UK, Ireland /
Benefits for separated Polish wife and 2 kids in the UK [90]
Please don't give me a lot of talk about how she shouldn't be coming on the system
That's asking a bit much isn't it? A tall order for the kind of responses you will get.
Just because British citizens can claim welfare benefits, the idea that these people are all a drain on the system is an idea that tends to get blown up out of all proportion. When I was a youngster, my parents claimed child benefit (although this wasn't much), but at the same time I had two working parents for most of my childhood. Having said that, since then I have received NO BENEFITS WHATSOEVER, and I work to pay (rightly in the majority of cases) for others to receive benefits, and hopefully when I retire, they'll give me enough to buy a potato every couple of weeks.
So the children can see their father? How much interest does he have in them if he disappears to another country. I know that ideally every child has two parents, but (and I quote the hysterical mother who occasionally appears on the Simpsons) what about the children? Moving to another country for the benefit of being closer to a father who fled in the first place? It doesn't appear that way to me.
I'm happy for European citizens to be free to come here and work. "How much can I earn?" but to ask "How much will I be given?"
Am I just in a bad mood this evening or what?