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Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend)


ZIMMY 6 | 1,602  
20 Aug 2009 /  #121
the way you're writing i'm wondering how did i even survive my dating years, its been over a dozen girls and somehow i managed not to end up a bloodied corpse.

Lucky that you didn't run into this girl;
thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/2592734/Girl-aged-17-knifes-30-men-to-death.html

And your point is?

Don't be so juvenile and resort to women's whims such as "shaming language"; it makes one believe they are communicating with highschool girls.

Now that is assault, two wrongs dont make a right,

Interesting that you did not describe the initial physical violence committed by the woman as assault (that must be wimmin's logic). I suggest that striking back is called, "defending oneself".

you can walk away from some crazy woman,

If every man did that then women would learn that it gives them cultural access to free violence. In short, women would know that they can hit and not be hit back.

women are physically weaker than men

Yes, yet another of the many 'women's defenses'. Try this for logic. If a woman is physically inferior to a man then she should know better then to initiate violence.

are you one of these midgets built like a ballet dancer?

Ah, another attempt at "shaming language" which is so popular with women. You have no idea how it truly belittles you, perhaps because it is so second nature with you (and women in general).

For the record I'm 6'1 and weigh 210 lbs. I also grew up on the south side of Chicago which means I can more than handle myself if I have too (you have no idea).

I'd pay good money to see you try and slap a woman that's gone all Mike Tyson on your ladyboy ass!

I thought you lived in Britain not Never-Never Land.
Sokrates 8 | 3,346  
20 Aug 2009 /  #122
I will say this though; if a wacko woman smacks me hard on my face then I would likely smack her right back. I believe in teaching women real equality.

Which is why you're using internet dating portals, on the other hand women are physically weaker, you want equality start a fight that requires testicular fortitude, beating up someone because you can using a slap as an excuse makes you a sad creature.

In another thread I discussed 'women's shaming tactics' and listed a batch that women use.

There's one thing thats larger than my ego and thats my dick and even to me you seem to be compensating for your small penis syndrome, between your fantasies about women shaking ass at you and you beating them sensless for it when you're not curled in the corner hurt by an evil female you sound pathetic.

Lucky that you didn't run into this girl;

How about you stop bringing mental cases to the table, self defence is an obvious exclusion, what you're saying is that its beat up a woman for a slap.
ZIMMY 6 | 1,602  
20 Aug 2009 /  #123
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you want equality start a fight that requires testicular fortitude, beating up someone because you can using a slap as an excuse makes you a sad creature

That's not what I stated and my position on the matter is clear to those who use logic.

There's one thing thats larger than my ego and thats my dick

So if your ego is one inch and your "dick" is twice the size of your ego then...........

you seem to be compensating for your small penis syndrome, between your fantasies about women shaking ass at you and you beating them sensless for it when you're not curled in the corner hurt by an evil female you sound pathetic.

Um, are you on drugs? (phew)

what you're saying is that its beat up a woman for a slap.

I didn't think you were this stupid. You seem to have a high level of emotion (not logic) in your statements; perhaps your estrogen level is higher than normal for males?

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I would like the moderator to understand that any comments about genitalia referenced by me have been retorts only. As the posts show, the initial comments about 'size' etc, were never started by me. I do admit that I succumbed to the taunts and couldn't help but put the appropriate posters in their place. It was too easy.

Hopefully, this lurid aspect of discourse has reached its end.

Sokrates 8 | 3,346  
20 Aug 2009 /  #124
Aight Zimmy you're getting bizarre now, peace.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
20 Aug 2009 /  #125
just shows the extent of abuse in poor Zimmy's case
RevokeNice 15 | 1,859  
20 Aug 2009 /  #126
In West Dublin there is a guy "missing" at present, rumour has it he beat his wife before and the locals decided to protect their community.

