A J
21 Oct 2010
A J
21 Oct 2010
Language / Polish slang phrases - most popular. [606]
Chcę spać z tobą tej nocy. Or you can say: Chcę kochać się z tobą. (I don't think it's a pyjama party?)
;)
Chcę spać z tobą tej nocy. Or you can say: Chcę kochać się z tobą. (I don't think it's a pyjama party?)
;)
A J
21 Oct 2010
A J
21 Oct 2010
Language / Polish slang phrases - most popular. [606]
Yeah, I get that all the time. I'm sorry, but I have a headache.
xD
..and I prefer women.
Yeah, I get that all the time. I'm sorry, but I have a headache.
xD
..and I prefer women.
A J
21 Oct 2010
A J
20 Oct 2010
Polonia / Is it possible to meet a Polish female in Dubai? I'm looking for fun. [45]
If there were any, then they probably wouldn't ask all these dumbass questions here.
xD
I'm glad You're defending women, but are there any UK-like street corners in Dubai?
If there were any, then they probably wouldn't ask all these dumbass questions here.
xD
A J
21 Sep 2010
USA, Canada / Poles and Americans, what do you think, are we friends or enemies? [187]
Whatever you build on destruction will collapse on its damaged foundations. What goes up, must come down, and gravity does the rest. ;)
Whatever you build on destruction will collapse on its damaged foundations. What goes up, must come down, and gravity does the rest. ;)
A J
16 Sep 2010
Love / Sexual appetites of Polki (in the 21st century) [31]
I take it they don't have any Cavemen in Canada?
xD
Śpij dobrze!
oh, yah, forgot about it:)
I take it they don't have any Cavemen in Canada?
xD
Śpij dobrze!
A J
16 Sep 2010
Love / Sexual appetites of Polki (in the 21st century) [31]
Sweet! xD
Hey, I need a place to stay? (Cavemen live in holes you know. ;))
Okay... here u go!!! Don't overindulge.
Sweet! xD
not very picky, are we;)?
Hey, I need a place to stay? (Cavemen live in holes you know. ;))
A J
16 Sep 2010
Love / Sexual appetites of Polki (in the 21st century) [31]
But then again, any hole would be better than no hole at all!
:O
Captain Caveman!
But then again, any hole would be better than no hole at all!
:O
Captain Caveman!
A J
2 Sep 2010
Language / Nice Polish phrases to say to men [76]
How much drugs did you take?
;P
Yes.
Now!
Don't stop.
You're so big.
Harder.
I want more.
You're good.
:)
Anyway, these are all nice things you can say to a guy without turning him into a woman.
;P
you don't say nice words to a man because it makes him a woman...
How much drugs did you take?
;P
I don't mean to that effect, but to delight, do a kindness. :)
Yes.
Now!
Don't stop.
You're so big.
Harder.
I want more.
You're good.
:)
Anyway, these are all nice things you can say to a guy without turning him into a woman.
;P
A J
2 Sep 2010
Language / Polish slang phrases - most popular. [606]
Haha! Me neither! But it's all *they've* taught me.
;P
Haha! Me neither! But it's all *they've* taught me.
;P
A J
2 Sep 2010
Language / Polish slang phrases - most popular. [606]
Green peas? Rainbow warrior?
xD
I only know how to say skarbie, fajna dupa, dobra dupa and jesteś bardzo ładna/fajna/seksówna, but most Polish girls know English these days, so I think my problem's solved!
;)
Some call young handsome men groszki (green peas) but I'm not sure isn't it only my mates' slang word.
Green peas? Rainbow warrior?
xD
There was a time when men called women foczki (seals)...
I only know how to say skarbie, fajna dupa, dobra dupa and jesteś bardzo ładna/fajna/seksówna, but most Polish girls know English these days, so I think my problem's solved!
;)
A J
29 Aug 2010
Language / Polish slang phrases - most popular. [606]
What do you call attractive girls then? Ciacha?
;)
We call atractive men: "ciacho".
What do you call attractive girls then? Ciacha?
;)
A J
25 Aug 2010
Love / Are all beautiful Polish girls as crazy as this? [262]
Will she show her boobs if I send you a PM? (To wind you up, of course!)
xD
My wife was sitting next to me when I wrote it so I was just winding her up.
Will she show her boobs if I send you a PM? (To wind you up, of course!)
xD
A J
23 Aug 2010
Language / WISŁA or VISTULA?? [46]
Vanaf Vorige Vrijdag Versierden Veertig Vrolijke, Virtuoos Vingervlugge Vlijtige Virtuoze Violisten Vijftig Vreemde, Virtuoos Vingervlugge, Verlegen Violistes.
