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Posts by Lenka  

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Lenka   
23 Apr 2016
News / Does democratic Poland guarantee it's LGBT citizens respect for human and civil rights? [1169]

The problem is Jhonny not all Christian think alike. It's a group of individuals with different views and even different values.. I know quite many Christians would be repulsed by some comments on here made in the name of Christianity. I know Catholics who think there should be abortion on demand (even if they themselfs wouldn't do it), that homosexual couples should have equal right to heterosexual ones, that women should be priests e.t.c.

So even if majority of ppl in Poland is Christian it doesn't necessarily mean they support this or that.
Lenka   
3 Apr 2016
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2971]

I'm talking about certain privileges that are granted to you by the society ( law) by the token of your gender.

No privileges make up for loosing control over one's body. And if you didn't notice for a long time we are more or less trying to make both genders equal.

I'm threating you as my equal in this debate if you cannot take it and you would rather be treated like a woman - you only need to ask me once.

I am a women and yet your equal. It's not a privilege you give me and can take away.
And yes,to me as a women the vision of the new law is scary. I'm young enough that I have still many years in which I may get pregnant. And guess what? I'm not happy with the possibility that I may have to give birth to my rapist child or to a kid that will only live few hours or months in terrible pain.

For you I may seem melodramatic but for you it's more or less just theoretical question. For me it can become very real issue every month.
Lenka   
3 Apr 2016
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2971]

after all it is nature that affect women more than men in this and a society balance it with a certain privileges being granted to women.

Sorry but I have no idea what you are on about here.

Sure, and she cares so much about poor women that it kinda hits you in the face. (sarcasm)

Certainly more than the Church in this situation. After all she for sure wouldn't have any problems with paying for a visit in a nice clinic somewhere outside of Poland.

Are you planning to sleep around without protection?

I'm not planning on being raped but it would be nice to know that if I got pregnant in a result of rape I would have the possibility of abortion.

And since current law doesn't allow abortion in a case of 'sleeping around' I can only assume that it's your failed and disgusting attempt at being clever and funny.

Which in the way was against the law of the country.

It's not since they are not abortion pills.Their task is to slow down ovulation so there will be no conception. No conception=no abortion.
Lenka   
3 Apr 2016
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2971]

The current law allows 3 situations in which abortion is legal:
-the pregnancy is the result of illegal act (usually rape)
-the fetus is very sick
-the woman health and life is in danger.
I don't think anyone can call it too lenient.
Before PiS came to power the morning after pill was available without prescription but now you have to go to a doctor again. The abortion under the new law could be terminated only if the mather's life is in danger however I wouldn't be surprised if they tried to block that as well. And the women should be prosecuted and charged for up to 5 years in prison
Lenka   
3 Apr 2016
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2971]

I'd save everything I could to get an abortion in another country.

That's what Nowacka said- that this ban will hit poor women the most since wealthier women will just go abroad. If you don't have a penny you'll be f*****.

I'm not panicking just yet but the vision of the future is getting scary.
For PiS supporters it may be worth remembering that they tried it last time and Maria Kaczynska herself organised a meeting in support of the current law.
Lenka   
3 Apr 2016
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2971]

Don't try to change it into men versus women contests because it is not.

I don't as I have no reason to do so. However it's hard to deny that that law will affect women not men ergo women are more interested in it. Plenty of Buzz on social media as well. We'll see if the initiative will gather enough signatures...
Lenka   
3 Apr 2016
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2971]

Well, that will be interesting to see. Women already get ****** off. I didn' see a single positive comment about the new proposal on the most popular portals. Even gossip site like Pudelek reports this proposal and most comments I saw there and elsewhere is that priests went mad and should sort out their sh** and not get involved with this.

Some right-wing politicians are not too happy as well. Gowin (if I remember correctly) said that even though he's against abortion this new proposal will change Poland into unchristian country.
Lenka   
14 Mar 2016
News / Poland's post-election political scene [4080]

agnostic non-gentile intellectuals

I'm just curious which one of the above characteristics is such a bad thing that you list it along with snitches? Is it being agnostic, non-gentle or an intellectual?
Lenka   
27 Feb 2016
Off-Topic / Russian or French? Learning another language besides Polish [12]

I will say this:
I was learning both French and Russian. After some time I still love Russian but I hate French. It may be due to my maturity since I was a teenager when I started learning French but I never even thought about trying to learn that language again.

