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Lodz_The_Boat   
2 Nov 2008
Love / Different relationship... can it work with Pakistani girl and Polish guy? [129]

That is the root of things. Yes mixed cultural relationships are possible. But they quite often result in the loss or strain of one family or maybe both.

But WHY? Why does this condition must be faced when the Man is European? Because the girl is just lacking self confidence and has not yet acheived a place of substance in the family. That is the only reason I can see.

I have friends living in poland...girls...polish girls...married with Indians!...bangladesh people!... and living happily with family together with them!... when they meet me or we get in contact....all seems to be going as per plan!... but hey!... when its a Polish BOY... or a EUROPEAN man...and the girl is asian... the tide turns!... the planet gets split... and everyone open their books to explain the rules.
Lodz_The_Boat   
2 Nov 2008
Love / Different relationship... can it work with Pakistani girl and Polish guy? [129]

Somehow Asian man/Polish woman seems ok to Asians, but I wonder how many are there partnerships of Asian women/Polish men

100% agreement.

It is not odd in the eyes of the Europeans... trust me! But it gets into the eyes of some Asians... specially the elderly who still feel that women shouldnt be given enough freedom to choose right from their heart!

In our places... just look into the universities... Polish girls are with indian and bangladsh, and egyptian men! (however few they maybe...they all seem to get one girl)... while I am telling you, its far more difficult for an Asian girl to come ahead for a Polish man...even if she really wants.

It is hard coz i dont know what to do

That is the problem. You are not serious perhaps... perhaps you just are not confident on yourself! I dont know what to say!... perhaps you better deal with your problem yourself!... but if you end up hurting the Polish boy.... I really think you never deserved him. It hurts when you turn away...and WHATEVER be the reason.
Lodz_The_Boat   
2 Nov 2008
Love / Different relationship... can it work with Pakistani girl and Polish guy? [129]

for a girl of my culture

Cultures gone to vultures these days!... just be a good person with decent values. But dont leave your Polish man helpless and 'no-mans land' when he was gone through all for you!... be with him... I hope you will be able to do that!... Talk with your parents about it... be firm in your decision!...
Lodz_The_Boat   
1 Nov 2008
News / Simon Mol is dead:No regrets [74]

Any man should be willing to sacrifice his all for his wife.

A MAN... being a MAN needs the spirit of a Man.
Lodz_The_Boat   
1 Nov 2008
News / Simon Mol is dead:No regrets [74]

Muslims into suicide bombers

They are confused...

good time

My good time comes from my belief and accordance of my heart soul and mind. I dont do something that I know is not good, and will bring be upsetting. If I thought that wrong use of the sexual impulse, or consumption of drugs, would give me joy and satisfaction....I would be doing it.

The person who 'Just doesnt do' but regrets, or blames himself...or is selfish about others who do that particular thing.... is worse than that person who does that particular act.

For sexual impulses and love...You Can Have a Good Wedded wife!... Love HER, Respect HER!... have children... be responsible for your family!!!...

Drugs and unhygene?...Alcoholic drings and tobbacco?.... well... there are fruits and necters...and milk and water... etc etc...good things you can consume. But its my way of life...

But I do share with people...specially children...and my friends who practice conscience do share that too... so that people can think about it themselves...specially children.
Lodz_The_Boat   
31 Oct 2008
News / Simon Mol is dead:No regrets [74]

By not being immoral and promiscous in the first place.

There are good men of all colors... why go to gangsters and mafias?

People have good charecters too... uff!... I guess just some things dont get into some people...
Lodz_The_Boat   
30 Oct 2008
News / Simon Mol is dead:No regrets [74]

1 year in prison enough?

He got what he deserved already...

The peopled infected.... could stay uninfected if they wanted... I wonder what kind of upbringing they got anyways...

with soap and water

Hygene is not only done with soap and water... there are hygenes in behaviour and practices.... hygene in actions.

Mixing with the wrong people is also unhygene.
Lodz_The_Boat   
29 Oct 2008
News / Simon Mol is dead:No regrets [74]

People suffering in the hands of calamities....

Plus... if there was this consequence....not only Mol was responsible.... holding him only responsible is also a kind of injustice.

