Work / How much to pay a housekeeper in Warsaw? [23]

Aniaa, Here was your original words and no you didnt say that, you said it was the opinion of family and friends.

Love / She has planned it from the beginning? Husband's daugter living in Poland with her mother. [9]


I didnt insult, I was on that other end of the stick, in need of help from the father, and he got a lawyer and the lawyer got money

but bottom line is, if its your child, your responsible, the judge cant take more then you make, but hes not going to just say awww

poor you and not order some support, even if its not that much , least its something.

my ex tried the same thing, he wound up paying more for a lawyer and didnt need one, so he wasted more money for nothing

and still has to pay. sounds like the laws are the same. BUT he should have visitation, every little child deserves to be with their

daddy as well. its just a unfortunate situation.

Love / She has planned it from the beginning? Husband's daugter living in Poland with her mother. [9]

if he is the father, then he should pay for her support, she didnt stop being his daughter when the mother slammed the door in his

face


This statement is so wrong, especially if your talking about a child whos situation could be yours.. would you want
his wife ( if the situation was switched) to say this? the child is still his daughter and he is responsible for her, its not
about anything else, he could have just sent her money all along and then the amount wouldnt be so much.

hopefully you dont experience the same.

I wish you luck but the children are innocent in these cases and its sad that you dont see this for his daughters sake thats your

daughters half sister, so you should understand she also needs care and her stepfather ( if his ex remarried ) isnt responsible
for her, the father is responsible.

Genealogy / DNA Testing in Poland. Is it popular? [81]


lol my arm?


Well I think they understand something, it pin pointed one cousin who is actually my cousin on my mothers side, said
we were 4th cousin, ironically, my cousin did his tree and sent his dna without knowing anything about my sending,

my family name isnt up there that far on the tree. i only have my dads side up at this point.

so they are on to something.

Genealogy / DNA Testing in Poland. Is it popular? [81]

SO now I know why I get along with the british folks, cause I got some in me ha ha ha

ok lets back up, I am going to say to del.. you were correct, but it stops thousands of years ago, in recent years, apparently

the family migrated to poland.

BUT 12 percent of me is from British ISLES!! lol

i have 33% eastern european and I have finnish blood as suspected and scandinavian is 42%

so I am going to get my viking boat and come visit all of you. lol

Love / Best way to find a Polish husband...ideas? [120]

polka, all they are saying is just stop trying to picture this guy or make him into a calender man.

its ok to have dreams, but let someone share that with you, let the woman out and shove the little girl in the closet!!

so to speak.. come out of your shell, it might be you pushing it all away. least thats what I am seeing.

* you built a shell over you and you wont bust out till the perfect man comes along*

crack that egg hot momma and go find you a hunka hunka burning love!! lol

Love / Best way to find a Polish husband...ideas? [120]


trust me there are plenty of young attractive doctors in the medical field. tall ones too LOL

you will be working along with him so you will still see him :)))

Love / Best way to find a Polish husband...ideas? [120]


Here i go with the motherly instincts.. lol

my daughter asked me the same thing not to long ago, let me just say, love isnt something you force. you have a visual of him

* the guy you want* but think about it, are you putting standards to high that you might wind up missing the right guy?

another thing to know, love is something that grows, its not like when you look at a person and suddenly you want to go to bed

with them, attraction helps, but you have to have something in common with them, other then the bedroom, sometimes the guy for
you might be right there and you havent seen him because you want prince charming.

my daughter was so in love with this boy last year, he liked her for a friend only, she cried to me saying, all I want is to be with

someone, but she finally seen this boy she fell for who he really was. his true colors came out, so she decided to just focus on her

school and friends, and 6 months later, she meets this really nice boy who likes her for who she is, he thinks she is beautiful, he is

a gentleman , he takes her out to dinners and movies and they have fun all the time, And all she had to do was stop trying so hard

to find that one guy,

hes out there, and trust me , hes looking for you, you will meet up soon, but dont analyze every guy, have fun, let them know your

a good girl and keep their paws off and focus on you and I predict you will be married in couple years.

And once your married, remember to try to not change this person, dont try to change a bad boy, let the bad boy change himself

because then it only ends in disaster, if you love someone, you dont need to change them, they should be who they are because thats

what you loved about them to begin with and when you love someone, you love everything about them and there shouldnt be anything
you want to change.

