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Posts by Lenka  

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Lenka   
28 Sep 2016
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

Make good choices in your life and probability that you will be faces with such a dilemma is statistically 0.000001! or next to nothing!

So deseases, genetic desorders and rape are the results of poor choices? Good to know.

Did you read what I wrote? What abortion clinics? We are talking about situation when the doctors say after tests: there is a problem we have to talk about (the pregnancy is dangerous to you, your baby doesn't have chances to survive...here are the options ) and letting her decide. And yes, she will have to face the consequences so she should also be the one to make the decision.

Thankfully she doesn't have to 'wriggle her way out' of anything...yet.

Your problem is that you cannot get your head around that old lie that the law is there for the good of a woman.

Maybe I did take it wrong but to me it seems that you wanted to say that giving a women the right to terminate the pregnancy even if it endangers her life is in no way beneficial to her no matter what she thinks about it.
Lenka   
28 Sep 2016
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

Who are you to say what is benefitial to women? Why aren't we allowed to decide for ourselfs what is good for us? Why this constant 'saving women from the trauma' bs from the pro life side? Let them worry about themself and leave me alone.

It's one thing to say about saving the life from conception and quite another to sell the bs about helping women while in fact taking the right to decide away from them. Especially when you want to eradicate abortion even when the women life is in danger... oh yeah, real do gooders for women.
Lenka   
28 Sep 2016
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

That's bollocks. There were always ways for women to abort even including herbs. No one 'introduced' it because it was always there. The difference was that the methods were not as reliable and more dangerous.

You are free to have your opinion but talking about abortion as something that appeared only in recent times is simply wrong.
Lenka   
28 Aug 2016
Life / Differences between Irish, British, Polish, American and other nations culture, tradition, music - loose talk [239]

I'm saying it's not a living tradition and it isn't. That's a fact.

What you actually said was:

Poland where sadly you'd be hard pressed to find anybody you'd pass in the street who could sing a verse of a Polish folk song.

And:

Never heard anyone singing them and do you know why? Because they don't know them.

And you have a living proof in me nad Paulina that we do know them and also sang them. If anything else that comment shows your ignorance of Poland as Hej Sokoly is basically a must on Polish big parties. But you say you never heard them being performed.
Lenka   
28 Aug 2016
Life / Differences between Irish, British, Polish, American and other nations culture, tradition, music - loose talk [239]

My comments weren't in any way directed at Polish people but at an ignorant troll

And yet in your post you attacked Polish culture:

The culture in Poland now is MacDonalds, KFC and TK Maxx. What a shame

And yet earlier you posted that Poles don't know any such songs (even one verse was your opinion I believe) and don't sing it at all. Now you change your tune to 'not as alive'

It's certainly not true to say that the culture of Poland is exclusively MacDonalds and KFC but it's heading that way.

And Irish is not?
Plus you focus on one or two things and if they don't exist in their 'true form' you deem them dead. Culture is also food (were in Poland traditional foods are still eaten on regular basis even abroad) in patterns (plenty of folk patterns still appear in modern designs) and so on. Your claim that because we don't have (or remember) as many songs as Irish our culture is dying is silly. Folk culture is not the only culture. We have centuries of music, literature, legends and language to talk about, both from folk culture as well as the one created in towns so focusing on folk songs is, again, silly.

And we still create our culture. Culture is not some dead object that you have or not. It's alive and evolving (including also foreign influences) and created again and again by each generation. I would rather say that the culture that doesn't change and is not given new 'food' is a dead one.
Lenka   
28 Aug 2016
Life / Differences between Irish, British, Polish, American and other nations culture, tradition, music - loose talk [239]

I personally love "O mój rozmarynie, rozwijaj się" :)

I love it too. My older sister called it a ''song about Marysia' when she was little since she didn't know what rozmaryn was. I also like 'u przasniczki' but they are not as popular as Hey Sokoly.

Ah, at last... Thank you for that, Lenka :)

I usually am pretty patient and can't be bothered but enough is enough. No one who truly respects his culture should disrespect others.
Lenka   
28 Aug 2016
Life / Differences between Irish, British, Polish, American and other nations culture, tradition, music - loose talk [239]

I have nothing against you being proud of your Irish culture but you shouldn't belittle other cultures to feel better about your own. That's a weak person tactic.

unlike Poland where sadly you'd be hard pressed to find anybody you'd pass in the street who could sing a verse of a Polish folk song. Are there any well known songs?

