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What happens when you marry into a Polish family... [19]
I grew up next door to a Polish family, actually in the apt.building diagonal to ours, and what I remember after all these years is the rock solid solidarity which Poles show for other Polish family members!
Poles are similar to the Southern Italians in this way, I think. Even if a Polish family has some mega-successful, wealthy relatives, if certain others are merely common average Joes, EVERYBODY, at least in my observation, gets treated at the same dining room table as equals, not as second-rate interlopers as can often occur among W.A.S.P families.
Emotions though can run high. Frequently, the tendency of many Poles (men and women) to wear their heart on their sleaves, cry openly, and emote uncontrollably, will be tough to take if someone is not familiar with it and more used to an Anglo-Saxon Protestant culture of restraint and repression.