ofcourse, but then again the same can be said about every other choice that has been made in the past. For example, your father could've decided not to have children, which would've meant that you wouldn't have been here. I guess I just mean to say that you can't really use the second world war as an explanation for every choice that has been made in the past.

:)

Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]


I can, but we all know this is about money. You can't tell me this is natural. You can't tell me that this girl can honestly expect to be with this guy for years. (At his age, he might die tomorrow, and we all know that!)


No, a young girl who's marrying an old man who might die tomorrow, that's pathetic. I know girls like older men, because they think they're more experienced, or better in bed, or more mature, but this old man is anything but mature, because he obviously doesn't feel responsible for her emotional well-being in the long run.


You're right, I don't sell myself for money.

:)

Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]


I guess I'll have to wait with dating for another 56 years? Seriously, if all the girls were going to be as stupid as she is, then we should go ahead and write a book about the extinction of Europeans, and call it Birth Rate Zero.

:)

History / The Polish Blame Culture! [330]


It's important to remember, and ofcourse new findings and conclusions should be discussed at any given time, but why blame people who aren't responsible? I myself for example, am very proud of the Dutch soldiers who fought really hard to keep the Germans out, but I'm not so proud of all the Dutch people who joined the NSB, or even worse, the SS. However, I'm not responsible for what the old folks did. It doesn't make you a hero because your grandfather or grandmother opposed or even fought the Nazi's. It doesn't make you a better person when you hold a teenager from today's Germany responsible for the second world war either.

I'm right and you know it, so **** another discussion about who's to blame. Stalin and Hitler were to blame, and ofcourse all the people who served them were to blame. Most of those people are dead now. It's important we all remember though, and even more important to learn from it, and hopefully some people realize that it all started with blaming other people, so let's not do that again?

:)

Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]


I don't think any self-respecting young man will want to date her after she becomes a widow though, but I'm sure she'll be able to find another old geezer who doesn't really care about her.

:)

Yup, she should be really proud of herself!

History / The Polish Blame Culture! [330]

To keep a long story short, I don't think anyone can blame anyone these days anymore. I mean, who on this forum for example, can honestly say that he or she fought in the second world war? I certainly can't, and most of you can't either. So what are we talking about?

;)

Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]

He was kidding, don't worry..

;)

Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]


Oh, and one more to break your brains over; You talk about foreign cockroaches and honour but you behave like a doormat. Why not give her 10.000 PLN, that's what a real gentleman would do! *snickers*

;)

No class!

Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]


You're right..

*bites lip*


Don't you think she'd have to be tired of life if she wanted to be with me?

;P

Open goal really! Impress me?


I know Elmo, but Emo? Sorry, never heard of him!

;)

Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]


*kills himself*

*kills himself again*

:)

Colour it?

Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]


Excuse moi? Nie rozumiem.

;)


Well, if the rest of the description fits you I might overlook the fact you're not blonde. (Lucky you!)

;P

Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]

I think it's cute, maybe I should post a new add somewhere.. ''Really awesome Dutch guy looking for a cold, rude, blunt, upfront, foul-mouthed, insensitive, practical, realistic, oversexed, suicidal, crazy, mentally disturbed, blonde, hardcore prn b*tch.''

;P

What do you girls think? Will I find her?

Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]

I'm not exactly a short guy in the rest of the world though! (I remember needing a soap box to actually kiss the first girl I liked.)

:)

Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]

They're not defenseless, because I've tried to tell some blokes earlier that Dutch girls are awesome! (Just too tall for me in most cases!)

;)

Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]


Well, good!

:)


Try a city like Amsterdam.

;)

Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]


Hey, don't mention it, I'm sure you've heard better! (Phew!)


Well, I'm 29, and sometimes being naive isn't too bad! (It really does suck when you get hurt though!) I wouldn't want to be realistic and cold all the time, because that would feel pretty empty for me personally!

:)


You can smile about the times you've had a great time together, and forget about the rest? She could've been friendly and real with you after you two split up, but she obviously has chosen for a different approach. Again, that's her problem. Just cut all contacts between you and her if she keeps bothering you with her behaviour, and move on. Unless you think she's still the one for you? (I doubt it!)

:)

Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]


Well, you did leave her, and unfortunately for her that's the point where you don't have to take care of anything for her anymore. (Unless you have children.) So in this case, even if it was true, (Which it obviously isn't!) it's still going to be her problem, isn't it?


I need to be closer to her to be able to read her mind. (Sorry! It's all a wild guess for me!)


Well, there you have your answer.


You know what I would do? I would smash my mobile phone to bits, and make it flat enough to actually fit into an envelope, and send it to her along with a card that reads: Did you get the message?

Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]

Are you the owner of her apartment? No? Well, then you don't owe her jack. Just so you know.

:)

Life / Polish Hip Hop [47]

Hasn't it occured to you that you might be in the wrong thread? I'm sure this one isn't about Disco Polo. (Gee, I wonder why I would think that? Let's see..) Oh, and you sure do have a funny name for someone who pretends to listen to Disco Polo.


Rap isn't traditional music. It's a word. Hip Hop isn't traditional music either. The first Hip Hop was created out of Pop and Disco Tunes. Oh, and if you're going to be racist, or narrow-minded, then why aren't you complaining about Rock Music, or Heavy Metal? I think Jimmy Hendrix invented that music..

;)

Off-Topic / If I don't understand Polish and I post a Polish song on a profile, is it wrong? [10]

Ofcourse not! Remember all those Spanish and Latin songs in Top of the Pops? Juanes? Ricky Martin? Hey, you're not the only one who enjoys foreign music, and it really doesn't matter if you understand all the words or not. If you really like a song, then you really like a song, and that's all that should matter?

F*ck 'em, (Excuse my Dutch!) and enjoy the music!

;)

Love / Polish Women Versus Your Local Women ? [289]


It's probably that.


I don't think so, but I'm certainly not the expert.

:)

Life / Polish Hip Hop [47]

I know the quality is pretty bad on Youtube sometimes, but in my opinion this is one of the dopest tracks they've ever made. I know it's a simple cut, but I can listen to this type of Hip Hop all damn day..

:)

Love / Do most Polish women just want a friend or a bf? [13]


True, it's like we say over here; You can make or break a lady.

Love / Polish Women Versus Your Local Women ? [289]

Hey Posco, who told you I was talking to you? Anyway, you can blame everything on the girls, but I'm just going to say - wether you like it or not - that if you have had this experience with a lot of women, then you're clearly doing something wrong, or you simply don't turn her on..

It's funny, because the ones I've met were pretty wild.