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Posts by JustysiaS  

Joined: 14 Oct 2007 / Female ♀
Last Post: 9 Jan 2014
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JustysiaS   
22 Mar 2009
Travel / Why does everyone seem to hate LOT Polish Airlines? [380]

i agree, LOT is rediculously expensive, never had the pleasure to fly with them and most likely never will if they decide to keep the prices so high. BA are the best out there, and i flew with wizzair a fair amount of times, no complaints and cheap too, but the flight times are crap. other airlines i used probably only once so no point comparing them as i might've just been lucky or unlucky.
JustysiaS   
22 Mar 2009
Life / How would you describe the Polish sense of humour? [66]

as per usual it depends on the person. i find that parody, slapstick comedy and laughing at politics, current news, and ourselves as well are quite popular in PL. British humour is dry and ironic, often sarcastic, you also love the play on words, the pun, it's all over the papers but sadly not very funny :/ lol. i reckon it's more often that the Poles don't get British jokes, not the other way round. Brits find PL jokes not very funny, but then Polish jokes lose a lot in translation, even if it's literally the same joke in the 2 languages. to me Polish jokes written by Polish people are the funniest.
JustysiaS   
15 Mar 2009
Life / Why are Poles always so miserable? Why do they never smile? [512]

I smile when I'm eating soup and I'm usually grinning like a wanking Chinaman in a lesson.

that's just creepy and a bit over the top if you ask me. i smile at shop assistants or people that let me walk through the doors first, but if some weirdo started smiling at me when i was eating or walking down the street i'd just give him a cold stare. i think this British smilyness is all a bit fake and unnecessary.

i'm smiling in my avatar. sorry i'm not grinning like a wanking chinaman
JustysiaS   
15 Mar 2009
Life / Why are Poles always so miserable? Why do they never smile? [512]

I dig where you're coming from but try smilng to show you enjoy it now and again

i don't smile at strangers, unless i fancy them

I do not think there is one male (possibly female) on here that would think the way you eat soup, doesn't put the way i described MrBubbles eating soup to shame.

thank you. no monkey circus, just me and my soup.
JustysiaS   
15 Mar 2009
Life / Why are Poles always so miserable? Why do they never smile? [512]

I like to add some cheese to mine.

oh i do too... i get very possesive when it comes to my tomato soup. don't you dare looking at it! i just love it. i don't care how boring i look when i eat my soup. it's just me and my tomato soup, nothing else matters.
JustysiaS   
1 Mar 2009
Life / Do you think that Polish people are rude? [951]

I just acknowledge them and say 'a'right?'. Scots often do this.

yeah my bf always says that instead of 'hi' :). it's not the quantity of greetings but the genuine concern that makes people like you and think you are friendly.
JustysiaS   
1 Mar 2009
Life / Do you think that Polish people are rude? [951]

it's not Polish people being rude - it's the Brits who are too polite lol. i agree with what mikey4777 said on the previous page, if people who don't really know you ask you about things such as how was your weekend or if you're alright it is not because they genuinely want to know or they care. i don't know what it is, it's like a habit to ask those things over here, they ask 'how are you?' with the same sorta enthusiasm they feel when they're sitting in front of a plate of cold soup and are about to eat it... i got used to it and it doesn't really bother me so much but i often skip asking the person how they are in return and they kind of get the message i'm not into small talk. they probably think i'm rude but oh well lol. if someone is being genuinely nice, helpful and smiley i always smile back cos it's just nice being nice, isn't it?! LOL

as for giving tips, i never had a problem with that if i feel the service was fair or more than good. we always leave a tip when we go out for a meal, but not for a taxi driver cos they always rip you off anyway ha ha...

