I assume those are rhetorical questions.
No more than why men are allowed in prisons for women.
Insanity, like cancer, tends to metastasize. It first shows up in "America", then in the UK, and, from there, among me-too morons elsewhere. Those skinny Polish boys pretending to be girls is the evidence. In "communist" Poland we never fell that low. Now it's cute and this forum goes along with the disease.
In Russia you'll be beaten up for wearing a kilt.
Good. When among Russians, act like one.
Normal men dislike girlie weirdos because they don't see them as an asset you can count on when attacked. They see them as girls real men instinctively want to protect - the instinct that diverts their attention from the primary mission of protecting the tribe.
That's how men are wired and no amount of progressive crap talk that men and women are equal can ever change this.
The bottom line is: women are to be safe back home and take care of the kids, not hunt and wage wars. Girlie men are a liability, not an asset, and a vomit-inducing freak show.