To me my emotional reaction to a language is very important and I could never learn one that I don't like. Just try and see which one gives you more pleasure.
Lenka   
25 Feb 2016
UK, Ireland / Why English do not like Polish? [417]

You may even be considered Martian in USA for all I care. The fact is you are not. And believe me that Brit Bullies as you call them don't care that your great grandmother or some other long dead soul was Polish. But anyway it doesn't matter as you only make yourself look stupid.

I, as a real Polish person, never encountered any hatred on big scale towards Poles.
Lenka   
25 Feb 2016
UK, Ireland / Why English do not like Polish? [417]

Please don't speak on the behalf of Poles. You are not one, you never even visited this country not to mention living here. Take your war with them to random.

I didn't notice any special animosity from British ppl. If anything some poorer and less educated ppl hold a grudge since they have to compete with Poles for work. Not unusual and can be seen in all countries. The only thing that is annoying is that some ppl when talking about immigration seem to only remember Poles.

As often as I met with frowns and hostile approach I also met with sympathy.
Lenka   
25 Feb 2016
News / Poland's post-election political scene [4080]

Sorry Pol but at least Delph comes up with new informations whereas your only response is that it's all KOD and unpatriotic Poles. Sometimes I agree that Delph blows things out of proportion but you really went over the board saying it's ok that the guy doesn't have any experience. Either don't comment or say that you don't believe he hasn't got any expirience or at least admit that IF it's true it was the wrong thing to do. Opposition ( Delph here) criticises the government as a rule (you did the same when PO was in power) but to agree that that situation is ok is just crazy. Especially since you associate your favourite political party with honesty and rule of law.
Lenka   
24 Feb 2016
News / Poland's post-election political scene [4080]

You Polonius would gladly say that black is white and white is black if it only concerned PiS. I usually ignore your posts after reading few first words almost always including KOD and PiS (what's up with you and repeating the same phrases and 'jokes' over and over again anyway?).

Giving young ppl a chance is a good thing but appointing someone without a clue in very high position is stupid and dangerous. I wonder if anyone would like to be treated by someone who never had anything to do with medicine.

Only in your agenda ridden mind can it be ok Polonius.

No wonder that poll is showing such results since no one beside PiS supporters watches it. Nothing major just really funny.
Lenka   
18 Feb 2016
Life / Polish culture versus rotten West [279]

I saw quite many parents (even have one sad example in my family) that don't really talk to their kids. And I don't mean everyday chatter but proper conversations that shows what both parents and kids views are on certain things, about their dreams and their failures.

Also how often now parents and the kids sit together and talk about news, books e.t.c. ? How many parents really listen to the music their kids listen to and ask the kids what they like in it?

My sister in law had quite a few hip hop songs on her playlist after kids got interested in it. She wanted to know what her kids like and it turned out that few of them are actually nice and have merit.
Lenka   
18 Feb 2016
News / Poland to return to Catholic tradition? [177]

I will do it when Catolics nad others will stop bugger info other ppl lives nad imposing their belief onto society, deal?
Especially in Poland the amount of times even the law is broken just because it concerns religion (e.g. signing kids out of religion classes instead of signing them in, the hours of religion classes)
Lenka   
17 Feb 2016
Life / Polish culture versus rotten West [279]

The problem today is not the culture but the parents. The lack of conversation. Even if a kid saw a bit of porn (of course not shown by an adult because that's perversion) if the parents knew about it and talked with the kid and explained it's not how it is in real life than I doubt it would make that much harm. Probably similar to if he saw his parents having sex.

You are like the parents that want to change the ending of Red Riding Hood because it's too cruel. The thing is you cannot protect ppl and kids from different harms and especially from themself so the only thing you can do is try to give them the sense what is right and what is wrong. It's obvious you don't spend too much time with young ppl otherwise you would know that they are not much different then the kids in the past. The culture maybe changing but the aspirations, dreams and dramas are basically the same.
Lenka   
17 Feb 2016
Life / Polish culture versus rotten West [279]

Seriously Polonius, if I didn't know any better I would think you are a bitter old maid hating youth.
I know that the average age on here is pretty high but it seems like some ppl don't even remember how it is to be young.

