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Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend)


time means 5 | 1,309  
29 Nov 2009 /  #151
And maybe later Lefty smashed her straigtners, as well as her ipod outside the house she was living in?

Damm that Leftys a nasty fcuker.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
29 Nov 2009 /  #152
kuki

how come this doesn't surprise me. lefty has more issues than he cares to share. this kind of intimidating, violent and crazy behaviour really needs treatment boy, and the slap was well deserved. i bet it hurt your male pride so much, having a little woman slap the big man you are. jerk.
southern 75 | 7,096  
29 Nov 2009 /  #153
When they get angry,I usually grab them from the wrists while they scream and shout and then wild sex follows.
Foreigner4 12 | 1,768  
29 Nov 2009 /  #154
One Polish girlfriend i had kicked me for some odd reason (i'm pretty sure i've written this story already) she got sent out the door in her underwear shortly there after. It was winter so i threw her her jacket but she wailed and wailed until I was certain the police would be coming so I did let her back in. She put up quite a resistance before that too but to put it simply she learned her lesson and kept loving me long after we'd broke up and I think a lot of that had to do with me being the only guy she'd had who wouldn't put up with even an ounce of her sh!t. Sadly that attitude is what ended our relationship too. I guess I could have been more flexible but hey, it's always too late for a "could have."

Strange, I was thinking about this today after a silly brewhaha incident. I find it funny when she tries to attack me though because it's so utterly clumsy, I'm not big at all but i find women trying to attack more funny than anything cause they tend to be so uncoordinated in their telegraphed flailing. But what i can't stand, is when she starts yelling at me for the littlest of things, that is a sure fire way to put me in the hot zone. When her voice reaches a certain volume there's a very good chance that I'll say something cruel and mean spirited and then it starts...
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
29 Nov 2009 /  #155
Foreigner4

what is it with you attracting violent women? do you look like a punchbag? ;)
dtaylor5632 18 | 2,007  
29 Nov 2009 /  #156
give him a whip and he'll cum in his pants...
mira - | 115  
29 Nov 2009 /  #157
but i find women trying to attack more funny than anything cause they tend to be so uncoordinated in their telegraphed flailing

because women aren't fighters by nature. However, sometimes their men do need a proper slap. Even if it's an "uncoordinated one". In the situation mentioned above, to me, it's well-grounded.
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
29 Nov 2009 /  #158
And maybe Lefty also smashed two packets of her cigarettes and only then did she slap him.

how come this doesn't surprise me.

Dont you find it strange that she cracked up when her fags were broken lol...Id have gone Mike Tyson on him had he even touched my straighteners! (note my comments are a joke!)

sometimes their men do need a proper slap.

No they dont, if you are in a relationship where there is violence, then its time to say bye bye...not accept the fact that you will use violence now and a again...I find your statement quite disturbing!
mira - | 115  
29 Nov 2009 /  #159
Dont you find it strange that she cracked up when her fags were broken lol...Id have gone Mike Tyson on him had he even touched my straighteners!

maybe fags are more precious for her than straigtners?
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
29 Nov 2009 /  #160
Dont you find it strange that she cracked up when her fags were broken lol...Id have gone Mike Tyson on him had he even touched my straighteners! (note my comments are a joke!)

oh hell yeah, not my £100 GHD's!!! lol
southern 75 | 7,096  
29 Nov 2009 /  #161
If you see a polish woman with a whip avoid showing your ass.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
29 Nov 2009 /  #162
difficult task for someone like you
Foreigner4 12 | 1,768  
29 Nov 2009 /  #163
what is it with you attracting violent women? do you look like a punchbag? ;)

Y'know i think they'd sell like hot cakes if my kisser were plastered on them, men and women would enjoy whaling away at those things. Seriously though, I really think some broads like to see how far they can push their guy and they've turn into little brats when they found that with me it's not very far. This current one is quite clever though, i spend the better part of most days wondering what i'll do to **** her off, in fact i'm sure i'm my typing is doing just that. Silent treatment for me (I win!)

However, sometimes their men do need a proper slap.

fair enough but then by that token you open the door to the same notion towards women. If you can see that then fine but a lot of your sisters probably don't like where that logic goes, heck a lot of "white knights" probably don't either.
mira - | 115  
29 Nov 2009 /  #164
Foreigner4
i meant a situation like the one mentioned above(with a proper slap) under no circumstances should you use violence when being in a relationship. Love and only love!
ZIMMY 6 | 1,602  
1 Dec 2009 /  #165
some broads like to see how far they can push their guy and they've turn into little brats when they found that with me it's not very far.

An (honest) woman once told me a universal truth and that is; "women will try to get away with as much as possible until a (real) man tells them 'no'." We seem to have few real men these days. Our society is going thru a phase where men have been so feminized that it's sickening. Too many men are manginas.
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
1 Dec 2009 /  #166
until a (real) man tells them 'no'.

It should be a balance.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
1 Dec 2009 /  #167
ZIMMY

mangina

zimmy and mangina, the two words that always go together
southern 75 | 7,096  
1 Dec 2009 /  #168
until a (real) man tells them 'no'

Make the ho' say no.
Foreigner4 12 | 1,768  
2 Dec 2009 /  #169
It should be a balance.