So folk song is the only sign of culture? How silly of you... have you ever been to Polish party with drinking singing of Hej Sokoly? Have you ever heard Polish kid saying Kto Ty Jestes poem? Do you know how many ppl know whole passages of Pan Tadeusz or parts of Trylogia?

If you think Polish culture doesn't exist because you didn't meet ppl singing folk songs from memory than you are just one silly goose.
Lenka   
14 Aug 2016
Law / The right to own guns: would you support such legislation in Poland? [2237]

If you agree that people have a moral right to won a gun, why would you deny them that right to be realized on legal grounds?

Moral right? No, I don't think so. It's not a god given right to have a gun. It's a man made product that falls under certain regulations as almost anything else.

Since commandant is not elected in a local election he doesn't give a rat's ass about what people (the local constituency) thinks about him

And? Your building permit are granted by government workers not elected, you are judged by judges that are not elected... the same goes for driving license, permission to open a shop, sell alcohol so on, so on.

And I definitely wouldn't want someone granting permissions just because he wants to win votes.

Simple as that is that you have no clue. Enough said - why don't you go to ROMB webpage and see how that looks in reality.

So you do have a proof (and not only your assumption) that they wouldn't get the permit! Great! Can you share it with all of us? Or maybe you have an argument how they would suddenly find money for it if only someone else was granting the permits?
Lenka   
13 Aug 2016
Law / The right to own guns: would you support such legislation in Poland? [2237]

people have a right to rise and awareness and to whippy up support, prepare a ground, educate people for such a legislation to be introduced in Poland at the later date.

Do I stop pro gun lobby? Not at all. Let them try to promote it all they want. All I'm saying is that at this time such change in legislation would go against the views of majority of Poles.

There is no reason why people should be able to arm themselves if they wish to do so.

And they can do in the frames of current law. I'm not stopping them, am I? However I have the right (as the majority of Polish society it seems) to be against any changes in the law.

Even if your estimate is correct that doesn't negate anything Johnny said

There is no confirmation that there is an increase or is it in any substantial number. If there was another poll we could judge somehow but for now it's only assumption.

Those right equal no right at all. Unless you are cozy with a local commandant of the police.

No, it's a right. You might not like how it's granted but that doesn't change the fact that Johnny's friends didn't even apply so there are no grounds to say they wouldn't get it. Simple as that. More relaxed laws would do nothing for them as their issues are money related.
Lenka   
13 Aug 2016
Law / The right to own guns: would you support such legislation in Poland? [2237]

That is YOUR opinion since it has never gone to a vote to my knowledge.

The only poll I found is form 2009 but the results are pretty clear 83% against softer gun laws:
wiadomosci.wp.pl/kat,1347,title,Sondaz-Polacy-nie-chca-wiekszego-dostepu-do-broni,wid,11327314,martykul.html

Even with increase of 10% (and I doubt there is such increase) you are talking of over 70% of society against changes giving easier access.
Do you have any proof to the contrary? Beside talking to your friends that is?

Those are YOUR words as they DO want the right to own and carry a gun.

But they didn't use the rights they have. It's not like they were stopped from owning a gun, is it?

You are a Bleeding Heart Liberal who thinks what is good for you is good for everyone else.

I seems to me it's you who are trying to say what's good for Polish ppl even thought you are not even a resident in this country.

BTW, I would really appreciate it if you stopped your childish catchphrases and writing in CAPITALS when you respond to me.
Lenka   
12 Aug 2016
Law / The right to own guns: would you support such legislation in Poland? [2237]

Their choice should not influence the choice of upstanding citizens who disagree with hers.

Isn't that called democracy? The majority of Polish society doesn't want a change in gun laws and if individuals want U.S. kind of gun law they can get it- when they move to USA

They are very poor people and can't afford it presently.

So they don't really have problems with the gun laws in Poland, they just can't afford it. Nice to make it clear.

My comments are for a case where arms are carried by civilians for the defense of Poland, and I was not advocating the general purchase of firearms at the local Tesco store

Sorry, I misunderstood you. The discussion is mostly about USA kind of gun laws vs. European/Polish ones. I jumped to conclusion.

As for the number of volunteers , I am confident many would take up the challenge to volunteer as they currently do in other services such as the volunteer fire service.

It all sounds good and I'm all for strong defence forces however I'm suspicious of such groups a bit. Who would be in charge, what kind of selection would they have ( many ppl may be drawn to such forces for all the wrong reasons), what regulations would be in place... many questions that have to be answered.
Lenka   
12 Aug 2016
Law / The right to own guns: would you support such legislation in Poland? [2237]

Yoh both act like there is complete ban on guns in Poland. It's not the case. Any citizen can apply for gun permit. Getting it is a different matter but the thing is most ppl don't even think of applying. So I wonder where that 500,000 ppl may come from or where you'll find popular support needed for the change in legislation.

