Ksysia
27 Feb 2010
UK, Ireland / Why are Polish people, especially women, so disrespectful toward the English? [437]
I'm not sure what is exactly perceived as disrespectful here?! disrespectful is opposed to friendly, then what happens to respectful??? I am respectful, though sometimes I wonder if the English around me really understand that I am. It seems to me that to them - the respect which means the 'recognition of humanity' (podmiotowość), is just an unknown idea.
But they do of course have some incomplete idea of manners. They say good morning, open the door and generally spend time paying attention to one another. They don't know about eating silently, looking either in the eyes or not at all, not listening to other people conversations, not shouting, the rules of who greets first etc.
And really, there is a problem of cheap labour. Think for a minute - if I could get one of the 40k jobs that I apply for, would I work for 18? But I can't, because such jobs are not offered to me. I'm not respected enough. I'm trying hard not to show it, but there is a neon light flashing a big 'FUVK YALL' hovering above my head.
Not because of the amount of money, because I could be in Admin and they get paid that much. It's because of what other Finance people are paid, and that I'm expected to accept less.
And I do. Otherwise I would have no job at all.
Puzzle for you - when the London market will crash again in 18-30 months, while Poland is making the oil contracts with Russia, Norway and Iran, and your redundant people will start coming to Poland (increasing over ten years), what will happen?
I can tell you - those Poles who have never been screwed over by the Anglos, will treat you like foreign royalty (like we and Russians treat foreigners). Those of us who have been to the Island, will not want to talk to you.
I bet that English have not enough class to just go about your business and content with a sign hovering over your head. I bet you will start yapping. Well, take into account that in Poland we don't have the damages trials. No no joy is awaiting you from yapping.
And is there any satisfaction for me? Not at all. I've given it a thought, and I will hire Anglos. One doesn't hire friends for liking them, but strangers for work. But I will only hire the ones who work like Poles.
I'm not sure what is exactly perceived as disrespectful here?! disrespectful is opposed to friendly, then what happens to respectful??? I am respectful, though sometimes I wonder if the English around me really understand that I am. It seems to me that to them - the respect which means the 'recognition of humanity' (podmiotowość), is just an unknown idea.
But they do of course have some incomplete idea of manners. They say good morning, open the door and generally spend time paying attention to one another. They don't know about eating silently, looking either in the eyes or not at all, not listening to other people conversations, not shouting, the rules of who greets first etc.
And really, there is a problem of cheap labour. Think for a minute - if I could get one of the 40k jobs that I apply for, would I work for 18? But I can't, because such jobs are not offered to me. I'm not respected enough. I'm trying hard not to show it, but there is a neon light flashing a big 'FUVK YALL' hovering above my head.
Not because of the amount of money, because I could be in Admin and they get paid that much. It's because of what other Finance people are paid, and that I'm expected to accept less.
And I do. Otherwise I would have no job at all.
Puzzle for you - when the London market will crash again in 18-30 months, while Poland is making the oil contracts with Russia, Norway and Iran, and your redundant people will start coming to Poland (increasing over ten years), what will happen?
I can tell you - those Poles who have never been screwed over by the Anglos, will treat you like foreign royalty (like we and Russians treat foreigners). Those of us who have been to the Island, will not want to talk to you.
I bet that English have not enough class to just go about your business and content with a sign hovering over your head. I bet you will start yapping. Well, take into account that in Poland we don't have the damages trials. No no joy is awaiting you from yapping.
And is there any satisfaction for me? Not at all. I've given it a thought, and I will hire Anglos. One doesn't hire friends for liking them, but strangers for work. But I will only hire the ones who work like Poles.