funnily enough the longest lasting relationships i had were those with people i met socialising, not through work or school etc. the initial attraction and instinct had proven to be more reliable in my case rather than getting to know the person through days/weeks/months of interaction wherever it is you know them from and eventually starting to date.
i guess its different for different people, without saying you depend a lot on looks, obviously this is by far the most important factor for you as the way you meet & develop a relationship fundamentally surrounds the aesthetics, looks, dress, hair, how somebody carries themselves etc.
this is just my personal opinion, not saying it's a rule!
i know, its cool i'm just happy to discuss something with somebody for once instead of having a pointless argument :)
you think you know someone and then you start dating them lol... at least with people you meet on nights out there is no history, no gossip, no second hand advice.
surely this can be the same no matter where you meet somebody, you don't need to go through the life history if you meet somebody anywhere else?? as for gossip, that will get around where ever you are or whoever you are with, thats just my opinion :)
of course it's not, some people just have issues. or as someone i know harshly puts it, they are damaged goods. some are worth exploring and getting to know, some are better off with a shrink rather than a partner...
so while it was not my fault when we were together, it was a fcuk up getting with her in the first place :) i suppose i can accept that one. Maybe thats part of my problem, i see an issue and think i can fix it, when sometimes its not possible to be fixed, or the other person dosen't want to fix it.
ok you got me there, i can be a serious case of road rage sometimes ha ha...
lol, female road rage, what does that consist of?? taking of your high heels and stabbing people with them, or is it handbags and ten paces :):):):) hahaha. Mind you having just joked about it girl fights can be more dirty than blokes fighting, when they go at it they leave nothing in reserve, everything is on the line.
not really, but i'm not impressed cos i usually get a few spots on my face around that time ha ha... it's all about controlling your moods and not letting things (and men!) get to you ;)
well that is something i'm never going to have to deal with on a personal level (phew)
you missed out!!
well i guess i've plenty of time to go :)
i used to ask my ex why he didn't buy me flowers and his answer was always 'because they die'.
that is so true though, they do die, flowers are meant to represent the relationship. How can you give somebody flowers that die, does not bode well for the future of the relationship does it?? So for me flowers were off the list, there are plenty of other things you can buy as gifts for your girlfriend though, so its not that bad.
I find you the most agreeable.. wonder where I get that from? lol
you find me 'agreeable' i'll take that as a compliment, lol, from not ever getting any here ever i suddenly get two in a day.
perhaps the guy spent
all night out..
thats an issue of trust and arrangment, for example if i knew i was going to spend all night out away from my partner, i would always give her as much advanced notice as possible. It is then down to her to trust me, the fact that i won't be getting upto anythng that would bring that trust under threat. It is the same if the partner wants to stay out all night, nobody should have an issue if they know about it, the rest is down to trust, if they break that trust then its goodnight vienna!!!
or perhaps he didnt buy her flowers and she thought valentines day
meant something to him just as much as her, perhaps the games he watches with the
guys are more important then her at the moment and hes oblivious to it!!
I've always found Valentine's day a bit of a non-event, i mean, if you like somebody that much (love them). Surely you should be showing this emotion more than one time a year on February whatever it is!!! Love is an all year round thing, trips to Paris, nice dinners, gifts, presents should be an all year round thing when you feel like showing your love, not when your told to (as i see Valentine's day as being told to)
so she might feel like shes ignored, but when its time to roll around in the sheets,
she has to give him pleasure when hes spending time with others?
hang on a minute, 'she has to give him pleasure' i thought sex was a two way thing, your both meant to give each other enjoyment?? I mean if somebody is a selfish lover then that is apart from the rest of the stuff you mentioned above. Any girl who thinks that its a one way street when it comes to sex needs educating!!!!
lots of things cause negative.
Yeah and half the time you cannot see them coming, that is what makes it so dangerous, i can see signs for a lot of things when it comes to relationships but sometimes i just can't figure it out 100%.