Go for it and then come back and start talking sense.
Right after you try the life of a working Polish woman :) - doing two jobs, one at work and one at home. I can see by the tone of your comments concerning taking care of children, cooking and housework that all of that was done by your ex-wife when you were still married, so you don't know what it's like. I'm also guessing that after divorce your daughter stayed with her mom, right?
That would make you a person I would respect.
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You've got to be kidding me :D Would you resign from your job and taking care of your own family in order to live with your parents and help your mother in taking care of your niece? My brother and his wife aren't invalids. My mother takes care of my niece if they're both working. She offered herself to do that, because she's retired and so she has the time. In fact, she retired earlier so my sister-in-law could go back to work, although I advised my mother not to do this, since she'd get lower retirement because of that.
Is that your sister/brother child? Its your family how can you be so cold?
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I love my niece, but I'm just one of her relatives - she has parents and grandparents who can take care of her. If my brother and sister-in-law died and my parents weren't able to take care of her then it would be my duty to take up the daily care of her. Since they are all alive and well - it's not my duty.
You can be selfish and bitter about your father
How am I being selfish about my father?? lol
, but your father has no right to live as he wants after his children become adults?
You mean - after his children became adults he can continue to be a lousy husband and a crappy grandfather? Well, sure he can lol But then I can call it the way it is - that he's a lousy husband and a crappy grandfather.
Btw, if my father doesn't want to help my mother in taking care of his own granddaughter, he could at least help his own wife by doing the shopping, by making supper for her when she's tired after a whole day of taking care of a small, lively kid.
But he wasn't and isn't doing that. Do you understand?
If I can understand that my mother is tired (you don't have to be a telepath for that) and it would be simply basic human decency to at least make some sanwiches for her for supper after she comes back tired and hungry (because she didn't manage to eat dinner) from shopping, then why my father can't understand that? Is he a moron? Or a selfish, lazy, inconsiderate a$$hole?