Genealogy / Is Czarnecki Really A Polish Or Actually A Sephardic Jewish Surname? [110]


you are welcome. Nicki, you are a smart girl, I am sure you will find what you are lookin for , meantime I would try to keep

open mind, others might not be so receptive , its happened in my research as well, you just have to keep on trying as we
all do with everything in life. you will get setbacks, but thats expected, just move forward.

and try to not take everything to heart because sometimes people misunderstand each other, and might not realize your
real intentions as you misunderstand theirs which may not be meant to upset you to begin with.

hope that makes sense :)

Genealogy / Is Czarnecki Really A Polish Or Actually A Sephardic Jewish Surname? [110]


sephardim.com/search.shtml

in this website it has a names database, but also does give you emails to two gentlemen who might be able to assist further
in your questions

Best of luck in your research.

Genealogy / Is Czarnecki Really A Polish Or Actually A Sephardic Jewish Surname? [110]


just seems like you would get more of a answer to your request from a site that deals with jewish surnames Vs Polish forum, not that

there wouldnt be someone who would come along and answer this question eventually, but I think you will have more sucess/less stress
on the subject.

Genealogy / Is Czarnecki Really A Polish Or Actually A Sephardic Jewish Surname? [110]

disagreeing is not highjacking.

highjacking a thread is

Example: talking about highjacking a thread which is what you are doing as well, your highjacking your own thread instead of
leaving it as it was and just messaging our mods and so thus that is a highjack of the first kind!! :)


I know nothing about Jewish History, so I cant elaborate, but I have seen the name Czarnecki in alot of older records in the beginning

of my research with my family, in one peticular parish. I think it was polish roots..

if you need more information on Jewish there is a JRI poland site, its basically jewish, but very informative.

News / Heavy storm / tornados cause chaos and flooding in Poland [23]


my Brother said the same thing, he told me about it I read it on here and heard it online, yes two a year is rare compared to the states

we get the worst in the midwest tornado alley, but this one does look like something out of one of the clips from the weather

channel storm chasers!

We lived in a old house near a farm and open land, *WORST PLACE* anyways, I remember as a kid, hearing the windows bangin
like they wanted to blow in. my parents went out , I was sleeping upstair with my sister and she was older * teen* she shushed me up

and said just go back to sleep.. good thing it didnt hit our house, but it was at night, who would have found us if it would have hit the

house we would have been all over the place in the fields.. scarey!

to this day I am still mad at my sister for not taking us down stairs, there was a basement , which is the safe place to be during

these storms.

Genealogy / Americans of Polish descent. How many of us are on Polish forums? [216]


lucky you :)

I guess I do the same, its just not the same foods


excellent :)

Someday I am going to meet my Polish Brother and his family * he knows who he is*

Its nice to hear that your family still carrys on the same traditions. I can tell its fading here, festivals are not the same
like when I was a kid, the change is evident. I think the older generations made the difference.

actually I know they did.

Feedback / Daily/Weekly Polls (suggestion) [19]


I agree


if its so bad here why do you stay?

There are all walks of life, we will never agree with everyone, people say things without filters, when the mods catch
it they do what is needed.

The way I see it, if they make the decision to make a arse of themselfs so what? this isnt jail, its a forum, and people

have opinions we all have to try to respect each other, sometimes thats not a option, we get random idiots , but its a open
forum, i can tell you I was on another forum before I came to this one, and it was far worse, there was a favorite poster, he said

what ever the heck he wanted, it was moderated alright, the forum was boring and uneventful, the people were ok, but one post
out of line and they kicked you out, And it wasnt like this forum,

there are some who get away with stuff, I think the mods give alot of chances to those who do offend and try to get them to stop

but they dont listen, when they do get suspended then people are B*tching that they are gone and its boring in here.

of all the forums THIS POLISH FORUM comes up on top of all the forums, online I dont even need to save to my favs cause its the

TOP of the list online for forums to come to... so those who think its so bad, no one forces you to stay, if you try to keep a open

mind and understand that theres alot of work put into this forum from the beginning, and they do what is necessary to keep it calm

but its like at a soccer game or football game, once one guy tosses a chair all hell breaks loose, its hard to control the crowd!!