God's great plan can be peace and love and unity and harmony....not HIV and hatred and division.
Lodz_The_Boat   
29 Oct 2008
Life / Reasons for moving to Poland [291]

shelly

If in Warsaw... I think it will be easier to get a job.... but as a Pole... I welcome you to Poland with a smile :) ...
Lodz_The_Boat   
29 Oct 2008
News / Simon Mol is dead:No regrets [74]

elaborate

Thats you wish... but elaboration..open hearted discussion....is part of these places. We shouldnt just me mechanical...atleast thats what seems to be the right way.
Lodz_The_Boat   
29 Oct 2008
News / Simon Mol is dead:No regrets [74]

it somehow contradicts...

Contradicts what?

I am not judgemental of someones morality.... but I do judge the act and the consequences. I do hold believed and rules over Morality... and without believe, without passion, compassion or code of conduct in life, where is a person's personality?

This thread is more about a person X and a Set of Y1. Y2.....Yk ... to me (where X=Simon, Yk=victims of simon). The act and the consequences is what I am talking about.
Lodz_The_Boat   
29 Oct 2008
News / Simon Mol is dead:No regrets [74]

judging people

I am not judging people... but this is a forum. And this thread is about speaking out... so I am speaking out.

Injustice is something that was unliked by Jesus too... and speaking out against injustice is what I am doing. Why call those victims poor and helpless?...ofcourse they are not!... they bought their lusty pleasure in exchange of a possible peaceful life!... So it makes them deserving. Its hard and cold sounding maybe... but unfortunately its just like that. Pity... I hope they could've lived out of this...or just didnt do that thing!... but well.... it was their decision.

Here its simon mol... someday might see another!... some Polish man, some UK man, some USA man!!!... anyone!

and God points fingers too? i

First of all I am not God...

Secondly... I say my word... my mind... and that is one of the sole aim of forums and blogs...

By pointing funger... i also broadly meant... keeping in the SAME FRAME.... not that I am judging them. However if you think that, you can.

The matter is of important in many ways... this matter needs youths to raise up and think... As a part of the Polish Young Generation... me including all here have right to think about it and speak out if needed.
Lodz_The_Boat   
29 Oct 2008
News / Simon Mol is dead:No regrets [74]

HIV does not discriminate between good people and bad people.

If you would read my first post... you would know that I do realise that this is a virus.... and it also attacks to the good person who somehow gets it through a disloyal husband/wife or a contaminted blood transplant etc... for them I pray for the cure...

But then, we are talking here about this Simon Mol and his victims. This is the topic here... and the main causes of HIV is infedility, drugs, and all soughts of really unhygene and immoral activities. This desease is different from the common cold and cough.

I do no discriminate the HIV patient... but then when it comes to pointing fingers.... I would put all of Simon's victims along with him...and his victim's promiscuous victims right at that stage too.... and THEN point fingers at all of them together!

any particular god?

The one with the capital 'G'

The Yahweh, The Holy Ghost....The Allah!!!... The Baghwaan.... The Kind Father, The Source of all Love, and the friend of the lonely traveller!...The Creater of Light... The Sun of Knowledge...and the Moon of Guidance... The evidence of Morality...and life.
Lodz_The_Boat   
29 Oct 2008
News / Simon Mol is dead:No regrets [74]

Morality is more than monetary...

Love for God...
Truthfulness...
Faithfulness...
Honesty...
Caring for the parents....
Care and love for the wife/husband....
Mutual respect in a relationship...
Love for humanity....
Love for children...
Good deeds...
Being a reason for unity...
Being a reason for understanding...

etc... are behaviours which give a better shape to this world... Any other means to degrade these values bring calamity to society and individuals... many kinds of calamities.
Lodz_The_Boat   
29 Oct 2008
News / Simon Mol is dead:No regrets [74]

Im not feeling the love in the room after that comment - very ignorant and unpleasant.

Neither ignorant nor unpleasant. Its just facts...and I dont try to put facts so that I become some GURU in here... I put on the forum what my heart mind and soul says all together... and I believe in what I said.

Your ignorance is laughable. You sound like a third world medicine man. Maybe if the victims had slept with a virgin and showered afterwards that would have cured them.

Your ignorance is a pity Kilkline... to me its a pity. This is why this diesease is rampant! This illness is more in the mind than in the body.

You people ask how things can be won by the mind and heart?.... well... the way is the path of goodness, morality and kindness.

I dont say against love... but this act is of lust and immorality.... this act is the 'UNFORTUNATE' thing... the HIV is just a result... a result/reaction is nothing fortunate or unfortunate...its just the inevitable...