Polish airport staff? a bunch of miserable sods. although they were quite nice to me last time, in general they are rude and cold, especially towards coloured people. Polish customer service has a lot to work on in general, i'm not saying they should ask everyone how they are and always have a fake smile glued to their face, but it would be good if they were actually a bit more helpful and interested in the customer. it's almost as if they are doing you a favour by looking up at you and simply doing their job, like they were having a bad day everyday and decided they will treat everyone like dirt and not care if they're happy with their service. i know a girl who works in a shop selling ladies shoes in Poland and if she's in a bad mood she won't be helpful, in fact she will just sit there and sulk and not sell anything all day. silly cow.

it's probably the language barrier that often gets mistaken with rudeness. plus i don't believe Polish people are used to strangers caring about their wellbeing (unless it's a doctor or sth), so maybe that is where the coldness and creating a distance comes from. Polish people are generally warm and friendly once you get to know them, just not very good at first impressions ;).
JustysiaS   
28 Feb 2009
Love / They seem nice, but could Polish girls be "gold diggers"? [196]

me i dont think so,
Ive never had any problem getting girlfriends.

you obviously have bad taste in women. you sponsored a Polish girl for months, she used you and you haven't even noticed what she was really doing. and now you claim all Polish women are gold diggers. you could've picked any woman and chances are she'd turn out that way as well. you think you can buy love? it's hard to believe you have achieved something in your life if you're so naive and absolutely useless when it comes to reading people and recognising their true intentions. did she ever pay for anything for you? she'd probably go mental if you asked her to buy something with her own money. if you don't like what people are saying and that they are taking the mickey out of you for being a sucker then you shouldn't've asked. so successful, rich and handsome. yet still, you're a loser and a fool for a pretty face. it's good you can at least afford being ripped off! :D
JustysiaS   
26 Feb 2009
Love / They seem nice, but could Polish girls be "gold diggers"? [196]

Are all polish girl’s gold diggers?

the Polish girl you met may not have been a gold digger at the time you met her, but looking at the list of expenses you were happy to cover no wonder she turned out that way and took advantage of you. anyone would. i find it crazy, what did she pay for? nothing? and you were ok with that?? and you wonder why she's so ungrateful and greedy... you spoil a woman and you create a monster! i think 'spoil' is an understatement here! her nationality has absolutely nothing to do with it. i'm not saying you were asking for it cos being generous is a good thing but when you sponsor someone like that you should prepare and secure your wealth somehow once they get the legal right to all you have. get a good lawyer (i'm sure you can afford one) and save your ass before you got nothing to cover it up with!!
JustysiaS   
17 Feb 2009
Love / POLISH WOMEN ARE PROMISCUOUS? DISCUSS. [153]

depends whom you sleep with - and if they will tell, or whom you confessed about it to - and if they will tell :D
JustysiaS   
15 Feb 2009
Love / POLISH WOMEN ARE PROMISCUOUS? DISCUSS. [153]

Just because a girl dresses in micro miniskirts and skimpy tops, that doesn't make her a whore

i can agree with that, i used to dress a bit more provocatively when i was younger (and single) but i also tried to keep it decent and cute, people knew what i was like so just because i wore a mini skirt or some skimpy top didn't make them judge me. my sister is the same, she likes to show off her body but seriously, who can blame her, she's a very pretty girl (she takes from her big sis ha ha). a woman just wants to show what she's got every now and again, be it just for her lover or for everyone else, makes you feel good if you get guys stopping on the street to admire the view and other girls giving you evil looks lol. but there is always a line between being a bit provocative and basically screaming for attention and sex, which in a way is pathetic because if one is attractive and a nice person they don't need to expose themselves for people to notice and appreciate them, or be jealous of them. i tend to dress up more rather than dress down, i even tend to overdress sometimes but it's a woman's priviledge lol, we can dress pretty and noone will think we're gay or something ha ha...
JustysiaS   
1 Feb 2009
Love / POLISH WOMEN ARE PROMISCUOUS? DISCUSS. [153]

dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-475669/Sun-sea-sex-bitter-regrets--middle-class-girls-holiday-secrets.html

British girls' holidays

independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/women-who-travel-for-sex-sun-sea-and-gigolos-407202.html

Female sex tourism

that enough? lol

had this problem with guys over here myself, getting angry and impatient with me, saying they are not mucking around anymore etc... i was like off you go then! :D
JustysiaS   
1 Feb 2009
Love / POLISH WOMEN ARE PROMISCUOUS? DISCUSS. [153]