Genealogy / Polish and Russian DNA? [52]


lol good way to put it,

Barney, this test is new, they are still trying to ship them out, you have to have reservations, because the test is newer. maybe the older

tests werent so informative, I never jump on the first ship that comes along, because I know they are going to improve it and they did

plus it was less then the old tests. ( savings)


is that from ancestry? cause I know there are several sites offering it.

USA, Canada / What's Kowalski (Hamtramck, MI) kielbasa like? [18]


Ahem!! Just for the record Kowalski's Keilbasa has never appealed to my pubic.. maybe yours. not mine.

Genealogy / Polish and Russian DNA? [52]

I am finally taking the test, this new test says for both male and female and can detect both maternal and paternal lines from ancestry

so I want to truely know.

Delph gave me food for thought because he said no one person is all Polish and of course thats true, we surely dont know how long

our ancestors were in poland , so to fight with him on that is really unecessary, he makes a valid point, one which should make those

interested in finding out their real DNA get the test and bring their results back * if willing to share* so we can see or compare, for all we

know some of you we are speaking to on Polish forums could be one of our ancestors from many many years ago.

That would be amazing to find out :)

I was told one time by a fella whom i tried to ask him questions about his dads family because their last name, he said well to be honest

we are all from the same family, havent you heard of Adam and Eve? I said YEAH, but I am not interested in adam and eve I want the

people in between :D lol

Genealogy / Typical Polish Eye Color [77]


my mom had light blue, my grandpa light blue ( her side)

my dad hazel, Me Hazel, my brothers hazel, so our eyes change color with the sun/sky or mood I guess..

my eyes have changed from sea blue to green to light brown, to grey so I dont have specific eye color I have like four eye colors.

ehh save money in contacts lol mines natural... lol

USA, Canada / Chris Gets Dumped on the Bachelorette for Being Polish! [52]


that might be the reason he was dumped, but its her choice, I know i wouldnt want to marry someone thats annoying for the rest of my

life. lol

I doubt it was because he was Polish.

Genealogy / Americans of Polish descent. How many of us are on Polish forums? [216]


yes they do, its just more tedious digging, but there are scattered records, I was told same thing, now I have my family history up to

1759

so for 200 years my family was in the same place on both sides so far. actually family is still in poland so add 50 more years :)

Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]


That would be like a bunch of polish women getting on a forum for british and saying are British men always so cheap?

yeah I would chalk this up to learn from your mistakes, nationality has nothing to do with it, I dont live in Poland I have borrowed money

to various people ( nationality not involved) and they never payed me back either.

One thing is trust, and sometimes people misuse the trust and take advantage, you have to go with the flow, you didnt know, just dont

keep on making the same mistakes, learn from them, Unfortunately you might not re-coup your cash.

I took the person I borrowed the money too small claims and to this day still have not recieved a dime back.

its all dust in the wind now.. I doubt I will ever see it.

Life / A new Poland's war - the poor vs the rich [81]


looking at it, no, because I cant really fairly state from polands perspective, but I can from my own area,

can you honestly say you have never seen a act of stupidity? you have no friends/family that might take their last
few dollars and use it for booze or a fix? ( maybe I am just in a mind set that traumatized me) <~past relationship.


yes you are right, I was referring to American culture I guess. I cant imagine polish folks to be so cruel though.


break out the magnifying glass professor Holmes And thank you for enjoying my post again ( I am still a smartarse) LOL


I am no more brainwashed then you.

But you mention dominant.. and its a key factor in what you said, which i think now i am understanding more of what you mean

and every living thing involves dominance for the sole purpose of survival which is a cycle we all must follow.

of course i thought of this a couple weeks ago, I was pondering while wondering <~ lol anyways, I kept thinking how really
we are not really free. Freedom has changed.. and we allowed it to change.. we go to work in our suits and skirts and
we come home to the same prison. And to boot we are all on a time schedule.

