And I dont give a rats duk about morality I have no morality or how they fele or whether sex with them will affect them later, etc.
And this is why I'm worried about girls and women that may cross your path.
As for what you wrote about scammers, etc. - you're generalising about women, maybe to justify yourself. Women and girls you describe are a minority (at least in Poland).
What I've experienced from men and the impact it had on me and my attitude towards men and my life in general can't be compared to the "terrible" experiences you had with girls and women and yet I'm capable of being empathic towards men and boys and I treat them with respect and empathy when they approach me, I'm always honest and I'm not playing with their feelings. So you have no excuse.
I also don't understand this notion of being "used for drinks". If you think that a woman/girl will have sex with you only because you bought her a drink, then you're an idiot.
As far as I remember Samantha Geimer stated that Polański gave her alcohol, drugged her and raped her anally when she was 13 years old.
(possibly caused by the trauma of his wife's murder)
I doubt it was the main cause. There must have been something wrong with him before that. Other men have their wives murdered and they somehow don't turn into rapist peadophiles. Maybe the murder triggered a downward spiral, maybe it made things worse. But I think there was something dark in him before that. The murder happened in 1969. He made "Rosemary's Baby" in 1968. It hit me only now, but do you remember that Rosemary is being gradually drugged in the film only to be raped by the devil? On the night when she's supposed to conceive Minnie brings her a cup of drugged chocolate mousse. It tastes strange and Rosemary throws it away after a few mouthfuls. Then she passes out and is raped. Rosemary is completely alone in this film. She isn't believed that there's something wrong. When she shares her fears and suspicions with Dr.Hill he calls her abusers assuming that she's delusional.
Doesn't all of this sound disturbingly familiar?
Mia Farrow was 23, I think, at that time and looked fairly young - skinny, small breasts. And when you think about who married her and what happened later...
If you think that artist's work doesn't show at least to some extent what sits in his/her head then you're wrong...