Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


Of course there are. My post #50 is full of them. Read it again.


Bullsh1t.


What scientific data? I am not aware of any scientific data showing that women get "broken" after having a few partners and are "unable to form a long-term bond with one man".


You were the one who started automatically to blame the wife and that's why I pointed out that "evolutionary biological factor" to you.

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


Bullsh1t. Stop with this demagogic evasion :) I presented you with some facts and logical arguments. Do you have any counterarguments?
Because it looks like you don't have any and that's why you're starting spouting your usual nonsense :))

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


Nonsense. It's enough for a man to get bored after years of being married to the same woman. It's enough that the wife gets older, he doesn't find her attractive anymore and that's why he got attracted to a younger woman.

Also, Scorpio411 wrote that it's not his wife's fault. Even if we assume he's wrong and that there's something that his wife could do to make their marriage better, then the first thing he should do is to try and work on his marriage and if that fails - get a divorce and only then start chasing "young skirts".


This is simply not true :D


It is exactly the same.

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


To the issue of cheating? :D Sure, maybe husbands should have a more relaxed attitude to their wives cheating too :D And aunts should grow moustache :D Very "realistic" approach on your part :D




Yes, you are.


Not only from the moral and ethical point of view, but also from the point of view of human relations and their feelings for each other. This is something you seem to be missing here.

As for viewing it from the Christian point of view - I can't really agree here. Monogamous relationships aren't characteristic only for Christian and post-Christian countries. Polygamy is actually rare in the world:

pewresearch.org/short-reads/2020/12/07/polygamy-is-rare-around-the-world-and-mostly-confined-to-a-few-regions/

And if it's rare it must mean there was a reason why human relationships evolved in this way.


I don't know if the wife really doesn't care, or simply she can't do much about it. But since Scorpio411 doesn't live in Asia, I don't give a f*ck what it's like in Asia. He's clearly Christian, I'm guessing that his wife is too. It's pretty likely that they had a church wedding and that means he made an oath before God. So, he's very much living in that "Christian bubble". If he doesn't like it, then he can divorce his wife, take that Polish girl to Asia (if she's going to be interested) and cheat on that Polish girl in Asia all he wants lol

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]

@Novichok, if there a people who are too stupid and not responsible enough to use condoms and birth control pills, then such people probably shouldn't procreate (or at least until they get wiser).

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


Exactly. If a guy is unable to be faithful to a woman, then he shouldn't be in a relationship that was agreed upon to be monogamous from the start.

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


Yes, you are :)


I don't have a drinking habit :)))


There are condoms and birth control pills these days :))

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


Ah, yes, you're a hypocrite, I knew that already.


Besides his wife, kids, house and part of his income (US version), haha lol

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


news-medical.net/news/20190612/Women-have-better-memories-of-events-than-men.aspx


Based on numerous accounts of many wives - men are apparently incapable of finding ketchup in the fridge, etc., so our "super" memory skills can be useful :):



"Witch!"

Haha :D

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


Firstly, you're being a hypocrite right now, because you're often getting very emotional when commenting stuff on this forum.
Secondly, I'm not getting more emotionally involved than I usually do - I'm simply speaking my mind.


No, I've never been cheated on as far as I know. How about you? And have you ever cheated on your girlfriend or wife? Or have you ever felt like cheating?


Really? Would you say the same thing if the OP was a woman wanting to cheat on her husband? :)

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


You won't distract me with your fantasy nonsense :)))


I didn't "accost" you, I asked you a simple question. Why didn't you answer it? :)


It is not about "anything" though, we are discussing a particular issue - the guy wants to cheat on his wife. That means his marriage is in deep crisis. Maybe it's even over already. And if it is over - then his wife has the right to know. Because he's just wasting her time/life.

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


So, according to you, Mr Conservative and Catholic, it's OK to cheat on your spouse if you don't have kids?


Why am I not surprised... lol 🤢

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


Scorpio411 wrote pretty bluntly that he doesn't want any "lectures on fidelity, religion, etc."