That's the part that bugs me. It's no excuse. It doesn't change the fact that they act like sl*ts abroad.

apparently British women do just the same, read about it in a paper. are British women considered promiscuous?
JustysiaS   
1 Feb 2009
Love / POLISH WOMEN ARE PROMISCUOUS? DISCUSS. [153]

Out of curiousity: how many of this "stupid Polish girls" have you met and where? I assume I must have been in wrong places all the time if I hadn't met any yet.

i met a couple and my friend who lived in London for quite some time met loads of silly PL girls like that.
JustysiaS   
1 Feb 2009
Love / POLISH WOMEN ARE PROMISCUOUS? DISCUSS. [153]

Lodz no i am not shocked about the existence of people who don't approve of sex before marriage, my friend is a Jehovah's witness, so is all her family, they have very strong feelings about this issue and i think they respect it and stick to it much better than catholics do, but that was not my point.

I'm not some ship with no steer, since you like talking about boats so much, i personally am not sleeping around - never have, i can't quite treat sex as a sport or a sudden urge i need to fulfill with just about anyone i meet in one of 'my clubs'. I have my standards ;). Some people are weak, some people can't control themselves or worse - don't want to control themselves and i never said it was good - i said it was their choice and it's not for you to condemn them just because they're different than you are. You would be quite surprised to find out what sorts of people practice this sexual freedom experience - would you reject them and condemn them just because of that? It's people from all walks of life, we all make our mistakes, i'm sure many people had a one night stand and they always regreted it. There are many people who choose to only have one night stands because it's easier for them to get what they want without the hassle of a realtionship. At the end of the day it's understandable, as long as they don't go round spreading STD's and making babies i don't rally have a problem with that, it's none of my business - and none of your business either. If it's safe and consented.

What to you is so unacceptable and immoral, to me is just what i hear about and see everyday. And i never bloody said it was good! I'm not saying i wouldn't be capable of waiting till my wedding night but it doesn't quite work that way these days. Without getting any deeper into my personal stuff i can assure you i have more morals and self respect than many girls my age do. I made my share of mistakes but i learnt from those and i'm well in control of this boat of mine thank you very much! I'm just a realist and i'm known for saying things as they are.
JustysiaS   
1 Feb 2009
Love / POLISH WOMEN ARE PROMISCUOUS? DISCUSS. [153]

Do we live in a traditional world?

sadly - we don't, that's why there's no point in quoting religion or traditional morals because even the roman catholics do this stuff, Polish people do, everyone does. thing's aren't the way they used to be, you don't just fall in love and get married to someone you never slept with. i'm not saying this was a wrong thing, i think it was more romantic and special that way, exploring that path together after getting married. not saying you shouldn't make a guy wait for it though lol. before people just knew they met a person they wanted to spend their life with, without wondering how good in bed they were. now we need to date, chat on the phone etc. before we even consider seing someone more than once or twice, and it doesn't matter if you already slept together, it doesn't mean you have to get involved with someone just because you had sex. it's kinda sad, but it's the way things are. you must forgive me, i watched Enchanted last night ha ha...

if anything you should be proud to say one of your polish brothers didnt jump on the * I want sex for free hand it out to me bandwagon*!!

how do you know this about him? to be honest it really doesn't bother me if he's a virgin or not, it doesn't have anything to do with the discussion. unless he's a bit bitter about other people getting some? lol anyway i understand someone might feel awkward or negative about people sleeping with many partners, but there is no reason for calling them soul-less. and calling me a feminist just cos i try to explain - not defend - this situation, is just wrong...

