Polish women never ever pay their own way and this is not good and explains why alot of them are a bit slutty!
if a guy asks me out i let him pay, isn't that how it's supposed to be? if he expects 'dessert' at the end he can order one from the menu. only tossers expect stuff like that when they take you out for the first time so even if you do pay for yourself it won't matter, they'll find another way to bed you and leave you but that might be more painful than finding out whom you're dealing with right at the start. your body langage and the way you handle the situation play the key role, letting or not letting the guy pay have nothing to do with anything. if you act like a lady then they will never try anything on with you. if you act slutty the you can pay for yourself but still be a slut. but then you have this sick satisfaction that you are just as good as any man hey!
if you pay your own way that's what you'll always be expected to do, and everytime they treat you they'll go on about it forever, or better, they'll ask you to pay for everything! the old traditional way is best and you are right that most of you UK ladies try to be so independent and show men you don't need them for anything as you can do it all yourself. you don't thank them for opening doors, helping you with your chair cos you can do it yourself and that's why so many of them are rude bast*rds because they think all women are so goddamn stuck up and proud. you have no femininity left in you, men want to take care of women not to be bossed around. so many guys i met here basically expect the woman to take charge and make all the decisions for them, choose where to go and what to do, it's insane. at least you realise what you're doing wrong!
I have one polish girlfriend who complained constantly when she got married that all her husband seemed to do was work, however she wanted holidays, meals in nice restaurants and didn't seem to make the connection between having to work and earning the money to pay for all these nice things,
there are some deluded, emotionally handicapped women like that everywhere and not just in Poland. treating a woman is totally different from sponsoring her.