Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait?

So a girl is interesting based off her passport?:)

The culture of a partilcular country can certainly shape the personalities of its people. In the States, for example, the culture strongly encourages ambition and individualism. While this has its downsides, it means that a lot of American girls have fun, sassy, bold characters. Unfortunately, most of the hot-looking ones seem to be only on TV. In Poland, the culture produces an inferiority complex and a rather more pessimistic attitude. Although they smile a lot, the girls tend to have passive, often boring characters and take things too seriously. Personally, I like independent girls who see themselves as individuals and aren't too influenced by their culture.

Really? I've been to the States multiple times and i'd say the culture creates a cult of following, kills individuality and the middle class has no ambition, in fact US middle class lives their whole lives in cheap suburb houses watching telly.


Have you even been to US? A lot of American girls are fat, a crushing majority are also sluts who had multiple sexual partners by 17.


Could you explain how does it produce such attitude?:)


How do these passive boring characters show off?


Personally i can see you're talking out of your arse no offence meant :)

Not since I was a child. I was talking about my experiences with Americans I've met in Europe. And I wasn't talking about their looks as I wrote. The American friends I have in Poland prefer Polish girls because they are on average prettier and lower maintenance.


The culture has also produced many 'role models' of success in different fields.


Wtf..do I really have to waste my time and energy arguing something that even many Poles admit themselves is true? Read a history book.


What do you mean show off?

Like what? Britney Spears? An average american teenager is a dumb unambitious often obese creature, the closest single word to describe Americans is cattle, these people are not concerned with goals or success, there is a small elite group that goes to private schools etc but they're a minority.


If we're basing off history then Poles never lost hope, never gave up and never backed down, how is that negative?

As for ambition, the only ambition issues we have in our relationship is that she's earning twice as much as i do which hurts a bloody lot.

how?:)

I beat her up whenever she brings more money then me.

I was referring to how their attitude towards the West has arisen from the communist and post-communist period - how they seem to blindly accept that everything that comes from the West is somehow 'superior', and that everything from Poland is 'inferior'. If you lived here you'd need a computer to calculate the number of times you hear the question "Why did you come to Poland?", "What are you doing in Poland?", "Why Poland? Why not [some other place]?" In each question the stress is on the word 'Poland' - like they cannot understand why anyone would want anything to do with this country. That, my friend, is an inferiority complex.


Come on...the innovation and achievement in business, science, music, film making etc.etc. is unparalelled. The culture makes it possible for people to believe in themselves and set big goals, if they should decide not to live like a dumb, ignorant, obese couch potato. Whether ambition is a good thing or not is another topic. Anway, my point was that this 'national confidence' must have some influence on the character, just as the Polish lack of it can explain some of their more 'negative' character traits.


Why should it? Make sure it gets spent on you!


That's a bit harsh, man :) I don't know these girls you are talking about but from the few posts I've read by 'Justysia', I'd say that she writes well in English and has opinions, which contradicts the general characteristics of a typical Polish village girl.

Yes!!! Let's label:

(in no particular order)

Irish Girls: Catholic, drunk, prude and looking at ways to get more (free) drinks from guys;
English Girls: Drunk, oversexed, ridiculously easy when drunk, loud;
Dutch Girls: Want to "talk" about EVERYTHING, easy if you're not Dutch, not as often drunk as they should be;
Polish Girls: Catholic, drunk, promiscuous, slutty when drunk, ****** when not drunk, after your money, two-timing and over-the-top;
German Girls: a bit too much of everything, extreme, when h*rny - dirty h*rny;
French Girls: coquet, unshaved, don't wash hands after toilet, smelly;
Belgian Girls: Confused, cute, say the most vicious things with the cutest smile you've ever seen;
Austrian Girls: you still need permission of the parents to go out with them - no matter how old they are, boring, prude;
Swiss Girls: do Swiss girls exist?
Italian Girls: Catholic, prude, not really outgoing and hardly a chance if you're not Italian;
Spanish Girls: good fun, easy going, arrogant, easy when drunk;
Brazilian Girls: SEX - porque no?.

M-G (label is as label does - happy labelling)

Western girls(german,english,dutch,swedish):Allow you to talk to them and touch them in discos.
2.Often in company of men
3.Not very horny
Slavic girls:(polish,czech,russian):Allow you to talk to them,touch them,kiss them in discos.
2.Often in company of women
3.Usually horny

really? they're mostly drunk and want to get down to business..

southern

Hey Southern, don't steal my joke :)

But indeed, you reminded me of the ones I forgot:

Swedish girls: like to get drunk on your expense (with the emphasis on EXPENSIVE), talk about sex openly and freely and are not afraid to put the deed to the word. Not very good in bed though;

Danish girls: so horny, it's disgusting, good beer drinkers, buying you loads of drinks;
Norwegian girls: are keen to show off they are rich, you get loads of free nights out (viva emancipation:) ) and are REALLY good in bed (damn, I haven't had a Norwegian girl who wasn't a goddess in bed), try to be overly smart, though.

Finnish girls: ahhw so sweet...Finnish girls, that would be nice.


When they are not drunk :) And that is most of the time, that is, when you're dutch yourself.

M-G (mea culpa for this discrepancy in my previous post)

True, our lovely ladies like to speak hours, can make up a whole story of the pair of boots they just bought :P

And they are masters in analysing your performance right after the sex :)
But in fact, Dutch girls are the best girls, I think. Straightforward and honest (at least as far as a woman can be honest) and no hidden layers as with some other women I know.

M-G (Dutch and proud to be)

that's true, they are very direct and honest, very good points indeed

I'd rather have that than them saying they like you so much, but talk bad about you behind your back. And that is what a lot of Polish girls do. They don't seem to speak their mind that often, unfortunately.