:)
Vingervlugge Virtuoze Violisten Versieren Virtuoos Veertig Virtuoos Vingervlugge, Verlegen Violistes :)
Vanaf Vorige Vrijdag Versierden Veertig Vrolijke, Virtuoos Vingervlugge Vlijtige Virtuoze Violisten Vijftig Vreemde, Virtuoos Vingervlugge, Verlegen Violistes.
:)
A J
19 Aug 2010
History / Polish history is 100% glorious [297]
Hey now, that's a little harsh..
:S
you would **** anything wouldn't you !?
Hey now, that's a little harsh..
:S
A J
13 Aug 2010
Love / WILDROVERS FIVE YEARS IN POLAND....come to an end...! [132]
Well, you wouldn't want to be in Moscow right now with all that smoke. I've heard people are hanging wet blankets infront of their windows. Is it really that bad or is this another attempt at sensation-journalism?
:S
I am not actually in Moscow yet, i am still on my farm in Poland , it now looks like i am going to move to an apartment in Krasnogorsk , near Moscow centre in march next year , then we hope to move into the new house by the side of Lake Plescheevo in May...
Well, you wouldn't want to be in Moscow right now with all that smoke. I've heard people are hanging wet blankets infront of their windows. Is it really that bad or is this another attempt at sensation-journalism?
:S
A J
8 Aug 2010
Love / Are all beautiful Polish girls as crazy as this? [262]
Hey, a mature reply! You're welcome.
Okay. I'm not trying to be the expert here, just gathering the information at hand and trying to make some sense out of it.
I can understand that. I hope you'll look after yourself aswell and make sure it doesn't drain you or anything.
That's admirable really, I've known enough people who gave up at the first signs of problems. Perhaps? Do you know anything about her past? Maybe you should try to talk with her about that for a while, and not take silence or a no for an answer, because she's definitely giving you a strong signal with the things she does, wether she realizes this or not. But if nothing changes and nothing can be discussed with her, I would walk out on her for sure if I were you. (But I'm not so good luck with whatever you decide.) You seem like a good guy, so don't let her drag you down. You could try to lift her up instead, but you shouldn't let it continue like this. That's for sure.
I don't know too much about you, and even less about her, and I'm not exactly Dr. Phill, but I've tried to give you some possible explanations for her behaviour. Maybe some of the girls here can tell you more, because you seem to be serious.
:)
Good luck.
That was a long, considered and thoughtful answer - cheers.
Hey, a mature reply! You're welcome.
In fact, the relationship is pretty emotional/passionate, and I do stand up to her (I've had to learn).
Okay. I'm not trying to be the expert here, just gathering the information at hand and trying to make some sense out of it.
I just find the whole thing tiring (and, frankly, conflict is getting boring).
I can understand that. I hope you'll look after yourself aswell and make sure it doesn't drain you or anything.
I think I keep the relationship going simply because I've never given up believing that there is a really nice peron in there somewhere, perhaps buried by issues from her past.
That's admirable really, I've known enough people who gave up at the first signs of problems. Perhaps? Do you know anything about her past? Maybe you should try to talk with her about that for a while, and not take silence or a no for an answer, because she's definitely giving you a strong signal with the things she does, wether she realizes this or not. But if nothing changes and nothing can be discussed with her, I would walk out on her for sure if I were you. (But I'm not so good luck with whatever you decide.) You seem like a good guy, so don't let her drag you down. You could try to lift her up instead, but you shouldn't let it continue like this. That's for sure.
Anyway, appreciate your input.
I don't know too much about you, and even less about her, and I'm not exactly Dr. Phill, but I've tried to give you some possible explanations for her behaviour. Maybe some of the girls here can tell you more, because you seem to be serious.
:)
Good luck.
A J
8 Aug 2010
Love / Are all beautiful Polish girls as crazy as this? [262]
Well, some girls can't be described in a 10 second comment, that's for sure. (I get carried away sometimes, but you know that!)
xD
Well, some girls can't be described in a 10 second comment, that's for sure. (I get carried away sometimes, but you know that!)
xD
A J
8 Aug 2010
Love / Are all beautiful Polish girls as crazy as this? [262]
Maybe she simply wants to hear something? Make sure you're listening to what she really wants, and listen between the lines if you can. No offense intended, but it could even be that she actually wants you to speak your mind and stand up to her, and behave like more of a man. Or maybe she feels like you're ignoring her feelings, which doesn't necessarily mean you're ignoring her physically, but since you've said something along the lines of;
I think she could be onto something if that's the case. She's more than just a good-looking girl. The fact that you seem to get the impression that she treats your friends better than she's treating you, in combination with the fact she has hit you, could mean she doesn't really respect you that much right now, which is why I suggested that maybe she actually wants you to take the lead more often.
