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Poles - the Nation of Liars? [478]
Seanus, so do I, can we establish your side of the fence,1 Would it be in Poland's interests to improve its system in order to stamp out corruption/dishonesty/cheating at all levels.or2.Corruption/dishonesty/cheating is not a problem in Poland and therefore should be ignored.
Wedle, are you a preacher by occupation? It seems that you feel you are on some mission here.
You're one of the posters here (there are a few) who always remind me of my mother-in-law. Whenever she comes to visit, I get plenty of good advice and useful comments. She knows best what I need and what I don't need, what I should buy, where and for how much, what colour I should paint my walls, what hours I should work and what time to have dinner. She simply knows it all and she's always ready to point out any faults and imperfections. Of course, she's doing it for my own good.
Need I add that I've never asked her for advice and that every time she opens her mouth I feel like pushing her out of my window?
And it really doesn't matter that she might sometimes be right and that I've thought of throwing away this old armchair myself. She's deeply convinced that I'd never do anything right without her enlightened guidance.
Yes. It's both condescending and patronizing. And highly infuriating.
So don't be surprised that you get the sort of reaction you do. It's really not about the size of corruption in Poland or elsewhere. It's about your attitude.
I'm sure if you came here and told us a story of how you've been cheated or lied to, you'd get a lot of compassion, understanding and practical advice. But you won't get any of it coming to the forum as the sole righteous man in the whole country, whose moral duty is to point out all the filth in our everyday life. You haven't been hired as an Anderson consultant so let the Poles take care of it themselves.