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Joined: 9 Sep 2012 / Female ♀
Last Post: 22 Oct 2012
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cassandra   
9 Sep 2012
Language / Busha and JaJa [140]

Busia is a shortened form of the Polish word Babusia and a term of endearment, and we pronounced it 'Boo-sha'(as in the Holloween English word 'booh'=to scare)...i am ancestrally from the Toledo, Ohio (USA) Polish diaspora and this is what i was taught.

These terms were taught us by those very Grandparents... and we loved them dearly. My granchildren use this term with me, just between us, now ;), they say 'Grandma' in public.

We have been told we are from southwest Warsaw
cassandra   
9 Sep 2012
Language / Busha and JaJa [140]

yes Ohio, in the cities- is well endowed with Polish people....However Chicago in Illinios has the largest American population of the ethnic group
cassandra   
9 Sep 2012
News / 1.3% birth rate = Poland's slow death [221]

Kondzior...shame on you, hope you do not have daughters..... Harry your funny!!!
Where does all this come from, after all the pain Poland has sufferred? after all the men and Women whose lives have been lost?!!!
Papa must be rolling in his grave with angst!!!!
What have you learned from history? Nothing?!!! that you are still so full of needs to bully someone?
Maybe if many men in Poland think like Knodzior...this could be why the birth rate goes down!!! who would want to share a life with some one who plans to enslave them??

My Grandfather would smack you, he was so proud that his grandchildren went to college.. All the girls, he had a Polish phase for us..it meant beautiful and smart and he made us so proud of ourselves, and we are! for our pride in him and Busha is so great we would not disappiont them, even in their graves!!!!

Yes an educated woman has fewer children, simply because she IS EDUCATED....once you learn that you make your own poverty with 12 children, you learn to stop.

PS Ethnically i am Polish, but we had our DNA run...my brother and i... and guess what? It is true that we are 'mutts' a huge mix from Mongolia to the Mediterranian, all those wars from the 1200's forward have left few people in Europe a 'pure' ethnic group....

Race is for NASCAR
cassandra   
10 Sep 2012
News / Dirty deeds of foreign guys in Poland [65]

delphiandomine
Now for this..i should like to know if those Siberian prisons are still open...be a good place for this guy!!!!
Yes i know Siberia is in Russia....just saying this would be a good place for people like this.
cassandra   
10 Sep 2012
News / 1.3% birth rate = Poland's slow death [221]

kondzior
You are SOOOO wrong...the 'division' of labor has NOT been as you state throughout pre-history!!!
American Indian Tribes- imparticular- and still to this day...encourage the natural talent of each individual and they are NOT THE ONLY CULTURE TO DO THIS!!!!!

Many men are chefs..my spouse cooks in the home...BECAUSE HE IS A BETTER COOK!!!!
I choose to work also, ...it relieves his stress and financial burden and hopefully allows him a longer life with me because of the reduced stress!!!

Our children and grandchildren see him as a strong, caring man.
(we have been together for over 35 years and i would never trade him for one who thought i should be barefoot and pregnant all the time, besides i was a ***** when i was pregnant-who would want to live with that hormonal angst for years?)

You are WRONG i have had a full share PARTNERSHIP, it is lovely, fulfilling for both.
cassandra   
10 Sep 2012
News / Who controls Gazeta Wyborcza?? [216]

Polonius3
agree, perhaps all history is a little 'revisionist', but in the west we learn Kuklinski is a HERO of Poland
cassandra   
10 Sep 2012
Genealogy / The typical Polish look, or all Eastern Europeans [656]

Another thing to thank my Polish ancestry for!!!! ;) we are not fat Americans ;) we've stayed 'slender' poles ;)
( not meant to offend, but it IS a good play on words ;) !!!!!! )
cassandra   
11 Sep 2012
Genealogy / THE MEANING AND RESEARCH OF MY POLISH LAST NAME, SURNAME? [4501]

boletus Thankyou also boletus ;) maybe not the best meanings et all, but i have been a fool in my time, as most of us can be ;) and it might also explain why JaJa disliked the spelling ;)

i might add i have always felt the warrior in my blood and as a Vet in America i have traveled and lived in a variety of places ....though i can't call myself a thief, for lack of reason to....the rest of it is a fairly good meaning for a peasant.

Hope you'll not be offended if i explain to my brother we might rather have been peasants with purpose, he has more ego than i do... ;)

Polonius3
Thankyou Polonius, i also have found only one woman with the name, in Florida. :) gracious of you to respond to me at all.
cassandra   
11 Sep 2012
History / Polish Officer in NATO, Col. Ryszard Kukliński. [145]

Not true. International Law makes it quite clear that following orders is no defense if those orders are illegal. Breaking an oath to a proxy of an occupying power can be justified.