***rumour***
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
20 Aug 2009 /  #127
good for them, if they did protect their community by making this animal dissapear, then i congratulate them :):):)

nothing worse than a man who raises a hand to a woman
ZIMMY 6 | 1,602  
20 Aug 2009 /  #128
you're getting bizarre now, peace.

I accept your white flag.

just shows the extent of abuse in poor Zimmy's case

Thank you for adding so much specific information in your post. It was profound, scholarly and erudite. You have the wisdom of a "wise Latina".

there is a guy "missing" at present, rumour has it he beat his wife before and the locals decided to protect their community.

That's all good and dandy except when instances like this occur.

Girl's lie prompted 4 men to severely assault vulnerable man
By JOY POWELL, Star TribuneLast update: October 15, 2008 - 2:26 PM

"A 16-year-old girl made up a story about a mentally disabled man hitting her, prompting the man to be beaten, burned and lashed to a tree in a remote swath of Dakota County, prosecutors said today.

The girl, Natasha Dahn, of Lakeville, is the girlfriend of one of the four men charged Tuesday in the assault last weekend of 24-year-old Justin Hamilton.

Dahn appeared in Juvenile Court today in Dakota County on a petition accusing her of kidnapping, aggravated robbery, assault, false imprisonment and theft. Prosecutors will seek to have her certified to be tried as an adult.

Meanwhile, the four men appeared in District Court, where three other them now face additional charges of kidnapping. They all remain jailed.............

Along with kidnapping, the other three -- Jonathon Diepold, 22; Glen R. Ries, 33; and John M. Maniglia, 19, all of Northfield -- are charged wtih assault, false imprisonment and theft.

Diepold and Maniglia are members of the Minnesota National Guard. Maniglia was to be deployed in February."
LAGirl 9 | 496  
28 Sep 2009 /  #129
Dude you need to dump that Polack Biotch and find a better woman. do not let any woman hit or punk you around. she will kill you one day. Polish people have tempers be very carefulo.
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535  
28 Sep 2009 /  #130
Why did she find that acceptable?

Its interesting.

Firstly, its not the Polish culture.

Secondly... I havent heard women doing this really...

Thirdly ... maybe you were not a real man to her. Dont go after me now. Maybe you can strengthen up your attitude, you take a hard look into yourself... Why do you have to receive that from a woman?
OP Lefty 13 | 124  
29 Sep 2009 /  #131
Dont go after me now.

I'm not.

Thirdly ... maybe you were not a real man to her

How so?

Secondly... I havent heard women doing this really...

She did.
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535  
29 Sep 2009 /  #132
How so?

Because the way she treated you and received that treatment is a proof.

She did.

Alright boy!
OP Lefty 13 | 124  
29 Sep 2009 /  #133
Alright boy!

Boy?

GFY.
McCoy 27 | 1,269  
29 Sep 2009 /  #134
Boy?

should be 'girl' or 'sissy'
OP Lefty 13 | 124  
29 Sep 2009 /  #135
Whatever you say....
McCoy 27 | 1,269  
29 Sep 2009 /  #136
remember those happy days when you were a real fighter kido.
OP Lefty 13 | 124  
29 Sep 2009 /  #137
I remind you that I am older, smarter and have a bigger penis than you my pedigree chum.
McCoy 27 | 1,269  
29 Sep 2009 /  #138
bigger penis

your is over 30 cm?
OP Lefty 13 | 124  
29 Sep 2009 /  #139
Nope.
LAGirl 9 | 496  
30 Sep 2009 /  #140
Lefty dont let anyone make fun of you here. I know. its illegal to hit a woman so you are doing a smart thing by not hitting her which I admire you for that. dont take any more abuse find someone that will make you happy.
gumishu 11 | 5,993  
30 Sep 2009 /  #141
That was the thinking in the past but unfortunately you are way out of date on how things are now. Thanks to feminism, even restraining a woman who is beating on you can get you in trouble.