Also, some girls might look for attention through conflict, and some girls need way more reassurance than others. It could also mean that she feels there's a lack of emotion or passion. She could even do this to make you say and do all kinds of sweet things for her as you're trying to make up. In any case, you can bet your bottom she needs something from you that you aren't giving her.
I don't get these guys who complain about their girlfriends and partners here. You should tell her, instead of keeping secrets. I mean, what is a relationship worth if you can't even speak your mind? She might leave you. She might not. She might come back after she realized you were right. But atleast you've been real with her, which is better than telling her that you never really liked her after all those years.
I know I wouldn't want any secrets between me and my girl, and I would want to get to know the real her from the very start. So if the real her has been edited, censored and surpressed because she thinks she has to appear decent and normal, then I don't think she'll ever be a match for me. I'm not a twelve year old anymore, and I can pretty much handle everything you could possibly throw at me, thank you very much. So if you can't find your balls, she will find them for you eventually, I can tell you that much. Hope this was helpful or useful to you and other readers.
I agree. I'm not sure if this will make sense to you or anyone else, but it's about an open, honest, emotional response for me. When I don't get any emotional response, I will simply push the limits verbally, until I'm satisfied. (So maybe some girls do the same?) I'm convinced it's pretty normal to show and express your feelings to your partner, no matter how weird, stupid, kinky, dirty, wrong, soft, crazy, naive, funny, hilarious, angry, selfish, evil, lovely, dumb or silly you think your thoughts are. It's pretty disappointing when none of that is there.
So yes, I do understand girls who look for conflicts when there's a lack of attention, interest, excitement, emotion or even passion.
I've noticed from your post that you seem to be very focused on beauty and appearance. It's up to you to find out what it is that she's really missing from you though, but I have a hunch she feels emotionally ignored. She obviously needs some kind of response from you that she isn't getting. The rest of your post describes pretty typical behaviour, so I won't bother you with any of that, because you should know that by now. If you really like her, you should grab your balls and give it all you got. Talk to her. She may get mad, but don't apologize for being honest. Ever. She will know that's a clear message, even when it's not what she wanted to hear. She might actually come back to her senses and respect you for it later.
;)
Maybe she simply wants to hear something? Make sure you're listening to what she really wants, and listen between the lines if you can. No offense intended, but it could even be that she actually wants you to speak your mind and stand up to her, and behave like more of a man. Or maybe she feels like you're ignoring her feelings, which doesn't necessarily mean you're ignoring her physically, but since you've said something along the lines of;
Is this the price one pays for having a good-looking Polish girl?
I think she could be onto something if that's the case. She's more than just a good-looking girl. The fact that you seem to get the impression that she treats your friends better than she's treating you, in combination with the fact she has hit you, could mean she doesn't really respect you that much right now, which is why I suggested that maybe she actually wants you to take the lead more often.
Also, some girls might look for attention through conflict, and some girls need way more reassurance than others. It could also mean that she feels there's a lack of emotion or passion. She could even do this to make you say and do all kinds of sweet things for her as you're trying to make up. In any case, you can bet your bottom she needs something from you that you aren't giving her.
I don't get these guys who complain about their girlfriends and partners here. You should tell her, instead of keeping secrets. I mean, what is a relationship worth if you can't even speak your mind? She might leave you. She might not. She might come back after she realized you were right. But atleast you've been real with her, which is better than telling her that you never really liked her after all those years.
I know I wouldn't want any secrets between me and my girl, and I would want to get to know the real her from the very start. So if the real her has been edited, censored and surpressed because she thinks she has to appear decent and normal, then I don't think she'll ever be a match for me. I'm not a twelve year old anymore, and I can pretty much handle everything you could possibly throw at me, thank you very much. So if you can't find your balls, she will find them for you eventually, I can tell you that much. Hope this was helpful or useful to you and other readers.
Being more emotional than most does not make one crazy. Softhearted just thinks that because he has a very different personality than she and therefore can't understand why she reacts the way she does. My ex bf and I were the same way, I am very emotional/reactive and he is very stoic and calm. We tortured each other because of our different personalities.
