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Posts by Lenka  

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Lenka   
3 Jul 2024
News / Rape and sexual abuse in Poland [198]

If we want them to gain momentum in Poland as well, all we have to do is introduce similar laws.

I think we have enough of those already.
And if you think females seeing cases of rape not being prosecuted because the victim wasn't fighting ( when it seems everyone knows by know it's quite common reaction) doesn't add up to the men- female relationship problem? Females being scared of staying 1-1 with a man in case it may be interpreted as consent for sex despite repeated 'no'?
Lenka   
3 Jul 2024
News / Rape and sexual abuse in Poland [198]

The law should be fair and the likelihood of abusing it decreased to minimum

No law in Poland takes account of the accused being accused falsely outside of the general penal system. You want to make an exception for rape. That has nothing to do with fairness.
How would you differentiate between false accusations and not having enough proof to prove the rape?
BTW, I do support punishment for false accusations (all of them). The thing is if you repoert what is a crime in your eyes but the police doesn't find enough proof that doesn't qualify straight away as false accusation)
And before you go on how often people have intercourse vs how often they are beaten up let me point out logical fallacy here:
Not every intercourse is criminal. Every theft etc. Is.
If you want to compare apples to apples compare how often people are raped vs how often they are beaten etc.
new legislation is that it takes the word of the accuser over the word of the accused without much evidence.

No it doesn't. It only changes the definition of rape. The prosecution still has to make a case
Lenka   
3 Jul 2024
News / Rape and sexual abuse in Poland [198]

It seems to be a problem for you - why?

That not, but the problem is between false accusations and the fact there was simply not enough evidence to prove rape.

And judging by the real life situations it's more common for the rape victims to be accused of laying then of guys being falsely accused of rape.
Lenka   
3 Jul 2024
News / Rape and sexual abuse in Poland [198]

So, is not obtaining agreement

A rape? Yes.

there's serious concern for the new law being regularly abused.

And there is no concern that the law in previous form allows rapists to go free?
Lenka   
3 Jul 2024
News / Rape and sexual abuse in Poland [198]

The same goes for people falsely reporting theft, bodily harm, murder etc.
Why should rape be different?

This new law doesn't change a thing to how reporting rape looks like. There will still have to be investigation that finds proof beyond her words. So why the panic?

sentences of 3 months where the man faces 2-15 years. :(

The significance of the crime is of completely different magnitude.
I would definitely support the new law if

And I wouldn't if we didn't have cases making such change a necessity
Lenka   
3 Jul 2024
News / Rape and sexual abuse in Poland [198]

Does a woman falsely accusing a man of rape

Can get 8 years.

And it's not like this law removes the necessity for proof. It only changes that a women doesn't have to roof she physically defended herself.

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Lenka   
3 Jul 2024
News / Rape and sexual abuse in Poland [198]

should include countermeasures for false accusations

It does as all the false accusations do.
Plus reporting it is non revokable. So once a women reports it - that's it. If she lied she can be prosecuted.

A woman who reports rape 30 years later

Wouldn't be able to do that idiot (besides if she was underaged)
Lenka   
3 Jul 2024
News / Rape and sexual abuse in Poland [198]

that will somehow make it better

Considering we know about cases when the lack of physical resistance was used to stop the prosecution I would say that yes, this law has a good chance of making things at least a little bit better.

men will be prosecuted by bad, sinister women

False claims of rape happen already. Why this should make any difference?
Lenka   
3 Jul 2024
News / Rape and sexual abuse in Poland [198]

Protecting stupid women who act recklessly and put themselves in danger is hard work.

And how do they do that? I don't see any protection at all.

Freedom and equality come with responsibility and accountability.

Great, and in the spirit of responsibility and accountability we want rapist do their time. Including those that thin that just 'no' is not enough. Or that unconscious women is a good sex doll.
Such a law already exists

And it needed a bit of tweaking to reflect what is rape.
Lenka   
3 Jul 2024
News / Rape and sexual abuse in Poland [198]

if you think about women's well-being to teach women to act accordingly rather that shift all the work on men?

Not raping women is work?
men who would keep you safe because believe it or not most men are instinctively protective towards women?

Protect us by telling us we can't do things because man may to have to actually not being criminals?

Let's put it this way - while it's wise to keep your possessions secure even if they are not people taking them commit crime.

Do you want to regulate behavior so women could act irresponsibly and get drunk and unconscious in the middle of the street?

I want to regulate law so that crime is crime and the criminal faced the consequences.

Sounds like she has some daddy issues to me.

Sounds like you are a waste of space. Not only and as* but a stupid ass at that.
Lenka   
3 Jul 2024
News / Rape and sexual abuse in Poland [198]

Someone talking about rape in a thread about rape- who would have thought.

Educate women about responsibility and accountability.

It seems it's men who should learn that lesson first. If they are unable to do that the law may have to make them. Unless of course having sex with an unwilling person is badge of honour in your eyes.
Lenka   
1 Jul 2024
News / Rape and sexual abuse in Poland [198]

I wonder where people get that **** from?
Most women find no joy in accusing men of rape. Similarly most men do not want to rape women.

The fact that we simply have to realise that a victim can freeze and not even dream about a physical defence is a well known thing. Yet it's been used as a defence for rapists.
Lenka   
1 Jul 2024
News / Ups and downs of the democratic government 2023-2027 in Poland [359]

Are you a retarded?

Are you? Because you seem capable only of going on some weird blur of attempts to offend people you disagree with. You used about 100 words and not a single argument.

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How will proof that it was consensual?

It's not a civil case. The guilt has to be proven. The evidence responsibility lies on the prosecution.
Lenka   
1 Jul 2024
News / Ups and downs of the democratic government 2023-2027 in Poland [359]

Not anymore

No, all it does is remove the need.for physical signs of struggle and includes not being able to consent.

Non consensual sex usually leaves signs on the genitals that can be examined.
Not having sex with someone who is basically unconscious is a non brainer too imo.

They had about 11%

12%

Anal much?
Lenka   
28 Jun 2024
Off-Topic / Terms of Ukrainian Surrender [67]

We will fix what is within our domain of control, for everything else

The thing is most places want to escape your fixing.
Lenka   
28 Jun 2024
Off-Topic / Terms of Ukrainian Surrender [67]

respect is enough".

I don't think you are getting that either anytime soon
Lenka   
28 Jun 2024
Off-Topic / Terms of Ukrainian Surrender [67]

Unlike you, we'll be there to clean up the mess, however.

Maybe. Still unwanted probably though
Lenka   
27 Jun 2024
Life / Will Poland ever be multicultural like Sweden, Germany or France? [201]

We all know there is a sunsegment of Polish women who go to Africa on holiday to procure this outcome.

1 - don't know any such thing
2 - even if we assume that is correct I'm pretty sure there would be more people who simply were in relationship that resulted in offspring
3 - this was clearly not the case here but you jumped to conclusions just to be nasty
Lenka   
27 Jun 2024
Life / Will Poland ever be multicultural like Sweden, Germany or France? [201]

Her bio should be well-known by now.

You could have checker yourself since you have such strong feelings/ opinions about it.

Theinfo I have- mom Polish, dad British, moved to Poland when she was a baby. Attended all the levels of education in Poland.