Once I see any real data about parliament working on legislation, civil unrest to change the legislation or anything else Johnny's comment is only his perception, not a fact.

Even if there is increase of lets say 50000 ppl in support of guns it's nothing compared to the whole country.
If Polish nation would decide by over 50 % that they want guns then you could say 'Poles want guns and the government is stopping them'. As it is is some individuals wanting guns

One question to you Johnny- did your friends applied for gun permit? And if they did why didn't they get it?
Lenka   
12 Aug 2016
Law / The right to own guns: would you support such legislation in Poland? [2237]

I don't doubt your friends would like to own guns as you made it clear before that the ppl you talk to would like more American style gun laws however it doesn't mean:

Support for such legislation is becoming more popular

There is nothing to indicate that Polish ppl swayed in that direction and no initiatives worth mentioning. So whatever your friends say to you is their opinion and you shouldn't draw such far-fetched conclusions. If that's your only base for such statement I could easily match your every friend with my friend that doesn't want the gun legislation to change.
Lenka   
5 Jul 2016
News / Russian criticism of Poland - Soviet war memorial removal [325]

I understand your feelings and I'm sorry about your family.
I hope you don't think I try to deny the horrible acts of the past. I have no such intentions. But this memorials for me are the merit of the war: young boys being thrown in a situation they didn't cause and didn't want to take part in (of course excluding the monsters that were among them) on whichever side. You know that Soviets were awful but they were not more merciful towards their own ppl and for example soldiers that were caught by the enemy couldn't count on their country help and quite often ended in Siberia themself.

I preach compassion for the little ppl, the ones forced to be in the war and killed because of it. We should remember them because they are too the victim's of war.
Lenka   
4 Jul 2016
News / Russian criticism of Poland - Soviet war memorial removal [325]

I think it's moronic for few reasons
We both agree that the Soviets harmed Poland and Polish ppl in many ways so why not keep at least one thing that they gave us as part of repatriation? I would prefer the metro but well. Would you suggest to demolish metro if that was what they 'gave' us

Very few ppl view it as Soviet anymore and in fact it's part of the Capital city not insignificant to it's identity
It serves the public in many ways and Poland doesn' have the resources to demolish a perfectly good culture building
I view it as kind of 'na złość mamie odmrozic sobie uszy' type of behaviour. Demolishing it wouldn't change anything. It won't change the horrible things that happened during Soviet ocuppation and will only make us loose a big building that we can use for good things.
Lenka   
4 Jul 2016
News / Russian criticism of Poland - Soviet war memorial removal [325]

We agree a bit but not completely:
* I would leave them were they are
*I wouldn't do it to 'show the Soviets' but to make sure that even though we respect the fallen soldiers whatever nationality they are they were not the force freeing Poland but in fact occupying it

*I would do it to minimize the effect of the writings on the monument not out of revenge or to spite anyone
*I wouldn't mention Katyn( in my opinion that would degrade the memory of ppl who died there)
*I see no reason to demolish Palace of Culture and in fact think it's a moronic idea
I think that sums it up
Lenka   
4 Jul 2016
News / Russian criticism of Poland - Soviet war memorial removal [325]

but it is important to remember the mistakes of the past, it is important not to glorify the tyrants with statues depicting them as the saviors of Poland.

Even more reasons to keep them. It's part of our history. Maybe with an information next to the monument reminding that Soviets occupied Poland and few other historic facts? But by you suggesting demolishing Palace of Culture I can see it's not really the monuments or historic truth you are interested in but your own feelings.

Lenka your family was lucky.

They were. My grandma even yelled at the soldiers for lying in her beds without washing or taking their shoes off. The officer intervened and made soldiers wash.
Lenka   
4 Jul 2016
News / Russian criticism of Poland - Soviet war memorial removal [325]

You still don't get it, do you? We are not saying that Soviets were a nice lot happily welcomed by Poland e.t.c. We are saying that this mouments (that quite often are also grave yards) are simple monuments for fallen soldiers who quite often didn't even want to be there. My family had to host a Russian brigade against their will and guess what- no one got raped. So it's not like Soviet soldier is a synonym for rapist.
Lenka   
4 Jul 2016
News / Russian criticism of Poland - Soviet war memorial removal [325]

Well as you mentioned Silesia there is a church near my town where on the wall you have a place to put flowers and mourn Wermaht soldiers. No one is bothered by it. It's again a monument to the soldiers that died and not Nazi's policies.