I was watching the ants that I found under a rock outside of my house. as I am watching them i notice the different workers for each

job, one was carrying a tiny egg, others were making the nest, in and out these holes and scrambling to do the queens bidding.
and I am the ultimate queen, because I am larger then these ants, I could ruin the nest with one spray of my ant killer and upset their

whole way of life.and kill their queen. so that I may be the queen a rule this piece of dirt outside of my home. but why would i kill all

these ants when they provide pest control and could keep my garden going good because they dig around the roots to give them air.

They have a purpose as we all do, we find our purpose in life and we follow it.

And if we choose to hop off that path , even though there are road blocks or some lady trying to spray us with bug spray

we keep on going, because that is how the cycle works.. disruption causes major problems as we are seeing with the economy
someone had a huge disruption in the cycle and it screwed us all up.

Anyway. think i answered this.. off to sleep :)

Life / A new Poland's war - the poor vs the rich [81]


so basically in Poland only, you are saying the rich never contribute to the poor, they watch tnem suffer .

I dont believe that.

I know there is corruption, where isnt there corruption?

but what I feel like your saying is those people who have actually earned their right to be rich, worked their arse off to get

there are supposed to just hand out money to the poor because its the right thing to do?

listen robin hood.. lol put your sword away for a moment, and realize that some of these poor are that way because 1 Either they
didnt want to change their lives ( and drink/take drugs) which is true in any nationality, people make their own choices, yes
there are some who were born into poverty and there are plenty of people who were born into poverty who became very
well known and rich only from their experiences and it didnt change them or how they wanted to help others..

so lets see if we can find examples.. I pick Henryk Gorecki for one. not born in a rich family, but he did manage to work hard

he experienced the war and wrote about it and he became rich by way of his heartfelt music.


as you wish, but I strongly disagree with you, but thank you for giving up a good debate for me today.

off to work soon :)

News / Don't go to Poland ... because you could end up coming back in a coffin [313]

I have heard of the games getting rough and hospitalizations because people get way out of hand, I am sure
there is occasional statistic, but that happens because people cant handle losing. so fights break out and riots

during intense games, I can see why they do beef up security. its needed.

Love / It is more fun to have sex in Polish than in English. Discuss. [27]


oh all you have to say is slap that dupa baby.. lol

then you are in the equation.. and you spoke polish!!

Genealogy / Professional genealogist to investigate my Polish connections? [11]

how much research have you done in your area ? how much information do you have because this is something required
to know is maybe a date of birth for the ancestor you are looking for and a idea of which town?

Life / A new Poland's war - the poor vs the rich [81]


ok thought this thread was about the rich and poor peeps..

again I will try to keep on topic for you WB :)

I was asked a few times what my job was by several cousins, I just chalked it up as small talk, people do ask what you do

for a living, even people I run into here, so its prob just conversation. I cant see someone wanting to know what your wages are

to make you feel small , does anyone see polish people openly discussing how rich they are and that they despise poor?

I would think that is something you keep private as to what your financial status is so you dont get mugged , flashy people
I could see this happening too, if they are jerks they deserve it.

But , I think its the same there as it is here, there are reasons why people have what they have and those that dont, my thoughts are

that some people dont want to futher their lives and just accept and only exist.. most of these folks are drug users, alcoholics
etc , you have some that will be rich and fall into the poor catagory because their social lives have caught up with them and
they had a handle on it, but somewhere down the road hit disaster. something traumatic might have happened or they just live
like they are 17 all their lives and dont want to grow up and accept responsibility.. I have seen all of this.

I guess it all depends on the person, but we cant be making something bigger then it is when really it is not like that most of the time

you have much larger groups of rich folks who do help poor with monetary gifts and donations to causes for humanity.

omg my brain is working today lol..

Genealogy / Professional genealogist to investigate my Polish connections? [11]

go to Polishorgins.com they have researchers , I just had some research done for myself and its all legit and very wonderful
people.

you should look up professional genealogists.. let me find a link.

expertgenealogy.com/service.asp?specialty=Poland

Here is the link to genealogists who specialize in searching in Poland for
records . and elsewhere :)

News / Don't go to Poland ... because you could end up coming back in a coffin [313]


lol well once in a while is better then never..


this is my example , because its not everyday that you go to a game.

people do get killed, we already know this, but the thread has decieved you and now you are in another
discussion .


no but if you go to a football game do you see people leaving in coffins?