I agree. I'm not sure if this will make sense to you or anyone else, but it's about an open, honest, emotional response for me. When I don't get any emotional response, I will simply push the limits verbally, until I'm satisfied. (So maybe some girls do the same?) I'm convinced it's pretty normal to show and express your feelings to your partner, no matter how weird, stupid, kinky, dirty, wrong, soft, crazy, naive, funny, hilarious, angry, selfish, evil, lovely, dumb or silly you think your thoughts are. It's pretty disappointing when none of that is there.
So yes, I do understand girls who look for conflicts when there's a lack of attention, interest, excitement, emotion or even passion.
I really like her, and I think the most beautiful Polish girls are amazing to look at, but the whole thing is driving me crazy. Help!
I've noticed from your post that you seem to be very focused on beauty and appearance. It's up to you to find out what it is that she's really missing from you though, but I have a hunch she feels emotionally ignored. She obviously needs some kind of response from you that she isn't getting. The rest of your post describes pretty typical behaviour, so I won't bother you with any of that, because you should know that by now. If you really like her, you should grab your balls and give it all you got. Talk to her. She may get mad, but don't apologize for being honest. Ever. She will know that's a clear message, even when it's not what she wanted to hear. She might actually come back to her senses and respect you for it later.
;)
A J
4 Aug 2010
History / Polish history is 100% glorious [297]
That's why you need crazy people who speak their minds, even when everyone else hates to hear it, even when they're wrong sometimes. A perfect world, devoid of criticism and questioning would be boring, and scary.
;)
It doesn't seem that unusual. In some instances, I think Americans do this very thing, we make some of what we did sound like it was a good thing when it might have been for selfish reasons and shameless profiteering.
That's why you need crazy people who speak their minds, even when everyone else hates to hear it, even when they're wrong sometimes. A perfect world, devoid of criticism and questioning would be boring, and scary.
;)
A J
3 Aug 2010
History / Polish history is 100% glorious [297]
Yes, just like Dutch history. The rest of the world sucks. Sorry, we can't help it either.
xD
Polish history is 100% glorious
Yes, just like Dutch history. The rest of the world sucks. Sorry, we can't help it either.
xD
A J
3 Aug 2010
Love / Polish women are the most beautiful in the world! [1718]
Lucky you!
My number one spot is still vacant.
;)
Not really, no :(
Lucky you!
Music will never occupy any other spot in my life than no 1 :)
My number one spot is still vacant.
;)
A J
2 Aug 2010
Life / Cannabis / Weed in Poland... How much does marijuana cost per gram and how easy is to get it? [355]
People won't have easy access at all, and the dose will be much smaller, the product will be a clean product, and not some home-cooked crack with traces of ammoniac and other chemicals in it.
You couldn't be more wrong. (Or do you want to deny that some dealers push drugs on the schoolyards?)
Yes, drugs are drugs when you're talking about legalization in general, but of course I wasn't trying to sell the idea that every drug is the same. Your point?
I see far less Junkies on the streets today than I used to see in 1995.
I've had a lot of contact with drugs, but I've never used any kind of hard-drug or mushroom. I've smoked a couple of joints in my early teens and that's that.
Because it's obviously not that addictive, and not that expensive either, because people can grow it on this continent and don't have to smuggle it over great distances. Consider this; If Canabis is legalized, then less people will use hard-drugs.
And ofcourse most people die because of alcohol abuse and traffic accidents because of alcohol. Should someone tell me to stop drinking one or two beers, just because someone else has been completely irresponsible? (Because this whole story comes down to personal responsibility.) Well, everyone should stop eating hamburgers aswell then if we're going to follow that logic, because there are obviously too many people who suffer from obesity, and these people cost their insurance companies millions of dollars because of health problems. I've got another great idea, let's all go back to kindergarten!
;P
Maybe its better than a great amount of ppl who can get addicted/ill because of easy access of drugs?
People won't have easy access at all, and the dose will be much smaller, the product will be a clean product, and not some home-cooked crack with traces of ammoniac and other chemicals in it.
Illegalness is still some king of obstacle in massive over-usage.
You couldn't be more wrong. (Or do you want to deny that some dealers push drugs on the schoolyards?)
No; drugs are not drugs.
Yes, drugs are drugs when you're talking about legalization in general, but of course I wasn't trying to sell the idea that every drug is the same. Your point?
Wait for a time when some paranoic addicted mug you on the street because of his voices in the head...
I see far less Junkies on the streets today than I used to see in 1995.
I had some contact with drugs so I think I know what I'm talking about.
I've had a lot of contact with drugs, but I've never used any kind of hard-drug or mushroom. I've smoked a couple of joints in my early teens and that's that.