yes this is exactly the thing I reckon - men don't hit back not only because they don't want to resort to violence (which many actually don't want) - but also because of fear of getting in trouble (courts in Poland are very feministic - means often not objective) - for most in this situation it would not be difficult to hit back - anyway any such relationship is crap
sadieann 2 | 205  
30 Sep 2009 /  #142
In the State I live, there is a 'Domestic Violence Law.' Male or Female, the abuser goes to jail. Feminism days are over and violence isn't tolerated.
gumishu 11 | 5,993  
30 Sep 2009 /  #143
anyway any such relationship is crap

well, I meant it's flawed :) was willing to write fast and somehow could not find a good word to describe relationship with violence involved (that tells something about my English skills one can observe hehehe - and I am a proud holder of CAE certificate, goodness me ;) heheh)
ZIMMY 6 | 1,602  
2 Oct 2009 /  #144
In the State I live, there is a 'Domestic Violence Law.' Male or Female, the abuser goes to jail. Feminism days are over and violence isn't tolerated.

There are gender neutral laws all over the place; problem is, the enforcement of the laws is not equal. Women get away with stuff that men don't and cannot; and no objective minded person doubts that and indeed, empirical experience teaches us that reality.
OP Lefty 13 | 124  
2 Oct 2009 /  #145
Lefty dont let anyone make fun of you here. I know. its illegal to hit a woman so you are doing a smart thing by not hitting her which I admire you for that. dont take any more abuse find someone that will make you happy.

I don't worry...

McCoy was joking (me and him do this all the time) but Lodz_The_Boat wasn't and some how suggests that I did something wrong and that because she went crazy and attacked me then it's my fault because she didn't think I was man enough (his words not mine) but hey, maybe, she should have been scared stiff of me and she wouldn't have hit me right? yeah sure! this is the way to be in a relationship have the person you are with terrified of you so they wouldn't dare do anything like that!

Then I'd be a REAL MAN right Lodz?

Perhaps I should make some personal attacks on you my eccentric friend with you stupid ass posts about your views on religion, no?

I'm actually bigger than to light a fire and run away and watch it burn so as I said: GFY.

As an update:

We are no longer together and I (and she too apparently) have met somebody else, I'm very happy.
LAGirl 9 | 496  
2 Oct 2009 /  #146
Good lefty she is not worth anything. Poles will stick to Poles will defend their countrymen just remember that. you will findsomebody better soon.there are alot of nice Polish girls and guys.
OP Lefty 13 | 124  
3 Oct 2009 /  #147
Good lefty she is not worth anything.

:)

Poles will stick to Poles will defend their countrymen just remember that.

Funnily enough one of her mates blanked me last night in the pub after I said "Hi" haha it's a really stupid thing to do in my opinion but hey whatever I'm the English devil now! :D haha like I give a crap any ways.

you will findsomebody better soon.

I already did and she is awesome :) she would never do anything like that.
ZIMMY 6 | 1,602  
3 Oct 2009 /  #148
Lodz_The_Boat wasn't and some how suggests that I did something wrong and that because she went crazy and attacked me then it's my fault

While I've enjoyed some of the Boats posts, he and Sokrates (who is excellent when he deals with Polish history, etc) are stuck in old fashioned (chauvinist) thinking about modern women who are not like their grandmothers.
LAGirl 9 | 496  
4 Oct 2009 /  #149
Aww make her your Polish slave.hahah good for you.the best guys I have been with were british.
kuki - | 2  
29 Nov 2009 /  #150
Maybe you all would be right about that Lefty's ex...
But on the other hand: why would she do that? Without a reason? She must be a bit crazy then!
Or maybe Lefty lied to her first, and maybe later they had an argument. And maybe later Lefty smashed her straigtners, as well as her ipod outside the house she was living in, and both:her neigbours and people passing by, could see him doing that. And maybe Lefty also smashed two packets of her cigarettes and only then did she slap him. And maybe when she, crying, wanted to call her sister to come over, he grabbed her phone, threw it at the wall and smashed it into pieces by stepping on it?

How can people be objective hearing only one side of a story?

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