Do you know saying 'Jak cię widzą tak cię piszą'? It is double standard but girls are judged more harshly than men if they are promiscuous. Fact of life.

yes that is what i said. there's also a saying 'don't judge a book by it's cover' ;)
JustysiaS   
1 Feb 2009
Love / POLISH WOMEN ARE PROMISCUOUS? DISCUSS. [153]

people are entitled to be/do/say what they want, its the person they look at in the mirror who they will have to deal with

some people sleep with a different person every weekend, some had a few sexual partners over a period of, say, two years, it didn't work out so they moved on, big deal. guys who spread gossip about PL girls being easy probably have no clue how many partners they had anyway. even if these girls meet people purely for sex it is their business and the only person who has the right to judge them and correct them is themselves, or maybe their parents - if anyone. so some Polish girls sleep with many foreign guys, don't boter me as long as i don't get a label of being promiscuous and easy just because of my nationality. you have to know all the circuimstances and contexts of those situations before you can form an opinion. many people had sex outside of marriage, with one partner or with many partners, it is a personal choice and comments about people having no soul or morals just becuase of that are really out of place here.

It's not ok to sleep with married man or woman under any circumstances. If they are both free it's another story.

we're talking about single people having sex with other single people, just to make it clear
JustysiaS   
1 Feb 2009
Love / POLISH WOMEN ARE PROMISCUOUS? DISCUSS. [153]

Plus the woman who thinks its feminist to protect these girls saying 'its ok as the men do it too' is being pathetic.

pfft you know what, you're being pathetic as usual with your idealistic visions of what people should be like. i'm not defending anyone, but it's usually guys who take advantage of those loose women who call them promiscuous ok, get it? it's everybody's personal business how many people they choose to sleep with, bragging about it is something else. you don't often see women bragging about the amount of sexual partners they have had - but men are a different case, putting ticks on their bedposts and sharing the details with their equally creepy little mates. not saying all men are like this ok before you call me a feminist again, but it's those men who call women wh*res and slags for sleeping with many men that are just as bad or even worse. but it's ok for them, they're men, they have to spread their seed before they get married right.

as for being racist, it is a fact that many middle-eastern guys will prefer for their bride to be a virgin, whilst they are happy to sleep with prostitutes or 'promiscuous Polish girls', and that is the sort of guys the thread author accuses of spreding such stupid gossip.

oh and one more thing, just to shock the hell out of you. youth is youth, people sleep around, have sex outside of the wedlock, don't wish to get involved untill later on - and it is their business ok. nobody likes being spoken down to and you're very good at it, preaching and screeching about morals. look at yourself and think if you're the one without sin before you cast another stone. just cos somebody likes to have sex with many people from different races doesn't mean they don't have a soul. maybe they don't believe in heaven after death and wanna have as much fun as they can before they're too old for it? think about that and cut the crap, it's boring.
JustysiaS   
1 Feb 2009
Love / POLISH WOMEN ARE PROMISCUOUS? DISCUSS. [153]

I've been hearing this for a few years now from different non-white ethnic groups

those stupid little Polish girls going abroad and sleeping with any guy who isn't white give us a really good reputation - not. no offence to 'non-white ethnic groups' but if this 'typical' Polish girl wants to sleep around a bit then why out of all men does she go after them? surely the 'exotic' new thing about them wears off after one or two go's... or are those 2 go's enough for her to be called promiscuous and easy? or is it because our 'typical' Abdul and Mohammed never had a white girl (or in fact any girl) before and it makes him think Polish girls are promiscuous just cos they had sex with them. i think it's gonna take at least one more generation for men to drop this talk, it's double standards as usual. men always have been worse sluts than women but for a guy having many girls - white or not - is something to be proud of. a woman should be ashamed and called names.
JustysiaS   
19 Jan 2009
Language / Polish Swear Words [1242]

jebać is such a versatile word!
JustysiaS   
19 Jan 2009
Language / Polish Swear Words [1242]

mine sounded better though.

how so?

as far as i'm concerned, zajebać means either to steal something, or to kill [somebody/something]. jebać and zajebać are two different things. if somebody said to you 'ja cię zajebię', you'd better run, fast. you're in for... a beating!

(if it's between friends tho, it's very similar to 'i'll kill you!' in a jokey manner)(when some thug grabs you and says that, it's very bad...)
JustysiaS   
23 Dec 2008
Language / Polish Swear Words [1242]

that would be my guess, yes

since this is the swearing thread, i better not be going off topic: kurva, ale mi się nudzi.