Very true, even within ranks of a wholey sanctioned military you have the right to disobey an immoral order, indeed if you do not in the American military you will face courtmartial....we have seen this happen to some in the recent past........
cassandra   
12 Sep 2012
History / An American studying medicine in the PRL 1978-1985: my story [142]

do you think I should continue chronologically or should I just serve up the stories as they come to me - from different years?

For your daughter you should continue...do a copy -paste onto a word document after you have shared the words with us then she will have a record...believe me the time will come when she will want to know.

My Father had WWII stories and it was hard for him to share, what we learned from him is freedom is precious, he allowed no prejudice in his home, i would find him staring into space...sad....he would say only 'it was all wrong, child, it was just wrong'

My brother and i tried so often, but the Paris he saw was in ruins, the people broken....he wasn't a man to cry...but it was always there when he spoke of Europe (Poland is in Europe to our family)

Your stories reflect a healing, that you were even allowed to do what you did...go to school... attests to that.
Embrace the memories and tell us who want to hear.....children grow older, she will want to know someday.....tell your stories as you recall them, order can be acheived later.

My wonderful man of a Father has left us, my heart still aches, he took his stories and tears with him....i so wish he had shared, it may have lifted his burden.
cassandra   
12 Sep 2012
History / Polish Officer in NATO, Col. Ryszard Kukliński. [145]

I think you'll find that much of what was done was entirely legal - Communists were very big on legitimacy.

ok so ....you got that point...and yes legal can be different to different cultures/governments...none of which are above shinanegins...we all know this.

Humanity, moral responsibility to your fellow man is the law i refer to.

Cowards, opportunists and other assorted selfish bastards are never in short supply. Heroes and truly committed patriots are few and far between.

true here too,
yet those who are weaker will 'go-along' to survive and we can't fault them...life is precious, even to a peasant like me ;)
Though i'm sure that most of you have noticed i'm a rather headstrong ole gal.... ;) Just reinforces my ancestry...most Polish women i've known here are...quick to correct and rarely compliment ;)
cassandra   
12 Sep 2012
History / Polish Officer in NATO, Col. Ryszard Kukliński. [145]

How is it that they rarely if ever mention the estimated 160,000 Christians murdered each year world-wide for their faith?!

again true, there are many who are lost simply because of their faith...9/11 was about national identity though and more than Americans died there.
Bush may have been pro-Poland...but he still opted to send over 4thousand of our children to their deathbed. War is NOT A GAME
When we will all grow up and see that War does not solve these issues.
My apologies to the worlds youth that your elders have no regard for your future, i should think that those of us who have seen War would strive to NOT REPEAT IT!!!
cassandra   
12 Sep 2012
History / An American studying medicine in the PRL 1978-1985: my story [142]

btw what do you mean when you said you sensed "a healing"
This interests me your choice of that word :)

JaJa for years was denied a visa to return to his homeland then after the 1980's he was allowed to return and visit his homeland...Busha did not live to experience a return.

It 'settled' him emotionally to see Poland rebuilt and becoming strong again, there was joy in his eyes when he visited the Catherdrals of his youth, a sparkle i'd never seen before....

Therefore the term 'healing'....any time we are allowed to traverse the globe as free citizens, unencumbered by the Politics of the Nations...anytime we are able to share our worlds and cultures peacefully equals a healing of old wounds of mistrust and blame.
cassandra   
12 Sep 2012
Genealogy / The typical Polish look, or all Eastern Europeans [656]

darling, when was the last time you were in Poland? Poles, particularly those that are poor that can only afford crap food and those that are wealthy that eat too much food- fat fat fat..

It has been years....many years past....
yes bad food and sodas and alcohal do not help with weight....
;) i prefer to applaud the DNA along with proper eating habits (which i learned at the knees of those ancesters). ;)

audiovis.nac.gov.pl/obraz/108419
lot's of nice old photos
cassandra   
12 Sep 2012
History / Polish Officer in NATO, Col. Ryszard Kukliński. [145]

he's ashamed of all the grace, favours and protection he received from his father.

Or perhaps angry and felt segregated from the real lives of his fellow citizens?
Or maybe a psychological response...like resentment of his Father for the childhood where he was constantly watched?
Or perhaps he had an early romantic interest that was not allowed?
Many times there are cloistered motives for our adult actions, the more virulent the reaction, the more emotionally attached to the issue, usually.
Do you think his Father would have protected him if these thoughts were expressed at home? Probably not...so maybe he grew up feeling unsafe...that even his own Father would harm him?