When you say "no" it's for a damn good reason so in fact your point of "no" is where your balance would be upset.

This requires you to be honest in the relationship as well.
mira - | 115  
2 Dec 2009 /  #170
"women will try to get away with as much as possible until a (real) man tells them 'no'."

couldn't agree with you more!
ZIMMY 6 | 1,602  
6 Dec 2009 /  #171
I see that there is at least one intelligent, objective thinking woman in these threads.
So many women stick up for women no matter what they do. In that regard women are much more sexist than men. ... and men who stick up for women (no matter what) are also weak enablers (manginas) who have been matrixed by popular culture.

With some modesty I must say that the older I get the better looking I must be which iof course is converse to nature and physics. My jocose point is this; I have more women around me now than ever and I attribute that to my ahem, attitude and disposition (and of course my mesmerizing smile) which women enjoy in a confident man. Indeed, which women 'need'.

Modestly yours, Zimmy
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
9 Dec 2009 /  #172
It should be a balance.

I like your posts szwedwpolce, u remind me of our matyjasz, but hes not here right now
but his posts are similar to yours.

So many women stick up for women no matter what they do.

thats not true, generalizing about that would be like me saying so many men
stick up for men, and I know thats not true, weve seen both , basically go with
the post they feel most comfortable with.

some are going to agree with you, but I see that a good majority disagree with you.

Zimmy ( quote) says:I see that there is at least one intelligent, objective thinking woman in these threads

So zimmy does this mean you wear the title of mangina for agreeing with her?
ZIMMY 6 | 1,602  
9 Dec 2009 /  #173
generalizing about that would be like me saying so many men
stick up for men, and I know thats not true, weve seen both

While that is certainly true, nevertheless, and in general, women stick up for each other more than men do and that is constantly displayed in a variety of ways. For instance, if a woman hits a man, women more often than not will say: "what did he do to her to make her do that". If a man hits a woman, women conversely will state; "he's abusive....etc". That sort of polar duality goes on in many other areas.

......however female selfishness is more universal than that. There are "women only" organizations and clubs, many are okay, but many others have that 'women are special, better, superior' nonsense as a major theme. Some occupations and vocations have more women in them than men yet these too have women-support groups in them.

Have fun with this;
distel.ca/womlist/countries/usa/usa.html

Pick a state or several states and scroll down. It is estimated that there are 25 female organizations to 1 for men. ... and the men by law have to allow women.
OP Lefty 13 | 124  
12 Dec 2009 /  #174
JustysiaS

I think, as usual, you don't know what you are talking about miss.

You are a nasty little character aren't you, just like kuki everyone is to blame but you.

It amuses me.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
12 Dec 2009 /  #175
Who is Kuki?

skip to previous page Sean

You are a nasty little character aren't you, just like kuki everyone is to blame but you.

don't tempt me here, seriously, i will refrain from any further comments for obvious reasons. what exactly should i take any blame for? you have a history of violence mate and that sure doesn't sound like self defence so cut the crap and stop playing the innocent boy, i can see right through it.
OP Lefty 13 | 124  
12 Dec 2009 /  #176
You know nothing about that situation and I certainly don't have a history of being violent. Tell me how you come to this conclusion because I'd love to know. It's a good thing not everybody listens to you isn't it Justyna. Judging people and labelling people without knowing even one quarter of one side of the story. I thought you were smarter girl.

I'm not scared of you. Do your worst I've done nothing wrong. All the so called stuff that was hers she talks about was actually mine and I didn't smash the phone against the wall I took it out of her hand and threw it on the floor when she was whacking me round the face with it. You want to see pictures of this so called slap?

Don't you dare say to me you know half of what happened that day and how she now spins it.
ZIMMY 6 | 1,602  
12 Dec 2009 /  #177
It would seem that even in these threads we have proof of a woman taking the word of another woman; just because...

I took it out of her hand and threw it on the floor when she was whacking me round the face with it.

Be careful, she might claim that your face attacked her fist.

how she now spins it.

Can't be, women never lie; never.
Iwona A - | 2  
12 Dec 2009 /  #178
One thing in life is sure, when something happened that you disagree with, you must react now and then. If you don’t, be sure it will happened again. I will suggest to stop thinking that it is a polish nature to punch or to be punched and analyze relationship you are in. What’s a different if you are man or a woman. We all know how we want to be treated and it is our own responsibility to make sure we are getting just that. Aren’t we choosing our partners? Think about that people.
ZIMMY 6 | 1,602  
12 Dec 2009 /  #179
An honest abusive woman?

menweb.org/battered/detbatm2.htm

The flip side that feminists never, never, never admit.
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
12 Dec 2009 /  #180
The flip side that feminists never, never, never admit.

Yawn! What makes them feminists? You probably dont even know the meaning of that word.

Violence is unacceptable from a man or a woman.

But Zim, have you ever thought for one second why domestic violence against men came about? Do you think that women maybe got sick of being punch bags???? The abused became abusers...sad but true - it has nothing to do with feminism.

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