I don't think he has any dilemma about whether to cheat on his wife or not. He wants to do it. His only "problem" seems to be whether the girl is interested or not.


To be honest, it seems to me that his marriage has been dead already for some time - at least on his part. He doesn't seem to give the slightest f*ck about his wife... and it looks like he's been interested in that Polish girl for some time now. He claims he wouldn't feel the way he does if it wasn't for those two hugs, but I think he's lying to himself. He's been seeing her "here and there" for years, as he wrote, and even before those hugs he was "so happy to see her again" and he was the one who waited for her outside after the mass - he decided to make the first move, he was the one wanting to interact with her. So, my impression is that this crush, or whatever it is, has been going for some time now.


You're probably right...

Law / Report a stolen iPhone or other theft in Poland? [9]

@shashank24
Are you sure it was stolen and you didn't lose it? If it was stolen, then report it to the police - here's some info on what you need in case of a stolen phone:

nowydworgdanski.policja.gov.pl/pm9/porady/56598,Twoacutej-telefon-zostal-skradziony.html

Basic info:

lublin.policja.gov.pl/llu/prewencja/for-foreigners/64546,How-to-officially-notify-the-Police-about-an-offence.html?sid=7dc1bce13bed7a7e6f4ceff3bd055556

Btw, obviously, it's always the best to report the crime as soon as possible.

Genealogy / What does my Polish name mean? [402]

@Jmartusewicz, as for meaning - I don't know, but maybe it comes from the Latin name Martinus (English: Martin). The ending "-ewicz" suggests Eastern origin:

https://polishforums.com/language/ethnic-backround-suffixes-surnames-72736/


So, Martusewicz could mean "a son of Martin", for example.

Also, it seems there's a possibility that you can have noble roots (but only genealogical research could confirm that) - your surname is connected to one of the oldest Polish coat of arms called Łabędź (Swan), which was also adopted by Lithuanian boyars:

pl.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/%C5%81ab%C4%99d%C5%BA_(herb_szlachecki)

In English:

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/%C5%81ab%C4%99d%C5%BA_coat_of_arms

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


Why? If Scorpio411 isn't able to get over his infatuation and decides to cheat on his wife, it means his marriage is over anyway.

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


It doesn't matter. He's interested in her. That's enough.


I didn't write that he should tell her now (although as a wife - I'd rather know). But if he doesn't get over it - and he still feels like cheating on his wife - then he should tell her.

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


I think you don't understand. By "A lot has happened already" I meant what has happened in Scorpio411's heart (or pants or both). He got interested in another woman. To such an extent that, as he writes: "I don't know what came over me, but ever since then I can't stop thinking about her. I mean like almost every waking moment."

It sounds like he fell in love with another woman. And it looks like he wants to turn his fantasty into reality. He's actively seeking it.

He already cheated on his wife - in his heart.


Exactly.

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]

@Alien, sorry, but haven't you read anything what Scorpio411 wrote? A lot has happened already. If I were his wife, I'd be heartbroken already. That's one thing.

Another thing - if he continues on this path, a lot more may happen. And that's what I meant when I wrote: "Are you going to cheat on your wife? Or will you man up and tell your wife the truth?"

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]

@Novichok, no, but Scorpio411 wrote himself that it doesn't have anything to do with his wife, so I'm guessing, based on what he wrote, that his wife isn't any "gambler, a drug addict, and an unfaithful drunk":


What's more, it looks like his wife cares about how he feels:

Love / Smitten and Wondering [81]


And how old are you?


I think you're a piece of sh1t and a scumbag and I feel sorry for your wife.


What do you want then? A pat on the back? A blessing to cheat on your wife? An advice on how to do it so your wife wouldn't know? lol

Sorry, but you're sickening to me...

How would you feel if your wife was doing what you're doing now?

Do you have kids?


And if she will? If she's going to be interested in you - what then? Are you going to cheat on your wife? Or will you man up and tell your wife the truth?