I listened to hip hop and I'm not violent at all, never took drugs or anything of that kind.
And suggesting you know what impact something will have is ******** because art (the same as everything else) is filtered through unique minds of the audience and no one knows what will happen with it then.
Lenka   
14 Feb 2016
Love / Valentines Day & Polish men [130]

Don't be silly Polonius. As much as I think Valentine's Day is a bit silly I make no mistake when it comes to how popular that day becomes in Poland. Young Poles do know what Valentine's Day is and definitely celebrate it. Just try to get a place in a nice restaurant and you'll see.

All days like that are invented and 'alien' even your Easter is imported
Lenka   
14 Feb 2016
Love / Valentines Day & Polish men [130]

And that's the saddest thing InPolska. How can you not see that that one flower may be dearer than even 100 zl bouquet. And it's not about the money. Believe me that giving one flower has nothing to do with how much it costs. If that is ridiculous for a westerner like you then I'm even happier than before that I was born in Poland and not let's say...France
Lenka   
14 Feb 2016
Love / Valentines Day & Polish men [130]

Those who never noticed and appreciated the beauty of a single unflawed rose are very poor indeed. Maybe not in money terms but in all that matters...
Lenka   
25 Jun 2014
Life / Are Polish people the most patriotic people of the world? [8]

Simple- you can say whatever you want about your family but when someone else (outsider) tries to do the same you defend your family. Works the same with the country. And guests don't complain about the hosts house, do they?
Lenka   
13 Jun 2014
Law / Can somebody explain ZUS to me? [40]

Really? Weird since (as explained to me recently by PIP worker, the worker will be sewing shirts for some time)
umowa zlecenie- the worker is to make certain things the best he can and usually not (example given to me- sewing shirts)
umowa o dzieło- the worker is paid for a precise thing he does "dzieło" (example- 10 shirts, he is paid for the shirts, not the time he spends on it e.t.c)

But well, I'm not a lawyer.
Lenka   
12 Jun 2014
Law / A general legal question about inheritance in Poland - debts [31]

Well, that depends if:
one- they were the guarantee
two- the property is the bank's "safety deposit"
three- did your in laws, if they are part of it, have insurence
If they didn't sign anything it's doubtful they will be any part of it. The worse case scenario is the property will be taken over by the bank and that's not too likely. However all depends on the circumstances. And the
Lenka   
12 Jun 2014
Law / Can somebody explain ZUS to me? [40]

ZUS is a big payment and I understand that it can be a strain on the employers and one man companies but there is one thing- if you don't want to pay ZUS, cool, but don't moan after that you don't have a pension. It's like with our stars that never paid ZUS and now complain they have 500 zl of pension.
Lenka   
10 Jun 2014
News / Poland one step closer to visa waiver by US Senate [59]

Doubtless

Ok, let's put it like this:
I don't want to live in the USA but I do have a distant relatives there and suddenly I want to visit them. So here I go saying: I'm 28 yo, not working without a husband and kids...So what do you think- how quicly they will give me visa?

The system would definitely show high risk. But what? It's only assumption, I want to come back I just want to visit the country. Do you think there are not ppl like that?
Lenka   
10 Jun 2014
News / Poland one step closer to visa waiver by US Senate [59]

I admit that many ppl that do get rejected would overstay but I can bet that as many are rejected even though they never wanted to stay in the USA.

Ok, so maybe a compilation? Not one of you find it weird that the actual number of overstayed visas is not included in any way? That basically it doeasn't matter?
Lenka   
10 Jun 2014
News / Poland one step closer to visa waiver by US Senate [59]

They know who doesn't leave the country on time and they know what those people put in their visa applications

If the system is so great why there are still ppl that get into USA AND overstay it?
As I said, let them do whatever they want but to me the actual number of overstayed visas would be much better indicator.

indulge the inferiority complexes of people from countries excluded from the waiver programme.

Why such cheap argument? As I said- I don't care if Poland is in the programme. If by the number of overstayed visa they decided Poland can't join I couldn't care less.

There is currently a petition going around related to Poland and the visa waiver program

The USA has the right to decide how they want to deal with it so no, I won't sign it. Even if I think it's stupid.