Bobko
19 Sep 2023
History / What should Russia and Poland do to become if not friends, then at least not enemies? [945]
As a man, I think I have somewhat of a different problem... but maybe it's the same for women. I can't say.
I spent about 15 years after college focusing on my work. Now, when I feel I'm standing firmly on my two feet, and finally want to have children - there is no one I want to have them with.
Do not misunderstand me - I really want children. I think I would be a good father. However, it seems the correct way to have children is to have them with someone you love. Last few years, I have come to understand that I'm becoming pretty set in my habits, and more stringent in filtering potential relationship candidates by a complex matrix of criteria. I find it hard these days to "like" anyone, let alone "love" them.
Starting to think, I should marry someone for a few years, get some kids, then go back to living life as I've become used to it.
the whole generation is brainwashed into thinking that having children is an obstacle on their way to "self-realisation", "fulfillment" or "career".
As a man, I think I have somewhat of a different problem... but maybe it's the same for women. I can't say.
I spent about 15 years after college focusing on my work. Now, when I feel I'm standing firmly on my two feet, and finally want to have children - there is no one I want to have them with.
Do not misunderstand me - I really want children. I think I would be a good father. However, it seems the correct way to have children is to have them with someone you love. Last few years, I have come to understand that I'm becoming pretty set in my habits, and more stringent in filtering potential relationship candidates by a complex matrix of criteria. I find it hard these days to "like" anyone, let alone "love" them.
Starting to think, I should marry someone for a few years, get some kids, then go back to living life as I've become used to it.