News / Poland - A True Bastion and Defender of Free Speech [250]


A song "Kaczka Dziwaczka" (a classic poem for kids by Jan Brzechwa published in 1939) - this video was posted only 3 years ago and has 43 mln views :)):

News / Poland - A True Bastion and Defender of Free Speech [250]


Not really, we also say "Polish Tatars".


On what subject? He was wrong when he wrote that if Polish students had any say in the matter "Tuwim wouldn't be forced taught upon them" or that "No genuine Pole talks about Tuwim". Kids don't care who wrote a poem. Tuwim's and Brzechwa's poems for kids are fun and that's all kids care about. Those poems are already part of Polish culture, whether Poloniusz likes it or not o_O


Are you saying that parents don't read Tuwim's and Brzechwa's poems to kids anymore? I somehow doubt it:





:)

Oh, btw, they just made a new film based on "Akademia Pana Kleksa" (published in 1946) by Jan Brzechwa :))) In 2023! Those "PRL fossils"! :))))

News / Poland - A True Bastion and Defender of Free Speech [250]

@pawian, yes, Tuwim's and Brzechwa's poems for kids are absolute classics. I still remember my mother reading them to me. You'd have to be retarded not to know about them if you were raised in Poland o_O

Work / Can any international computer science student get software development job in Wrocław or Warsaw? [45]


No, it hasn't.


Nonsense. As I already wrote - automation isn't anything new. It's not about feminism, "pussifying men" or anything of this sort. It's the result of technological and scientific development that allows for more automation and more sophisticated automation. And the main driving force behind automation in all kinds of industries was and is chasing profit. Capitalism. Money.


That's a bad example, considering that pawian is the sole breadwinner in his marriage and his wife is a housewife and a stay-at-home mom :))))


Nope. Greed creates this need.

News / Poland - A True Bastion and Defender of Free Speech [250]


The cross is hanging in the plenary chamber of the Polish Parliament. It doesn't have to be two meters long, it's enough that it's there (and, unlike Hanukkah celebrations, it's there all the time) and everyone knows about it.


You clearly didn't go to a public school in Poland :)))


Don't be silly. During my time, if students had any say in the matter, many of them wouldn't want to be forced taught upon "Pan Tadeusz" or "Nad Niemnem" :))) A lot of stuff is "forced taught upon" students at school.

And it was my mother that introduced me to Tuwim's poems for kids when I was little - by reading them to me.

Work / Can any international computer science student get software development job in Wrocław or Warsaw? [45]


Because you have selective hearing? :)) You've never heard about the greed and lack of empathy of big corporations? Really?

Work / Can any international computer science student get software development job in Wrocław or Warsaw? [45]


No, it wasn't. "AI" at present isn't replacing factory workers, construction workers, cleaning ladies, nurses and others that are usually in short "supply" in Western countries. It's replacing people like graphic designers, photographers, programmers, journalists, writers, voice actors, etc. - jobs that "first worlders" were actually willing to do. And I'm guessing it's just going to get worse.

Also, automation isn't anything new and has nothing to do with feminism.


That's actually a Christian thing to do, rather than a feminist one, Mr Religious One :)))


Of course not :) It's men's relentless greed :)))

Work / Can any international computer science student get software development job in Wrocław or Warsaw? [45]


Then I made it so :)


Thanks to AI revolution you don't have to worry about birth rates anymore. It's possible that at some point there will be too many "redundant" humans even in Western countries. So, rejoice at the ingenuity of men and their relentless greed :)))

Work / Can any international computer science student get software development job in Wrocław or Warsaw? [45]


Nope. Atch is right. What tech bros are marketing these days as "AI" isn't an actual AI yet (the one you know from films like "Terminator" or "Matrix"). It's just machine learning.


Yes, they want to replace humans. Not just "unneeded third worlders", but your white, Christian people too.


Considering the damage "AI" is doing already and what damage it can potentially do in the future, I can defenitely agree that it's not "just any software" or "like any other tool". It's not real AI yet though.