I think you are a bit blinded by your personal experience. If your family died in a concentration camp and not Sabiria you'd be talking about them. And I don't believe Soviet soldiers were any better or worse than any other(of course the ppl giving orders are a different matter). The only thing is they fought on the side that ruined Poland (the same as Nazis)
Lenka   
4 Jul 2016
News / Russian criticism of Poland - Soviet war memorial removal [325]

look at Silesia where the rapped murdered and stole from the German civilians.

I come from Silesia. That granddad I was talking about was Silesian. While it's true their presence was no picnic I don't understand how it would change anything. Do you think Nazis were sweet and helped old grannies through the road?

And believe me there were plenty of German soldiers that believed in the glory of Germany, especially when the war just started and they were going towards Russia and not back.
Lenka   
4 Jul 2016
News / Russian criticism of Poland - Soviet war memorial removal [325]

Well Dolno, my grandpa fought in the war and he always said they all were soldiers just like him. Germans, Russians quite often didn't want to be there. That's the soldier's fate. If he who fought with them could view them like that I think I have his blessing in saying the same.

They were just soldiers that died far away from home.
Lenka   
3 Apr 2016
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

I'm talking about certain privileges that are granted to you by the society ( law) by the token of your gender.

No privileges make up for loosing control over one's body. And if you didn't notice for a long time we are more or less trying to make both genders equal.

I'm threating you as my equal in this debate if you cannot take it and you would rather be treated like a woman - you only need to ask me once.

I am a women and yet your equal. It's not a privilege you give me and can take away.
And yes,to me as a women the vision of the new law is scary. I'm young enough that I have still many years in which I may get pregnant. And guess what? I'm not happy with the possibility that I may have to give birth to my rapist child or to a kid that will only live few hours or months in terrible pain.

For you I may seem melodramatic but for you it's more or less just theoretical question. For me it can become very real issue every month.
Lenka   
3 Apr 2016
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

after all it is nature that affect women more than men in this and a society balance it with a certain privileges being granted to women.

Sorry but I have no idea what you are on about here.

Sure, and she cares so much about poor women that it kinda hits you in the face. (sarcasm)

Certainly more than the Church in this situation. After all she for sure wouldn't have any problems with paying for a visit in a nice clinic somewhere outside of Poland.

Are you planning to sleep around without protection?

I'm not planning on being raped but it would be nice to know that if I got pregnant in a result of rape I would have the possibility of abortion.

And since current law doesn't allow abortion in a case of 'sleeping around' I can only assume that it's your failed and disgusting attempt at being clever and funny.

Which in the way was against the law of the country.

It's not since they are not abortion pills.Their task is to slow down ovulation so there will be no conception. No conception=no abortion.
Lenka   
3 Apr 2016
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

The current law allows 3 situations in which abortion is legal:
-the pregnancy is the result of illegal act (usually rape)
-the fetus is very sick
-the woman health and life is in danger.
I don't think anyone can call it too lenient.
Before PiS came to power the morning after pill was available without prescription but now you have to go to a doctor again. The abortion under the new law could be terminated only if the mather's life is in danger however I wouldn't be surprised if they tried to block that as well. And the women should be prosecuted and charged for up to 5 years in prison
Lenka   
3 Apr 2016
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

I'd save everything I could to get an abortion in another country.

That's what Nowacka said- that this ban will hit poor women the most since wealthier women will just go abroad. If you don't have a penny you'll be f*****.

I'm not panicking just yet but the vision of the future is getting scary.
For PiS supporters it may be worth remembering that they tried it last time and Maria Kaczynska herself organised a meeting in support of the current law.
Lenka   
3 Apr 2016
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

Don't try to change it into men versus women contests because it is not.

I don't as I have no reason to do so. However it's hard to deny that that law will affect women not men ergo women are more interested in it. Plenty of Buzz on social media as well. We'll see if the initiative will gather enough signatures...
Lenka   
3 Apr 2016
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

Well, that will be interesting to see. Women already get ****** off. I didn' see a single positive comment about the new proposal on the most popular portals. Even gossip site like Pudelek reports this proposal and most comments I saw there and elsewhere is that priests went mad and should sort out their sh** and not get involved with this.

Some right-wing politicians are not too happy as well. Gowin (if I remember correctly) said that even though he's against abortion this new proposal will change Poland into unchristian country.