M-G (is generally very direct too - watch the "How to irritate ppl"-scene of the guy asking the other guy for a lift)

A typical Polish girl is not a mindless monkey, speaking english is not rocket science, i've been beating this horse but she's from a low income small town, probably poor family, she grabbed the first foreigner she could and from that they on looks down on Polish men since its a social advance in her eyes.

Justysias is as perfect stereotype of a village girl as you can find, simple, gold digging and with a set of principles that include 1. move abroad. 2 marry a foreigner. 3. preferrably with money. 4. get back home sometime to enjoy the jelous looks of others.

Mind you she's not the only one on these boards she's just the most obvious and extreme example and like you said you read only a few of her posts.

If you want to get into negative traits then you have all the justysias from some god forsaken holes in Poland searching for their one true "love" abroad, sometimes they get gold and date a white guy but whenever you see a white girl with some black, asian or other type of paki you've got a 50% chance its a Polish girl, they'll date stuff that most white English girls wont touch just because it has a passport.

You don't know anything about her life, why be judgemental?

Leave britney alone!!!!

I say LOL

she even performed for you, you bastards...Leave britney alone!!!

HAHAHAHA what a retard!!!

Quite a lot, she's from a small town - check. Moved abroad early to make a living - check. Dates a foreigner - check. Spoke derisively about Polish men - check.

I'm not judging her, i can be wrong ofc (though im prolly not) i'm just using her as a handy example of small town golddiggers that about especially in Eastern Poland.


That was one disturbing youtube contribution right there.

ahahaha i know right, what a psicho freaking retard..

because he does not know any better;)

It seems you and I are familiar with different scenes. I'm not that familiar with the ex-pat Polish scene outside Poland. I have no reason to seek out Polish girls when I'm in England but I'm surrounded by them in Poland obviously. A village girl to me is a simple girl from a small town, studying/working in a larger town, having no opinions of her own on anything, brainwashed by Catholicism, very low maintenance, dodgy dress sense, limited sense of humour, etc., etc. There are varying degrees of 'villageness' of course. Also, Polish girls in Poland aren't too crazy about foreigners - at least not as much as they used to be. And in Krakow, foreigners, especially Brits, have managed to achieve such a bad reputation that many Polish girls try to avoid them these days.


Even in Poland they date stuff that Western girls wouldn't touch. More often than not I see a decent-looking girl with either some vulgar Addidas-wearing ape, or a total 'pantoflarz' (i.e. a submissive, insecure, jealous, a@@-kissing type guy). Many girls here are very unselective, which lots of guys who come here like about them, but the drawback is that if you consider yourself a decent guy, and you want to have some fun in the evening, you have to compete with all the losers in the club. I'm not one for political correctness, and I see what you are trying to say about black/asian etc guys, but that last statement of yours seems a bit strong.

Yes,I noticed that.The same with german girls you can have a discussion about bondage,politics or anything out of the blue.They discuss topics like men,no women perspective.


True again.And damn,drinks in Sweden are bloody expensive.


Also true.But why is this good?I prefer the complexity of byzantine style thinking aka russian girls.


They actually have some weird criteria for selection.For example if they see a handsome guy they may think:''How is it possible that such a handsome guy has no wife or girlfriend?He is either a cheater or he may have bad personality traits.''And they will choose the more mediocre looking guy over him.

They also choose guys with expressive faces over the plastic type doll looking ones with the smile which are usually preferred among western women.So between an expressive guy(even if the expression is a very big nose) and a plastic doll looking one,they will choose the former.

I find these selection criteria weird.However it is not difficult to compete against such losers and balkan penis always prevails at the end.

fcuk off you sado. i don't know you but so far you proved to be an arrogant, sexist, pathetic little twat who's all talk but no substance, hiding behind your computer screen which is the only place where you can freely express your hatred towards all women who ever rejected you in your sad life. i don't think Polish men are a God's gift to women that's a fact, and just that statement makes me a gold digger? does it mean all Polish men are poor?? i prefer UK guys cos i find them more attractive, both physically and character wise, just get on better with them than i do with arrogant Polish guys, who are hardly ever good looking as well! i'm guessing you're a minger too, hence your degrading comments cos deep down you know girls like me would never want someone like you. yes i'm making a living abroad, and no i don't think i want to move back to Poland, there's nothing appealing for me there at this moment and everytime i visit i'm more sure of that. i'm no gold digger, my boyfriend isn't rich bless him but he's lovely, and he would never speak to a woman or talk about women the way you do, you bitter, self centered ass*hole. put a sock in it and lighten up a bit.

Weird, yes. I have seen some quite astonishing mis-matches during my years here. But I'm not only talking about physical appearance. The wuss-like behaviour of many of their loser boyfriends would be enough to put off most western girls - e.g. getting visibly jealous and angry their women check out/talk to other guys, submissively allowing their women to lead them everywhere, etc. I could be wrong here, but I believe that the influence of the church and parental conditioning means that girls put the ideal of a family above everything else and perhaps they think a mediocre, less challenging guy is going to be more stable and a better candidate for a husband, even though such a guy cannot satisfy their every need. In western cultures, good-looking women tend to be more ambitious and demanding. I would like to read some Polish girls' opinions on this, but I realise that the girls on this forum probably do not represent the majority of Polish girls in Poland.


Looks like you've seen me 'in action' then ;)

I don't believe it.They talk about marriage in order to take out the guilty feeling of sleeping with sb.I think if sb told them sth like ''I want to bind you and fek your brains out'' he would have very good chances to see compliance.

I was talking about why they end up in long-term relationships with mediocre guys who seem not to be able to satisfy them. Obviously, during those relationships many of them will sleep with other guys too.