Just asking folks, i've learned there are often hidden reasons for actions , sometimes unclear...sometimes very clear.
cassandra   
13 Sep 2012
History / Polish Officer in NATO, Col. Ryszard Kukliński. [145]

As opposed to Adam Michnik, whose brother's father was murdered by the communists

Finally had time to look into that and understand ;) Sorry don't like showing my foolishness ;)
Zionism has often been compared to communism...the interdependant society, problem is someone always wants to live better than the rest.
Still...interesting what your told in family...but then i've lived in the South for a long while...loud political discussions aren't as common here as amoungst my own, occassionally (like now) it makes me feel deprived.
cassandra   
13 Sep 2012
News / Amber Gold and other Poland's suspicious institutions [139]

Plichta faces maximum 15 years.

Geez! is that all?
Well maybe that idea of the global village will be even stronger after 15 years and he will have only a hut in the Congo to hide in someday.
cassandra   
15 Sep 2012
History / Polish Officer in NATO, Col. Ryszard Kukliński. [145]

If Poland so badly wants to be the Christ of Nations, then she must behave like Christ. And she did.

Nicely said

a spy is the exact antithesis of heroism.

not necessarily, it's a matter of perpsective...and when innocent lives (general population) are at risk.......
i find it hard to place blame for spying...especailly when it saved lives.
cassandra   
16 Sep 2012
News / Exorcist monthly goes on sale in Poland [17]

Scientology is the one true faith! All others are hoaxes.

Thats what Islam thinks of itself....

I can't stand Tom Cruise, nope Scientology is not for me (LOL).

Nor i !!!!,no 'religion' is 100% right, especially when you consider they have all been founded on the graves of non-believers!

At the risk of being lynched by Polonius, but is there any difference with this

there ya go.!!!!..there is no diffierence -it is all superstition, medievil thinking.
Faith, true faith demeans no one, it recognizes the ligitemacy of free thought and acceptance.
Once you cross the line to censoring those who don't believe like you; figureatively or literally your belief system shows it's to be just another form of mind control.
cassandra   
16 Sep 2012
News / Exorcist monthly goes on sale in Poland [17]

That much they haven't. No religion has yet proved itself

'We will know for sure, when we are dead ' what Busha used to say..."in the meantime behave in a manner Chirst would be proud of"

This has always worked for me.
cassandra   
18 Sep 2012
Life / Polish vs British vs American - Clash of cultures [390]

it's threads like this one, exactly, that make me too embarrassed to share this forum with normal people around me.

;) ;) !!!! You'd be surprised what normal is...a Noncaucasian i know asked if Poland was remiss on their education in certain areas, because of that low birth rate ;) and i said yeh maybe it's mostly a Catholic country.... but this guy was Catholic too and he missed the joke.
cassandra   
18 Sep 2012
Life / Polish vs British vs American - Clash of cultures [390]

Unless you are posting from an asylum... :):):):)

f stop ;) no matter where you are in the world there's Always some Abnormals around ;)
I'm in US...you should share a Tequilla picture for us ;) Though i like Rum. ;)
And right now with the presidential race it FEELS like an asylum!!!
One more question to all, anyone into Anthropology? Earliest known human remains all found in Africa In Southern Nile areas....so what 'shade' were Adam and Eve...and Lilith for that matter? Just guessing it's not 'snow white' like my brother ( blonde and green eyed) Yet me! not so - came out dark as a gypsy from the same set of light parents! And we have the DNA tests to prove we are 100% siblings!

Catholics come in all makes and models too, just like the rest of the world; some OK - some swine.
cassandra   
22 Sep 2012
History / Polish Officer in NATO, Col. Ryszard Kukliński. [145]

Wałęsa

He successfully negotiated the withdrawal of Soviet troops from Polish soil and won a substantial reduction in Poland's foreign debts.
This i know, it is not to the detail of political skirmishing you are aware of; however this is the good, can you agree?
cassandra   
24 Sep 2012
History / Polish Officer in NATO, Col. Ryszard Kukliński. [145]

BTW, have you watched 'Nocna zmiana'

It was a little hard for me to follow because my Polish is sparse....however body language and facial expressions..general attitude would indicate that there is a high degree of 'personality' to Wałęsa, must agree there.

Yes i will do more research, again this is why i joined the forum...to learn, a teacher must always be willing to learn ;)
You'll be happy to know Polish History is not what i teach ;) it is just my personal desire to learn more about the veiwpoints of Poles within Poland.
cassandra   
24 Sep 2012
News / Amber Gold and other Poland's suspicious institutions [139]

'However, law forbids to annul the donation', thats a little goofy!
Madoff had several 'donations' returned primarily because they were given under false 'profits' and were included in what became available to return to the investors, most of whom just received a small percentage of what they lost.

Voluntarily perhaps..i'll dig into it..but i don't believe we have such a law, indeed i would presume the opposite in cases of fraud...