(no one steal to get money for marihuana or sell one's body)
Because it's obviously not that addictive, and not that expensive either, because people can grow it on this continent and don't have to smuggle it over great distances. Consider this; If Canabis is legalized, then less people will use hard-drugs.
And ofcourse most people die because of alcohol abuse and traffic accidents because of alcohol. Should someone tell me to stop drinking one or two beers, just because someone else has been completely irresponsible? (Because this whole story comes down to personal responsibility.) Well, everyone should stop eating hamburgers aswell then if we're going to follow that logic, because there are obviously too many people who suffer from obesity, and these people cost their insurance companies millions of dollars because of health problems. I've got another great idea, let's all go back to kindergarten!
;P
A J
1 Aug 2010
Life / Cannabis / Weed in Poland... How much does marijuana cost per gram and how easy is to get it? [355]
How about sex? It's addictive, and you can get all kinds of nasty diseases.
;P
How about sex? It's addictive, and you can get all kinds of nasty diseases.
;P
A J
1 Aug 2010
Life / Cannabis / Weed in Poland... How much does marijuana cost per gram and how easy is to get it? [355]
Yes. Drugs are drugs. My whole point is that telling everyone drugs are illegal won't make the drugs disappear. Just look at what happened in America when they declared alcoholic beverages illegal. The Mafia took over and people got killed. And for what? Drinking a beer?
;)
We all have now legalized drugs - legal highs or herbal highs (in Poland called dopalacze)... and now whenever I'm passing nearest dopalacze shop I see lots of ppl nervously waiting for opening the shop... Lots of my friends has tried dopalcze because are legal and seems to be innocent play. Have you taken into consideration that fact?
Yes. Drugs are drugs. My whole point is that telling everyone drugs are illegal won't make the drugs disappear. Just look at what happened in America when they declared alcoholic beverages illegal. The Mafia took over and people got killed. And for what? Drinking a beer?
;)
A J
1 Aug 2010
Life / Cannabis / Weed in Poland... How much does marijuana cost per gram and how easy is to get it? [355]
Yeah, and Santa is real.
;)
Right wing parties can get elected by saying it a lethal drug.
Yeah, and Santa is real.
;)
A J
1 Aug 2010
Life / Cannabis / Weed in Poland... How much does marijuana cost per gram and how easy is to get it? [355]
Nice twist of words there, but I was talking about hard-drugs aswell, and about the quality of the current illegal drugs as opposed to the quality of a natural and pure, uncut and preferably checked product. (I never said it was good for you!) I'm sure you've heard of Chronic or Hydro before? Well, that's what they call weed and sell to people on the streets sometimes. (Full of chemicals.) I'm simply pointing out that legal and controlled drugs will be less of a risk to the health of the people who choose to use these, but if you want to compare Crack to pure Cocaine then be my guest.
;)
Are you saying that possible lung damage, slowing of motor skills, the impact on pregnant women would lead to far less health related problems?
Nice twist of words there, but I was talking about hard-drugs aswell, and about the quality of the current illegal drugs as opposed to the quality of a natural and pure, uncut and preferably checked product. (I never said it was good for you!) I'm sure you've heard of Chronic or Hydro before? Well, that's what they call weed and sell to people on the streets sometimes. (Full of chemicals.) I'm simply pointing out that legal and controlled drugs will be less of a risk to the health of the people who choose to use these, but if you want to compare Crack to pure Cocaine then be my guest.
;)
A J
1 Aug 2010
Life / Cannabis / Weed in Poland... How much does marijuana cost per gram and how easy is to get it? [355]
Well, in Holland, about 3,3 % smokes Canabis, about 0,3% sniffs Cocaine and about 0.4% swallows Ecstasy pills frequently. Only a few individuals still use Heroine, which is basically seen as a drug for losers among the younger generation. The usage of the party-drug GHB however, is said to increase. I don't have any actual or hard figures on GHB, but I suspect it's about as popular as Ecstacy. If I have to believe these reports, I think about 4,5% to 4,6% of our total population uses drugs frequently. All in all, the use of drugs has decreased among the whole population.
:)
If drugs are legalized will drug usage increase or decrease?
Well, in Holland, about 3,3 % smokes Canabis, about 0,3% sniffs Cocaine and about 0.4% swallows Ecstasy pills frequently. Only a few individuals still use Heroine, which is basically seen as a drug for losers among the younger generation. The usage of the party-drug GHB however, is said to increase. I don't have any actual or hard figures on GHB, but I suspect it's about as popular as Ecstacy. If I have to believe these reports, I think about 4,5% to 4,6% of our total population uses drugs frequently. All in all, the use of drugs has decreased among the whole population.
:)