If I sound heartless or ignorant.... I think you should ask yourselves again... and I am not here to impress anybody....if they get shocked by truth, or try to find some other way (which doesnt exist) ... then its their problem...

death is too good for him!

Same for those women... all the apples of the same basket.

I know that this man was irresponsible.... this man did a crime... but why those women would sleep with such kind of a man?...so many woman!.... whats going on with them?... ofcourse!

Just I dont believe in being biased.
Lodz_The_Boat   
29 Oct 2008
Work / Information about jobs for Indian students in Poland [286]

how to apply to universities and the visa process?

Go to their websites... they all have the foreign student office.

You can call them too...and they, I heard, are very helpful. There are english courses in many universities...but if you learn polish, you can learn free in some universities.

I wish you good luck.
Lodz_The_Boat   
28 Oct 2008
News / Simon Mol is dead:No regrets [74]

I say both Mr. Simon and his so called 'naive' victims got what they deserved. You go ahead sleeping around without any morality or respect what so ever!... and expect to receive the delights of this and the after life... its ridiculous!

And those guyz who got bitten by this 'naive' victims!... Well they should've been more hygene then that!

HIV spreads through most immoral, unhygene and abusive means... includes all kinds of pathetic things.

Ofcourse... there are accidents aswell... and my heart goes out for those people! And the cure should also be invented solely for the sake of those innocent people.

These polish or non-polish people who got infected...are all the sons of the same immoral eliment.

Mean?.... but then... the fact.

Morality was a cover up for property protection:).

Whatever it was... it was and is and will always be there. Actually I think all else was a coverup for morality. The intellect of ancient man was not as rich as todays man. Tommorow is always better than today!... more illumined...more wise... as we understand the more important thing....we leave the cover ups behind...and move forward with the real thing...MORALITY.
Lodz_The_Boat   
21 Oct 2008
Off-Topic / What's your connection with Poland? Penpals. [512]

Polish, born in Lodz, Poland. Living in Poland...

Well... i seem to be a part of the very switch board...then just being connected!
Lodz_The_Boat   
12 Oct 2008
Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]

pejorative

but still its english. And english is the world language nowadays. Its usage in English with english tone...

You are the english teacher :)
Lodz_The_Boat   
12 Oct 2008
Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]

Some say most Polish girls are gold-diggers interested mainly in the their boyfriend's bank account

Not required.

However, look at it this way:

Many Polish girls migrate to UK, France or other more afluent European countries... mainly for a better/higher standard of living, more money, more luxuries. For doing this, they often have to sacrifice much back home... or atleast they keep those luxuries or demands at a greater priority than many emotional fators back home.

After all this, they will like to be with someone who will be afluent enough to keep their journey towards a higher life in contineouation. Does this compute? So, a woman who is working towards higher standards, will choose means to acheive it... even through her love life. "Every step should lead towards the goal"...

These conditions are not rare for a big part of the Polish female.

However, there are those whose emotions take the higher priority. But most of them are in Poland.... walking beside the person with opposite priorities... How will you ever know? :)

Good luck.
Lodz_The_Boat   
29 Sep 2008
Love / Virtual Relationship of an Asian girl with a Polish man [43]

well,,i want to ask ur opinion about my relationship..

I was in a relationship with an Asian girl. It didnt work...I even travelled to her country for her...

She had to marry an Asian... a business partner of her father. The situation was beyond everything. I had to return home... letting her live.

See... things can either work or not... no matter what you do. Depends on your comitment and preferences.

The emotional trauma I went through is something too individual to be able to express and understand.

She was Korean-Japanese however... daughter of one of your giants...

Long story... but here I am :) ... back working in my homeland... :) ... a new life.
Lodz_The_Boat   
26 Sep 2008
Off-Topic / PF - The Omnibus Edition [1502]

PF remind me of the presently ongoing US president election, where the most important thing lately seem to have so little to do with the polices but more with ‘designer” eyeglasses or the number of pregnant children.

Exactly. I posted two polls...both got removed. How brutal can it get?... How brutal could it be!!!
Lodz_The_Boat   
26 Sep 2008
Feedback / The image of Poland according to PolishForums [90]

Based on your statement

I am just a brave man... :) ... not everyone got the guts to speak up.

What am I suggesting is a thread where people could discuss about Polish Forums itself. I think you sir, should reconsider this ...